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Jona, 45
United States, Kansas, Derby

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About Me

These are difficult to write. I would say I am a fairly layed back guy. I live in the burbs which fits me well. I like going out downtown sometimes and enjoy all it has to offer but I like coming home to the burbs. I would someday like to move out to Golden which I think is the perfect little town. I work in IT and have been doing that for a very long time. I'm not sure I want to do it the rest of my life but it has been a good field and has provided well for me.I workout several times a week and would like to meet someone who keeps himself in good shape and will go to the gym with me.In trying to think of things that are unique about me I would say that I am not into the whole gay scene, I don't care how much money a guy has or what kind of car he drives. Those things are not important. It's your character that counts. First dates for me are very casual. Starbucks is a good first date because it allows for good conversation with no stress.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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