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Ivey, 34
United States, New Jersey, Hammonton

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About Me

Hey you, yeahhh you, i know it's lengthy but don't stop reading just yet, you'll thank me later ;)I get along great with most guys, but friendship is usually where the feelings end for me. I am very selective. Some may label it as fastidiousness, but I just see it as knowing what I want and not settling for less.Family is of the utmost importance to me with my greatest priority being my 2 wonderful children who live with me half-time and hold the number one spot in my heart (don’t worry, I have a big heart). As for my personality, well, I could go on and on but why bore you? Actions speak louder than words (especially written ones). So, *** me sketching a picture for you (one that could possibly be quite different from what others see), I’ll leave you with a blank canvas so that you can paint your own portrait of me.What do I enjoy doing you ask (okay so maybe you didn’t, but just humor me)?I love to go out and … (we’ll just leave it at that. Where’s the mystery & excitement in already knowing? You’ll just have to find out for yourself). BUT I also enjoy staying in and … (sorry, more homework). Okay, Okay, I’ll give you one pastime I do enjoy (only on a cold, snowy winter night or rainy day) …. I fancy (yes i said fancy, I've always wanted to use that word so there you have it, anyway back to my novel) i fancy video games (dork, I know but I don’t care, I love em! ~ in moderation of course;)What am I looking for in a man you ask (again, just go with it)?Well at the risk of sounding superficial physical attraction is vital, so a man that takes care of their body and is in great shape is a MUST (You don't have to be a body builder but toned yes... I'm in great shape, take care of my body and have given birth to two kids so I feel you can do the same ~ err minus the birthing of babies), someone who is at least 6’ tall is preferred (what can i say, I love wearing heels and rather not feel gigantic standing next to my date ~ BUT, I'm kinda use to it so this is not a deal breaker like the body thing is, just don't ask me NOT to wear heels cuz that isn't going to happen). Okay, let’s move on to the more important qualities … an intelligent, witty, romantic, mature man with a sense of humor (mature as in you have your sh!t together, your priorities straight), a true gentleman who knows how to treat a lady, and above all, a honest man ~ don’t tell me what you think I want to hear because what I really want to hear is what you are truly thinking and/or feeling, the whole truth and nothing but (insert: gavel strike), I'm not sensitive, don't get my feelings hurt easily, and am all grown up so i can handle the truth ~ A man that I not only share a strong mental connection with but also spine-tingling …… PASSION!!!Yes it warrants a bold headline and CAPS for a reason, it is extremely important to me, need I say more?I am a romantic at heart. I love to surprise my man with the home cooked candlelight dinner, glasses of wine, music low, wearing … (to be continued…) On the receiving end, I love the little unexpected gestures, surprises, the well thought out date with flowers in hand, or the spontaneous overnight getaway … (you get my drift, right?)So… could this sketch I started actually turn out to be a portrait of you? Let me reiterate, physical attraction is a necessity!NOTE ~ If your profile reads “are there any good women out there” or “are all the good women taken” (or anything along those lines) look elsewhere, attitudes are contagious and I don’t want to catch yours. Don’t be so negative! “We plant seeds that will flower as results in our lives, so best to remove the weeds of anger, avarice, envy and doubt” ~~ if your body isn't bangin keep your shirt on, no really

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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