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Stephany, 51
United States, North Carolina, Raeford

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About Me

I am an easygoing person with a love of life, nature, music and people. I am loyal, generous, attentive, hard working with a can do attitude who enjoys accomplishing the task at hand. I enjoy being active and particularly enjoy tennis, but like most sports. I like gardening, yoga, cooking, the beach and being on the water; I recently got a taste of sailing and totally loved it.I am honest and upfront (perhaps to a fault) and looking for the same in a partner, maybe not the faulty part lol. I am a one man kind of girl. I guess most of us don't really 'like' being on these dating sites, but I can wholeheartedly say I really look forward to the day when this is just a memory.. I have 3 awesome young adult sons who are a big part of my life. My youngest just moved off to college so I have more free time on my hands.I have been permanently separated for about 2 years and my divorce is just about final.I am looking for my soul mate. Someone with whom I can be myself, and he himself, without judgement or pretense. I appreciate the little things in life. A good, honest, trusting relationship is far more important to me than any material possessions. I am down to earth and enjoy most things outdoors. Summer spring and fall are my favorite times of year. I don't care much for the frigid, cold weather.I like hiking, and just talking, the beach walking hand in hand, checking out new places, fancy restaurants or dive bars or caverns and trails, or just staying at home and watching movies, listening to music or cooking together.I love music, live venues and local bands too. I enjoy fine dinners out, cooking at home particularly with someone or for a group or the holidays, surprising people-I love to pull off a good surprise, I like snuggling and kissing, and drinking a glass of wine around the bonfire. I guess, with the right company, it really doesn't matter what the activity is.Some of my favorite things, my 3 sons (tapping my foot), XPN, fuzzy sheepskin slippers, Egyptian cotton sheets, dark chocolate, affection, the feel of the sun on my skin, red wine, seafood or fresh caught even better. BBQ's w family and friends, getting dressed up for occasions, or just to wow my man, Lucky Jeans, reading, solutions, massages, working as a team. We get a drink and talk about the usual introductory topics. As we feel comfortable with each other and want to learn more, we decide to take a stroll by the river just talking and finding out about each other.Before we realize it the sun is beginning to get low in the sky, so we decide to go to El Vez and have a bite to eat and perhaps a Martguerita. The conversation continues to flow easily and naturally as we enjoy the setting sun and the company.We both decide we would like to see each other again and you walk me to my car. When we get there, I turn towards you and you put your hands on my hips and we gently kiss goodnight. Both of us leave with a song in our heart anticipating our next encounter.Okay, so that might be a one in a million first date ;)~. Meeting for a cup of coffee or a drink, with no pressure, just to see if there is chemistry and a natural flow between us is a-okay with me :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mammie from Raeford | Woman | 54 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    So here I go....I start each day with a happy heart, and end it thanking my lucky stars :-) I LOVE LOVE LOVE to laugh...... Many times it's self-inflicted! I love a sense of humor tainted with a little sarcasm for flavor. But who doesn't?? Laughter truly is the best medicine! My family and friends mean the world to me and I am so very grateful I have them. They are my treasures. I live near the beach and spend time walking, hiking, swimming, biking and soaking up the sun as often as I can. I love all of the outdoors, being on the water boating, skiing, campfires, and forests. Gardening is one of my favorite past times. I love getting my hands in the earth and creating something beautiful. I crave history and culture. I enjoy museums, bookstores, antiques, art, mucsic, good food and wine... In the past year I have whet my appetite for European travel and look forward to more in the near future. I'm pretty sulf-sufficient and independent, but think two heads are better than one. I would love to be held and supported....a shoulder to rest my head on. Someone to bounce idea's off of and get advice from. I am a good listener. I would be there for you as well, with an open heart, open arms and kindness. Mutual respect is a quality that I would hope to achieve in any relationship, but especially in an intimate one. I am honest and loyal, and I expect the same from the ones who mean the most to me.And you.....just be you! I want it all to unfold ....little by little. That's what makes it fun!Mostly I want to have ALL KINDS of fun and new experiences balanced with staying at home where life is sweet! KISS ......Keep it simple silly!

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  • Cassie from Raeford | Woman | 54 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Gosh I really want to be off this site! It's taking my time--when I could be planning our dinner, and loving you ***!! But with that said...I feel I am in no rush either. Have to say, would rather be alone, than with the wrong person. I'm sure you feel the same. I'm a good woman, just looking for one good man. Are you out there?I live an active life. Exercise just makes me feel good! I also love to dance--anything from ballroom to country--you have the music, I have the time. I truly am enjoying my 'singledom'--and I can be quite happy by myself. But that has its limitations as well. I long for a hand to hold, conversation to share, a wonderful glass of wine, and a warm body next to mine. Finding someone to share my life with, is very high on my list. 'The rest' is already in place.I am grateful, loyal, responsible, loving, compassionate, heart centered, and confident. I don't play games with your mind or your heart--nor do I desire this from you.. I have arrived at a very comfortable place in my life, having accomplished much...and now am ready to be in a relationship again where I can focus on the US and grow together ...in every way.. Love.movies that make me laugh-or cry--and with a message to learn from***Boring! 'Somewhere In Time' or 'The Notebook' gets me good if I want to shed a tear! And anything with Adam Sandler floats my boat! And FYI..I will not respond to those that do not post a pic actually showing their beautiful eyes-- If the eyes are 'the window to the soul', then please reveal yours to me--minus the sunglasses. Thanks ahead of time. I also will not respond to *** 'whats up?' 'hi there sexy'--...."We waste time looking for the perfect lover, *** creating the perfect Love." Best of Luck In Love and Life!Kathy On a first date..keep it simple and casual. From there, desired activities together well become apparent--or not.

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  • Billye from Raeford | Woman | 54 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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