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Shania, 33
United States, New Jersey, Hammonton

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About Me

I just realized that most of my pics are selfies. I will work on adding others. :)I'm newer to this online thing and I'm not really sure what to expect but I hope to find someone that makes me want to be a better person. I work on that already but it's good to be with smeone who makes you want to try even harder. I always thought I would meet my dream guy in the super market, at a get together, or just somehow it would magically happen! lol. Since I'm always too busy in my day to day life for that to happen, I figured that I'd take the next step and try this. I'm actually pretty focused right now, just working on myself. Things like fitness, eating better, job, being even more organized and just trying to be a better me. ;)I'm also working on something just for fun... I'm learning all about my new rebel camera. I love photography!I'm pretty much looking for Mr. Perfect! No, not perfect in someone else's eyes... just mine! Hehe. ;) I'm hoping to meet someone who has their head on their shoulders and has a love for life. Hopefully you're in a career that you're passionate about and have made a life for yourself that you enjoy and are at the point in your life that you're ready to share it with someone special, particularly ME! I still believe in simple old fashion values like a guy who opens the door for a lady (or anyone for that matter), saying please and thank you and doing simple acts of kindness without expecting anything in return! I value my family and I talk and spend time with them as often as possible and I'm hoping to find someone who is family oriented as well.I'm basically looking for someone with ambition that enjoys life to it's fullest and whenever they have a free moment they're enjoying it. Wether that consists of a weekend bbq, a trip to the mountains, beach or even a spontaneous road trip that leads you/us nowhere at all but we had fun getting there! A romantic trip, wonderful people, yummy food, a good glass of wine and even more exciting, YOU to share it with! So for now, I've been waiting! I still wanna go... like now! lol.I love to travel and do it as much as possible but I will admit, sometimes I prefer a night in to just snuggle up on the couch and watch tv with the fire place burning in the background.I also look forward to being with a man who enjoys what some would call "guy stuff" like camping, fishing, hanging out with the guys, etc and I hope that he'll want to do those kind of things with me as well! I may be a girly girl but I'm not afraid of getting dirty! I also want to be with someone who enjoys sports and could see us having friends over for things like Sunday football! I look forward to going to baseball, basketball and football games as much as possible. I like being with someone that wants to be around me "most" of the time but agrees that it's good for us to have alone/friend time as well.A few things that I also enjoy are Canoeing, kayaking, rock climbing, fishing, checking out caves, zip lining, bowling, going to six flags and love riding my bike. I can't wait to do things like sky diving, bungee jumping and so much more! I must also mention that I find guys who play *** the guitar, bass, drums and even the piano extremely hot! That's not required though, I promise! ;) I'm a total sports car/classic car/truck kind of girl. I like it when my guy likes to be outdoors and loves going random places together. I know that I mentioned some of that above as well.When I was younger I wrote out a list of all of the qualities that "MY MR. PERFECT" would have but I recently realized that what I truly want and need isn't even describable on a list but I'll just know it when I meet him. :)Sorry for the novel. I think the first date should be something pretty simple so we can decide if we want a second date... Maybe we could go to dinner and/or grab a drink. Just somewhere so we can chat. Even maybe a walk in the park. :) It would depend on how comfortable we are before the date and how far we're traveling to meet up.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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