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United States, Kansas, Derby

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About Me

So here's the hot skinny on me: Guy Looking for Another Guy to Date: Available for fun. Open to learning about you. Interested in seeing where it goes. Taking it one step at a time and becoming a gay dating success!Sound familiar? :) Hopefully, it rings true, and you want to find someone to get close to and not just a one-nighter. Interested in knowing more? Read on!So, what do I have to offer? Hmm...I grew up in a small, rural town, but love being in the city. I'm Italian. I'm sincere, real, easy-going, gentle, masculine, a communicator, accomplished, well educated, creative, fully employed, and busy. I own my home and share it with roommates. I have dogs and enjoy them as my kids, but not obsessively so. I am a good cook and enjoy experimenting in the kitchen. I enjoy movies and TV and try to keep up with pop culture some (thanks to my job), but again, not obsessively so. Like to travel, don't do it often, but enjoy finding out what the rest of the world has to offer. Love to dance. Pay attention to politics, lean left and try to stay away from organized religion. Have some belief in a higher power, but not sure where to go with that belief.I'm curious about life and the world. I like learning about ideas, cultures, people and food that I may haven't experienced before because of growing up in such a tiny place. I want to expand my horizons and hope I can offer the same to someone that wants to come along.I'm healthy, mind and body, and ***percent disease-free/HIV negative.My style of dating is to keep my eyes open and enjoy. Sometimes you know its right from the minute you meet, and sometimes you know it after a few dates. Prefer to hit it right off, but certainly interested in finding the right guy even if it takes time.I love to be close and share my time, my thoughts and my needs. I'm a problem solver, and will work hard for someone I love. I really appreciate physical closeness, but I'm not clingy and don't need to be glued at the hip.What can I say? Want to spend time with someone that really wants to be together. I'd love to make someone smile on the inside, and I hope the feeling is reciprocal.I'm willing to learn and grow to meet a partner's needs, and I expect the same in return. I'm NOT perfect and don't expect that either. I will make mistakes, but I will try to keep those to a minimum, and when I do trip-up, I will never do it out of spite or in an attempt to hurt someone. Life is too short to waste time on games, and I've found WAYYYYYYY too many gay men play them.I've worked very hard to get where I'm at in life and to have the things I can call mine. I'm looking for someone to spend time with, become friends, find that connection and hopefully one day, seal the deal and start our own team together.The best way to get to know someone, in my opinion, is a good old fashioned date. E-mail, texts and on-line profiles don't completely convey someone's personality.So, if you hit me up if you think what I have merits a second look, and let's see where it goes! Would love to meet up for something casual, talk and get to know each other, and see where it goes. First dates are often good chances to find out if you actually want to spend time together, and if someone wants to leave, no harm, no foul.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Irish Adventure Comedy Drama
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