SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Janie
Online
Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 32-42
Im a pretty shy person until I get to know someone. I love all kinds of music and I love to watch football and basketball! I love different kinds of art and I love to make things myself. I tend to be pretty independent too. Im far from a pushover but would rather walk away than to do or say something I will regret later. My personality runs the gauntlet from silly to serious and I tend to have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. I am VERY protective of those I call family and friends.I tend to look at things alot differently than most and I try to keep an open mind and not judge people for their pasts....because that's exactly what it is...the past. I dont think people should try to change others because then you change what makes up the person you were attracted to to begin with. I also like to try new things....within reason LOL! I think everyone needs their own friends and their own space or it can tend to wear a person down.I think the reason most relationships fail is because of lack of communication or people think that a relationship should simply "BE" rather than working at it.....if you want it to last you have to invest all of yourself and work hard to maintain it. I have been single for awhile. I needed the time to find ME again and to work on my self confidence. I found me and Im working on the self confidence thing. I dont sit around and whine about it...believe me...I tend to internalize rather than externalize things like that. I have two children who are my world, 1 girl and 1 boy. They both live with me full time and anyone who wants to e with me has got to be able to understand that I will NEVER put anyone before them....EVER. I have yet to get beyond a couple of conversations with someone without them lying or some other shady shit.....If you cant be honest in a phone convo I sure as hell dont want to meet your ass....REALLY!?! Obviously you are just lookin to get laid as well....piss off I got no time for that. Ya'll men need to get your sh*ttogether and stop treating every woman like the $2 street hoes you're used to sleeping with within an hour of meeting them! You have no respect for them or yourself and its pathetic. How would you feel if someone treated your daughter the way you treat the women you speak to? Grow up and stop acting like sex starved pathetic ***holes....it makes you look desperate and that is NOT attractive!And for you men who put that you want a relationship or are actively seeking one....only to change your story once you start talkin to someone....you are just as pathetic! Playing games is for children not grown men. I get why you do it....simply to get into a girls pants....but I can tell you that that will not work with me so do us both a favor and dont waste my time.I am generally not a **** but the behavior of about every single "man" who has contacted me on here has me thoroughly disgusted. I DO NOT NEED A MAN IN MY LIFE....I want one there to share life with.....so do not mistake me for some money hungry hoe who will do anything to get your attention.DO NOT MESSAGE ME BEING DISRESPECTFUL! IM SICK OF GETTING EVERY PERVERT ON THIS SIGHT! I will not tolerate being disrespected....period! I realize you mens' minds are in the gutter ***of the time but get your sh*t together or move on. I have no time for someone who has no more class than to message a woman being disrespectful. Just depends I suppose on the person.....though I've never understood going to a movie when you are trying to get to know someone because you can't talk....then again if you arent really into the person a movie theater would probably be perfect LOLz!!
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Shirlee
Online
Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
So here are my general thoughts on online dating. I see this as quite simply a way of meeting people that you might get along with (and possibly date) who you wouldn't have met otherwise. I'm not a big fan of the whole, let's do all the small talk online or over the phone - isn't that what first dates are supposed to be for? Plus then, at least if there is no connection you haven't already used up all the easy topics! I say, if we think we might have a connection, let's just meet, have a drink, and maybe see where things go. As Popeye would say, "I y'am what I y'am." I'm passionate about what I care about, empathetic, I try not to take myself or the world too seriously and I can easily laugh and myself and the ridiculous that is life sometimes, and I'm looking for someone who can as well. Overall, I'm looking for a guy who is witty, fun, and who could never be described as generic. I love intelligence without pretentiousnes and kindness with a sense of humor. Though it doesn't need to happen tomorrow, ultimately I am looking for a relationship and I'm looking for someone who wants the same. On a lighter note... "This guy goes to a psychiatrist and says, "Doc, my brother's crazy; he thinks he's a chicken." And the doctor says, "Well, why don't you turn him in?" The guy says, "I would, but I need the eggs." Well, I guess that's pretty much now how I feel about relationships; y'know, they're totally irrational, and crazy, and absurd, but, uh, I guess we keep goin' through it because most of us... need the eggs."-flicks in general...;.... Food: Sushi, Steak, Wine, Cheese, Bacon Other Stuff: Sociology, Fresh Flowers, Organization Stores (it's weird, I know), Flea Markets, Photography, Animals, Brunch Generally I like to meet somewhere for drinks and apps, if we like each other, we can continue to dinner, if not, we go our separate ways!
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Laureen
Online
Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
i am not used to showcasing my accolades, but here goes... i am a taurus woman in every way. i have three children, who are my LIFE. my family is heavily involved in my day to day and we spend a lot of time together. if this is intimidating to you, go ahead on... i love to entertain, and have a lot of dinner parties at my house with my hugely varied group of friends. i have no room in my life for a jealous man. if i am forced to choose, you will not be the winner. i have very little free time, and would love to spend it having fun, drinking good drink and eating interesting cuisine. speaking of cuisine, mine is hard to beat, so restaurants are hard to choose for me. in the summer you will often find me in my garden or at the pool. there is nothing more soothing to me than having my hands in the dirt. Not to mention the incredible rewards you reap from your plants.I get fancy on occasion, and enjoy doing so, but am fairly low maintenance. if you live with your mother, you need not apply. if you have more than two baby mommas, you need not apply. i am stable where i am and want the same in a man. i am far from perfect, but have much to offer and would like to be appreciated for it. i am a ride or die chick for my man, sometimes to a fault. this is a blessing and a curse. Most of all iI want to laugh, be smiled at by my man when he comes home. So thats me in a nutshell yall"See I picks my friends like I pick my fruit&;**please come at me with something wittier than wassup sexy... or hi beautiful*** yawn i havent been on a date in so long i have no idea, somewhere other than my house lol i stay in here a lil too much to spend my free time here