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Abigayle, 35
United States, Ohio, Vandalia

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About Me

I am just going to say this!! I DON'T DATE BLACK GUYS!!! Now that I have said that,continue to read!!Don't get mad at me, if you ask me something and I actually tell you. I am finding that guys here do one thing and say another. Really annoyed at that! Hey. I'm a very down to earth person. I move to TN on Oct 4th from VA. I have lived in 7 states, due to my job. I love sports. Bears and Cubs are my fav. I like to surf and play golf. I love outdoors. I work for the Federal Government, which has been interesting in itself for the last couple years.I have a 10 yr old son, if you don't like kids or scared of them, you can stop reading now. I don't want to waste your time or mine. But then again it's not like you would meet him right off anyway, since I keep that part of my life away until I'm ready to let someone get that close to me.What I'm looking for is, someone that is honest, funny, caring, smart, nice, athletic.. Wait that’s on every single profile. Ok let's get real.. Every person wants all that. And most people only have 1 or 2 of those qualities at once. So let's start with something like this. Sure I want all of the things most people want. But I mainly want someone that wants me, as much as I want him. I want a guy to be my best friend, that I can laugh with and at. That doesn't have a problem telling me when I'm messing up, cuz I do need some straightening up at times. I want someone to push me to my boundaries or over them. I want someone one that is not afraid to put everything out there, that won't hold anything back for me. Ok I guess that is what I want along with all the other little things.People have baggage. We all know this. I'm fine with all that. But if your not over an ex girlfriend/wife. I'm not the girl for you. I am really tired of dating guys and everything is fine for a couple months of dating, and then all of a sudden, they start saying I miss my Ex or my Ex did this or that (bad mouthing them). I'm not perfect, I have baggage. But I'm completely over my ex-husband and any of my ex boyfriends. I would like someone to be the same, over their ex's. To the guys that want to date every woman out there, I am not the woman for you. When I'm into someone I'm into someone. And don't date any other guys cuz I want to see where it may go. And if I'm doing that and your dating around, just won't work. Plus it's not fair to me.Oh and drama is not in my life. Sure my friends have tons of it, and I get to see their drama a lot and help them. But it is not in my life. And I can honestly say that. Life is to short to be worried about who's sleeping with who, or I can't believe she is dating him type of thing. I'm 34 not 21. So it's not in my life. I'm not judgmental, never have been so that's probably why I don’t have drama. I coach soccer and play co-ed softball. Since I just moved here I need to find a co-ed team. I am pretty active person. No Movies, they are so inpersonable! I'm up for anything but movies, like meet for drinks or a baseball game.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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