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Lashandra, 32

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About Me

I have been on my own with my son since he was born and have discovered how independent I have become. I don't "need "someone to take care of us but I want someone to "want" to be apart of our family. I am a Mortgage Processor by day and work at a haunted house at night during the season. Everything has it's place. I'm a perfectionist and like to have things cleaned. I am a creature of habit and routine. I am very sarcastic and the person that makes my family laugh. I never leave the house without make up (love my hat on the weekends!I dislike laundry and unloading the dishwasher. I hate when the cashier hands you back your change on top of dollar bills OR when parents are bad examples for their children when they are in public.Looking for a guy who could put a smile on my face anytime, turn my world around when I am sad, make me feel like I am the only person in the room, send random flowers or show up with them, make a homemade card or leave a little note, enjoy to be around my family and not afraid to be silly and enjoys games (card/board).Don't play games, be upfront, honest and don't be shady. I am a little old fashioned where I expect to have the door opened for me but I do not expect guys to always pay. Just be a gentleman. I would prefer to be able to talk not go to the movies and sit quiet in the dark. I am a softy for anything romantic. And no I won't meet you after you message me once.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ailee

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I have three girls so they are who I'm about. I don't have time for games and I don't have time to raise a man either. All I want is sincere honesty and will give the same. I tend to speak what's on my mind and sometimes trust more than I should but far from naive. I'm caring and a cuddler but every intentions of keeping things real and slow...honest friendships build lasting relationships. surprise me

  • Lyndia

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    i have a 5 year old daughter who i love with all my heart i go out once a week with friends to go dancing. i like all most kinds of movies music and sports. i plan on going back to school at some point. my daughter takes most of my time but i still have time to do what i like. I get every other weekend to myself she is in school 5 days a week im down to earth easy going HONEST I love to laugh and have a good time I like being outside going for walks to the beach having cook outs bon fires so im at the point where im getting sick of being played with the bull crap games if your TRUELY INTERESTED IN DATING ME then make that clear and DONT BOTHER if you start out by saying so by texting/calling/seeing me if you looking for fwb hang outs or short term don't bother! I want something that will last some of the things I look for in a guy is honesty great personality/sense of humor he's got to make me laugh he has to be good with kids has a job a car his own place not a fleon or been in jail for the following reasons ANY assult charges drug charges b&e and anything along those lines I know its a lot to ask for but I have to keep it safe with having a child in the home it depends on the person

  • Sherah

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Well, I am single again. Met a guy off here beginning if the year, thought I had finally found love but as it turns out it was only one sided...I don't want someone who is looking for something casual or temporary...I want to fall in love with someone who loves me back...I want someone who wants a family and has something to offer...I want a partner. **i don't discriminate against people based on race, if your a decent honest guy, I don't care if your black, white or whatever** I love music, it's an absolutely amazing connection that I feel with music. I love to sing, and write. I spend my days working on the phone and then being mom. That's my most important job. I take it very seriously. I love to cook, although I'm not a fan of cleaning. I also enjoy movies as long as they aren't horror movies.I am a customer service rep and I make fairly good money. I enjoy my job, actually I LOVE my job! If you want to know more just ask.So apparently since I am a plus sized girl that means I am supposed to hate myself and dream of being skinny? I am sorry, but that is simply not my style. I also do not believe that just because I am heavy it means that I am not allowed to have standards in who I date. If you are NOT interested in a confident, sexy, fat girl then please - click the little X at the top right. If you are looking for someone who is ghetto, again - click the X. If you are not self sufficient - ie, you have your own place, have a car, make more than minimum wage, etc. No offense - but I am not looking for someone else I have to take care of. I have 2 children, I have no intentions of dating a third. If you have kids, thats cool. If you dont take care of them, thats not cool at all. If you smoke weed EVERYDAY, or use any other type of illegal drug - click X. Say what you want - its illegal, whether you believe its a drug or not is irrelevant to me. Im not interested in people who put smoking weed above taking care of their other financial responsibilities....occasional use is fine No I am not looking for a man to take care of me. If you expect a woman to be at your beck and call - I am not your girl. I work full time and I really do love my job. I have no intentions of becoming a house wife. With that said, I am the kind of woman that will cater to her man. I believe in keeping him happy in every way. I do not get headaches every night...I like to make sure that he doesnt need to seek anything elsewhere.I LOVE FOOTBALL! I am a Raiders fan. But I watch every game. If you already have a wife/girlfriend please leave me alone. I do not have time for that crap. I am 30 years old, I am grown. If your in a relationship that makes you wanna cheat then get the heck out of it. Do NOT message me for sex or to ask how big my chest is. Im not a slut, and no you cannot see a photo of my chest either. Please be respectful. Do not call me "Mommy" that is seriously creepy. I have no intentions of calling you Daddy either. I had a Dad, he passed away.Hmmmm If your the kind of guy who likes to date 3 or 4 girls at a time - im not your girl. No offense to what you do - if it makes you happy do it - but I have a tendency to get jealous. I am not overly possesive - but if your flirting with other girls Im just not interested. And if we meet, and your not interested anymore - have some balls and just tell me Im not your type...Well I think thats it. If your interested - send a message. I'm old fashioned, don't ask me to come to my house and watch movies, not a first date!! You don't have to buy me a fancy dinner or something but is it too much to ask for something romantic???

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