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Janie, 35
United States, Oklahoma, Lone Grove

Offline, last seen Wed, 25 Mar 2026 02:15:13

About Me

Im a pretty shy person until I get to know someone. I love all kinds of music and I love to watch football and basketball! I love different kinds of art and I love to make things myself. I tend to be pretty independent too. Im far from a pushover but would rather walk away than to do or say something I will regret later. My personality runs the gauntlet from silly to serious and I tend to have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. I am VERY protective of those I call family and friends.I tend to look at things alot differently than most and I try to keep an open mind and not judge people for their pasts....because that's exactly what it is...the past. I dont think people should try to change others because then you change what makes up the person you were attracted to to begin with. I also like to try new things....within reason LOL! I think everyone needs their own friends and their own space or it can tend to wear a person down.I think the reason most relationships fail is because of lack of communication or people think that a relationship should simply "BE" rather than working at it.....if you want it to last you have to invest all of yourself and work hard to maintain it. I have been single for awhile. I needed the time to find ME again and to work on my self confidence. I found me and Im working on the self confidence thing. I dont sit around and whine about it...believe me...I tend to internalize rather than externalize things like that. I have two children who are my world, 1 girl and 1 boy. They both live with me full time and anyone who wants to e with me has got to be able to understand that I will NEVER put anyone before them....EVER. I have yet to get beyond a couple of conversations with someone without them lying or some other shady shit.....If you cant be honest in a phone convo I sure as hell dont want to meet your ass....REALLY!?! Obviously you are just lookin to get laid as well....piss off I got no time for that. Ya'll men need to get your sh*ttogether and stop treating every woman like the $2 street hoes you're used to sleeping with within an hour of meeting them! You have no respect for them or yourself and its pathetic. How would you feel if someone treated your daughter the way you treat the women you speak to? Grow up and stop acting like sex starved pathetic ***holes....it makes you look desperate and that is NOT attractive!And for you men who put that you want a relationship or are actively seeking one....only to change your story once you start talkin to someone....you are just as pathetic! Playing games is for children not grown men. I get why you do it....simply to get into a girls pants....but I can tell you that that will not work with me so do us both a favor and dont waste my time.I am generally not a **** but the behavior of about every single "man" who has contacted me on here has me thoroughly disgusted. I DO NOT NEED A MAN IN MY LIFE....I want one there to share life with.....so do not mistake me for some money hungry hoe who will do anything to get your attention.DO NOT MESSAGE ME BEING DISRESPECTFUL! IM SICK OF GETTING EVERY PERVERT ON THIS SIGHT! I will not tolerate being disrespected....period! I realize you mens' minds are in the gutter ***of the time but get your sh*t together or move on. I have no time for someone who has no more class than to message a woman being disrespectful. Just depends I suppose on the person.....though I've never understood going to a movie when you are trying to get to know someone because you can't talk....then again if you arent really into the person a movie theater would probably be perfect LOLz!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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