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Stephany, 51
United States, North Carolina, Raeford

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I am an easygoing person with a love of life, nature, music and people. I am loyal, generous, attentive, hard working with a can do attitude who enjoys accomplishing the task at hand. I enjoy being active and particularly enjoy tennis, but like most sports. I like gardening, yoga, cooking, the beach and being on the water; I recently got a taste of sailing and totally loved it.I am honest and upfront (perhaps to a fault) and looking for the same in a partner, maybe not the faulty part lol. I am a one man kind of girl. I guess most of us don't really 'like' being on these dating sites, but I can wholeheartedly say I really look forward to the day when this is just a memory.. I have 3 awesome young adult sons who are a big part of my life. My youngest just moved off to college so I have more free time on my hands.I have been permanently separated for about 2 years and my divorce is just about final.I am looking for my soul mate. Someone with whom I can be myself, and he himself, without judgement or pretense. I appreciate the little things in life. A good, honest, trusting relationship is far more important to me than any material possessions. I am down to earth and enjoy most things outdoors. Summer spring and fall are my favorite times of year. I don't care much for the frigid, cold weather.I like hiking, and just talking, the beach walking hand in hand, checking out new places, fancy restaurants or dive bars or caverns and trails, or just staying at home and watching movies, listening to music or cooking together.I love music, live venues and local bands too. I enjoy fine dinners out, cooking at home particularly with someone or for a group or the holidays, surprising people-I love to pull off a good surprise, I like snuggling and kissing, and drinking a glass of wine around the bonfire. I guess, with the right company, it really doesn't matter what the activity is.Some of my favorite things, my 3 sons (tapping my foot), XPN, fuzzy sheepskin slippers, Egyptian cotton sheets, dark chocolate, affection, the feel of the sun on my skin, red wine, seafood or fresh caught even better. BBQ's w family and friends, getting dressed up for occasions, or just to wow my man, Lucky Jeans, reading, solutions, massages, working as a team. We get a drink and talk about the usual introductory topics. As we feel comfortable with each other and want to learn more, we decide to take a stroll by the river just talking and finding out about each other.Before we realize it the sun is beginning to get low in the sky, so we decide to go to El Vez and have a bite to eat and perhaps a Martguerita. The conversation continues to flow easily and naturally as we enjoy the setting sun and the company.We both decide we would like to see each other again and you walk me to my car. When we get there, I turn towards you and you put your hands on my hips and we gently kiss goodnight. Both of us leave with a song in our heart anticipating our next encounter.Okay, so that might be a one in a million first date ;)~. Meeting for a cup of coffee or a drink, with no pressure, just to see if there is chemistry and a natural flow between us is a-okay with me :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Middle Eastern Turkish Romance War Western Dance
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