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Ermelinda, 53
United States, North Carolina, Raeford

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About Me

I'm a well rounded person with many interests, too many to mention and too many to keep up with! I'm not a drinker, gambler, or shopaholic - okay alittle bit on the shopping. Versatile: can go to the opera or dance to James Brown. Have a really good sense of humor, but not always "ON", can be serious too. . Good conversationalist but tend not to be very chatty. I am somewhat contemplative or introspective at times, introvert or extravert depending on my mood. I exhibit how I feel by my actions rather than words. Maintain long friendships. Donate my time and research skills to a Kenyan based Wildlife Conservancy.Interested in other things and people beside myself or my world, whose life experiences are different than mine, ie, different cultures, food, view points. Film buff, especially obscure, off the beaten path, foreign & small independent movies. I am endlessly curious, inventive (working on an invention) and a born researcher. Not into extreme sports. Music did you say - my IPOD has ***songs. I love the life of the mind and beauty in any form; my goal is to live a creative life. I like sweet, funny, unassuming guys, or clean-cut, or artistic Bohemian types. An artistic sensibility or flair is appreciated. Best guy for me has to be humorous, playful, ethical and who is a balanced combination of physical, emotional and intellectual. Not into full beards/mustaches, gotee okay. Also, I'm not a spur-of-the-moment type of person, I like to make a plan. Not a fan of driving since I drive for my job. Big points if we meet on my side of town. Sorry I don't like talking on phone till we arrange a meeting. Thanks for looking. Anything is fine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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