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Patria, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Vinita

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About Me

I like spending my time with folks who try to see the bright side of things and are generally in a good mood. You should be intelligent, educated, and motivated but you work to live, not live to work.I like a "guy's guy"--baseball cap, athletic, laid back. I'm not really into this whole metrosexual movement. Don't get me wrong, a man in a button down shirt with the sleeves rolled is super sexy but you shouldn't take longer to get ready than I do.You need to be honest, kind, communicative, and loyal, and I will be the same for you. I love to laugh--but then again, really, who doesn't? I'm smart, sassy, sensitive, sarcastic, and stubborn. And apparently have a thing for adjectives that start with an S. I'm a bit of a nerd and even play on a weekly trivia team. Don't judge... ;)I've recently started volunteering with an organization that provides companionship to people in hospice care. It has really made me focus on the fact that life is short and you've got to get out there and be happy! On a related note, I'm athletic but SO not a runner, but I started training for a 5k in March. Not sure I'd say I'm hooked but then I did the 5k to 10k program. Finished that, just did the Army ***Then I'm done--turns out I have a torn hip--doc said the "s" word.Animal lover is a must as I have 2 dogs and a horse.And bonus points to anyone who not only has luggage but uses it as I try to get out of the country at least once a year.Really, all I'm looking for is a good guy. Are you still out there??Edited to add that I don't really get the "meet me" feature. If you want to meet me, you're gonna have to man up and write me a note. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking American Caribbean Japanese Middle Eastern Sport Basketball Watching Sports
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