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Lanelle, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Tishomingo

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About Me

I like to take long drives in the country. I love to go out on the lake in a boat and my favorite time in a boat is when we take it up on plane and go skimming over the water, it is almost like flying. I love to travel, but I also love to come home. I like to BBQ in the summer, but it is not unusual for me to pull the cover off my grill in the winter and have BBQ in the middle of January as well. I like to try out different recipes and I have considered taking a cooking class (I just have to find the time, lol). I love to be able to cuddle on the couch and watch a movie, or cuddle in front of a fire on a cold night outside cuddled under the same blanket.(not too often, remember that cold toosh, lol) I am looking to join an gym and start a new workout routine, anyone want to help me figure one out? Family means everything to me, family includes those that are blood as well as those we choose. What I am looking for, I am looking for my best friend, a man that is good with children, a man that is even tempered, a man that is goal oriented, a man that sees what he wants and goes after it, A man that is faithful, takes responsibility for his own actions and does not blame others, communication, trust, and honesty in a relationship are a necessity for me.I am looking for FRIENDS ONLY(for now), I do not believe in casual sex, if you read above, I am only separated, not yet divorced. That being said, please do not message me if you want to have a quickie, please do not message me if you need a sex buddy, I truly am looking for friends and like minded people. I refuse to start a new relationship until the old one is completed. I do not want, nor am I ready for any commitment. So the question that I get is why a dating site for friends, well, lets be honest, no one wants to be alone, I have no intention of being alone for the rest of my life, this site does not give one the option of, "Hey, lets start out as friends and if and when the time is right maybe we can be more." Yes, eventually I will be looking for a relationship but not right now. However, I believe that any good, strong relationship should start out as friends. I don't like drama and I don't play games. Anything you want to know feel free to ask and I will be more than happy to answer. Are we in my fantasy or reality?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Linnette from Tishomingo | Woman | 39 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    seriously how many times do I have to change my profile because of crazy freaks on here. It may seem long but if you would take time to read it, it would save us all time. 1. U must hot have pics in ur undies in your profile (thats weird) 2. you must not be a convicted felon or a drug addict. 3. If you yell and punch things when angry...message the next girl. 4. If you dont shower.. just gross. 5. No i dont want to sleep with you AND/or your wife. 5b. NO I do not and can not come over to your house tonight (that is dangerous and not what I am looking for. 5C Since half of you ask such stupid questions, no I do not want to be hit, slapped, whipped, or choked during any kind of intimate moment ever. (Where do you guys come from, try a different dating sight... but am hurrying. PATIENCE young grasshoper...patience... good things come to those who wait right???? :) i will be there end of oct to look at jobs and a place :) i would like to go into this new chapter of my life feeling like i know someone, and perhaps in the process something great will be found.;meant to be" and am hoping there is a person meant for me there as well. i am spontaneous and silly, yet love to have deep conversations when the situation calls for it. i want someone i can have fun swimming with sharks, or simply doing nothing at all. love has burnt me once or twice, but i want to find that silly, crazy, trusting side of myself again...the one who can dive into someones arms and knock them onto the floor simply because i havent seen them since breakfast. i want to surprise and be surprised :) i adore animals and would like to find the same in a partner. my favorite 2 smells are the ocean and horses (dunno what thats about). i love working out, traveling, watching basketball and tennis, and adventure. i want someone who takes pride in them selves, but not to the point that it gets in the way of life. i like someone motivated with goals, but i want family and love to be the #1 goal. i am tired of finding someone who likes the "idea of me". i am a free spirit who can very much take care of myself. i do not want someone to "take care of me" but it would be nice to take care of eachother. ive realized over the years my list of "must haves" that the most important of all is laughter, and ofcourse honesty. i want to let my guard down and see whats in store... is it you? lets find out. if the most i find is a good friend then it shall be worth it!! the center of my world is a 16 yo sidekick (also known as my son) :)so basically i want a man with the goals of a minivan driver, the personality of a race car driver, the intelligence of a hybrid, and the sense of humor of the mystery machine. (k its late and i have no idea where that came from) gotta throw a yacht in there too somewhere haha. and my disclaimer is: u snore like a bear and YOU ARE OUT. snuggling is a MUST so if u fall asleep and rollover you will find a foot up your butt. and manners are a huge turn on :) i probably should mention i am a bit picky, but il save that til date 3 or so... :) and please realize this is a process, and this website is full of some... stranger fish... so understand when i do not give you my #. And don't accuse me of not being a real person. If I was fake I would have went WAY taller, way younger and with way better hair . sky diving??? scuba diving?? stargazing?? picnic? quiet dinner and conversation??? im up for anything!!!!!!!! wait no coffee dates - thats lame :-) partial skinny dipping?

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  • Karma from Tishomingo | Woman | 37 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    IMPORTANT - LIRE MON PROFIL JUSQU'À LA FIN!!!!!Je suis une femme souriante et toujours de bonne humeur...ou presque! J'aime rire et m'amuser.à développer...on verra!Aucune attirance pour les gros bras sans cervelle. Je n'ai aucune patience avec les douchebags superficiels et puisque ce site compte un nombre incalculable de femmes qui vous cherchent, vous n'aurez aucun problème à trouver votre âme sœur... elle aussi probablement sans cervelle.Voici ma définition d'un bel homme: Le bel homme n'est pas nécessairement le plus beau physiquement, mais il est certainement le plus vrai, le plus honnête. C'est celui qui ne s'occupe pas uniquement de son nombril... il pense aussi aux autres qui l'entourent. Le physique est important, certes l'homme doit me plaire physiquement, mais il doit avoir une personnalité agréEn terminant, sachez que j'accorde une importance capitale à l'écriture, savoir écrire sa langue, tant française qu'anglaise est un plus et la base de toute culture. Aussi, notez que j'ai horreur des piercings, je préfère de loin le raffinement au look rebelle... J'ai depuis longtemps passé ma phase adolescente.Également, si vous avez écrit 37 ans, mais qu'en réalité vous en avez 50 ou 60 et plus... j'ai déjà un papa que j'adore, alors laissez tomber.ÊME PAS LA PEINE DE M'ÉCRIRE!!!! JE SUIS UNE PERSONNE TRÈS BRILLANTE ET JE M'ESTIME BEAUCOUP TROP POUR NE PAS ME FAIRE RESPECTER.

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  • Melani from Tishomingo | Woman | 38 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a confident, ambitious woman that is not looking for someone to rescue me, or be rescued. I am a single mom that enjoys attending all my son's sporting events and taking him new places. When he is with his dad, I enjoy meeting friends for drinks and dancing, taking nice drives, spending time at the lake and having people over to the house. I am fairly successful and enjoy my job, however it is not my life. I work to live, not live to work! I am close to my family and think each day is a blessing! I am unique in that I am comfortable dressed professionally for work, jeans and shorts on the weekends and I always have a baseball hat in my car! I am feminine and like to be treated like a lady, but I am also not afraid to get my hands dirty. I can be a little sarcastic and have a bad habit of speaking my mind :)I enjoy a mix of music from Contemporary Christian to Country to Hair Nation on Sirius! I would like to meet someone that has similar tastes, but not exactly the same, adventure is the spice of life! My faith is important to me, I am a Christian and am committed to raising my son in a Christian home.

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