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Matilde, 36

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About Me

I wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm sensative, caring, and would rather listen to how your day was than talk about mine. I will bend over backward to help someone no matter what it might do to me. I've been hurt a lot in the past and tend to be guarded behind sarcasm and teasing believing that a real man can see past that. I hate being called "Strong" but most people would say that describes me. What I am is a fighter, but sometimes I wish I didn't have to be. I am "Me". I am the girl that will wear pajamas to the Grocery Store. I am the Mom that will play Soccer with my Son and cheer at all his accomplishments and will always kiss and hug him even when he says he hates me. I will scream at seeing snakes, mice, and spiders. I will figure out how to fix what is broken from the toilet to the stuffed animal to the heart. I workout several times a week because I need all the energy I can get to keep up with my boy and he loves that I am strong enough to catch him and lift him in my arms. In reality, I'm a Mom. =) I have learned to accept that I'm not 19 anymore, and if GAP says I'm a size 6, then who am I to argue? What I want, what I miss, is the other part of me. Loving glances meaningful conversations and acceptance of me and all that I love.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lajuana

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am an honest, genuine and caring person.I take family, relationships and friendships very serious. I love to have fun and LOVE to laugh. Ultimately I am looking for my best friend and someone who will be true to me and my kids in our relationship. I realize that all relationships are built on the foundation of a friendship. So of course, that is where I would like to start. Things I look forward to are: Someone who gives me butterflies Excitement to call "you" and share about my day.Someone to curl up with after a long day.Someone who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with him....andA true gentlemanI have been blessed with 2 wonderful girls. They are the ones that make me smile each day and make me realize that life is good. Things I love...Being outdoors when the sun is shiningSpending time with my familyRoad trips/TravelingWorking outWalks on the beachHearing others LaughInside jokes

  • Mei

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a straight forward kind of woman who enjoys life! I love my kids and spending time with my best friends. I am interested in exploring new things in life and seeing if I have other interests I never knew I had. I want a man who stands beside me not in front or behind me! I want a guy who will not only make me smile but understand when I need a ear to listento me. I tell it how it is, I would rather be hurt by the truth then happy with a lie. If your interested in knowing more send me a message. Anything fun, OK let me rephrase that, if its legal fun and not out of line I am up for it.Maybe dinner and mini golfHow about roller skatingAnything really as long as we can talk and laugh

  • Isabella

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    This is probably the hardest part . . . describing myself - yikes! I am passionate about life, friendships, and good times. I am the type of woman that is comfortable in either tennis shoes or heels ~ blue jeans or black dresses. I believe that although life can be challenging sometimes, the reward is greater than the challenge. I am easy to please and feel that the way you treat others is more important than material gain. I am an independent woman, successful in my career and confident in the decisions I've made in life. Honesty is the number one quality I am seeking in someone. A good sense of humor is a must. I am a major football fan (~~). I am passioniate about volunteering and working with local environmental groups. But don't just assume that I am one of those crazy extremists that goes around hugging trees. I love muscle cars and motorcycles and I do eat meat. I just believe in doing my part to make up for the damage I may have on our environment. I love almost all kinds of music (I seem to not be able to live without my iPod***favorites are rock n' roll and yes I don't keep it a secret that I am a lover of the 80's. I also like blues, oldies, heavy metal, some country, a little pop - not to fond of hard core rap though. ***I figure a new year is just around the corner so why not add a little more to my profile. :-) I'm not looking for a "hookup" or just a "booty call" - I want something with substance and has value! I have so much going on, so I'm not looking to jump into a relationship off the bat, but would like to get to know someone and share some great moments that builds up into a relationship. I found a new love for camping, hiking, kayaking, biking - anything outdoors . . . I try to find time in between work, school, and my volunteering with the Sierra Club. It would be nice to find a friend to join me who still believes in monogamy.***Wow! Guess what another update. Should I eventually delete some of this or just keep an ongoing journal of sorts? I wanted to be closer to my family and realized that as I get older . . . so do they. I want to spend time with them, before I have any regrets that I did not spend enough time with them while they were still around! I still have the same passions and ideals . . . just have a different zip code."I am only one, but I am still one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something.""Never discourage anyone who continually makes progress, no matter how slow" What would I do for a first date? Geez . . . just about anything. Not into the bar scene for an everyday occurence, but if there is a good band playing maybe it's something we could do. Or maybe there's a batting cage close by. Or see how bad we are at bowling. Or try a game of miniature golf? Or maybe just something as simple as a walk around a park. Or we could always check out a car show or maybe take a drive to the drag strip and watch a few races. There's so many things to do. What's your idea?

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