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Twila, 55
United States, North Carolina, Shelby

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About Me

I am a fun and social person. I can be very playful. I love to go out and have a good time. Seven years ago I came out of a long unhappy relationship and decided I needed a break. I had always needed a significant other to make me feel complete. I stayed alone and learned to enjoy my life fully without having a partner by my side. I promised myself that when I reached certain personal goals, I would put myself back in circulation, (self-actualization). I started out on Match.com, and met a few people. No spark was not *** guys were nice, but something was missing so here I am. Looking for a self-assured man. I do not want a co-dependent relationship, nor do I want to get involved with a substance abuser. I believe that a man and a woman must develop a friendship and soulship to reach true intimacy. I do not want to control anyone nor be controlled. I am not looking to jump in bed with you right away. My recent experience is that this is an expectation for some men. Manners, respect,and intelligence are the qualities I am attracted to. Please don't contact me if you are fighting with your girlfriend, or are recently separated.On the first date, please do not talk about your ex for the entire time. I'd like to hear about your children, your job, your aspirations, etc.. I AM NOT SHY ABOUT STARTING A COMMUNICATION. I do not want to sustain long conversations with you on meetville. I am not 16 anymore, I am a professional, home owner and very self-confident woman, so please, if you are really not interested in me, don't waste my time with inane conversation. I would like to speak on the phone, rather than start a long *** would be nice to meet for coffee or a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Canadian English Crime Family & Kids Bowling
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