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About Me

Are you sane, employed, big-hearted, masculine, kind and intelligent? Keep on reading, dude, cause you are what I am seeking. I am looking for an extremely conventional life: mate, kids, dog and home. I am NOT seeking drama, meeting guys on the down low, an open relationship or head games.Have been positve for about 7 years. Viral load is undetectable, and I am absolutely healthy.The best words to describe me are creative, smart, witty, romantic and logical. My interests include cooking, reading, weightlifting, biking along the lake, museums, dining out, exploring the city and its architecture.I would love to travel, but have had not had much opportunity. Dream trip?Love jazz (mostly vocal), pop, rock and some bluegrass.Enjoy most film genres as long as they are well-written and directed. Hey I wanted to be a Jedi when I was a kid.PS Thanks for the messages, but I am really looking for someone approximately over 30 and under 50. Not complicated, is it?DinnerMovieCoffeeMaking outGetting a call for a second date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Pancras

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    So here's the hot skinny on me: Guy Looking for Another Guy to Date: Available for fun. Open to learning about you. Interested in seeing where it goes. Taking it one step at a time and becoming a gay dating success!Sound familiar? :) Hopefully, it rings true, and you want to find someone to get close to and not just a one-nighter. Interested in knowing more? Read on!So, what do I have to offer? Hmm...I grew up in a small, rural town, but love being in the city. I'm Italian. I'm sincere, real, easy-going, gentle, masculine, a communicator, accomplished, well educated, creative, fully employed, and busy. I own my home and share it with roommates. I have dogs and enjoy them as my kids, but not obsessively so. I am a good cook and enjoy experimenting in the kitchen. I enjoy movies and TV and try to keep up with pop culture some (thanks to my job), but again, not obsessively so. Like to travel, don't do it often, but enjoy finding out what the rest of the world has to offer. Love to dance. Pay attention to politics, lean left and try to stay away from organized religion. Have some belief in a higher power, but not sure where to go with that belief.I'm curious about life and the world. I like learning about ideas, cultures, people and food that I may haven't experienced before because of growing up in such a tiny place. I want to expand my horizons and hope I can offer the same to someone that wants to come along.I'm healthy, mind and body, and ***percent disease-free/HIV negative.My style of dating is to keep my eyes open and enjoy. Sometimes you know its right from the minute you meet, and sometimes you know it after a few dates. Prefer to hit it right off, but certainly interested in finding the right guy even if it takes time.I love to be close and share my time, my thoughts and my needs. I'm a problem solver, and will work hard for someone I love. I really appreciate physical closeness, but I'm not clingy and don't need to be glued at the hip.What can I say? Want to spend time with someone that really wants to be together. I'd love to make someone smile on the inside, and I hope the feeling is reciprocal.I'm willing to learn and grow to meet a partner's needs, and I expect the same in return. I'm NOT perfect and don't expect that either. I will make mistakes, but I will try to keep those to a minimum, and when I do trip-up, I will never do it out of spite or in an attempt to hurt someone. Life is too short to waste time on games, and I've found WAYYYYYYY too many gay men play them.I've worked very hard to get where I'm at in life and to have the things I can call mine. I'm looking for someone to spend time with, become friends, find that connection and hopefully one day, seal the deal and start our own team together.The best way to get to know someone, in my opinion, is a good old fashioned date. E-mail, texts and on-line profiles don't completely convey someone's personality.So, if you hit me up if you think what I have merits a second look, and let's see where it goes! Would love to meet up for something casual, talk and get to know each other, and see where it goes. First dates are often good chances to find out if you actually want to spend time together, and if someone wants to leave, no harm, no foul.

  • Deshawn

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I like to hang out with friends and family. Just graduated with a bachelors in anthropology. Like to Watch TV, garden, enjoy home improvement projects around the house. Hoping to meet new and exciting individuals.I love the outdoors, and have had the opportunity to check out a few of the metro parks. I love to visit the zoo, I could spend hours watching the primates. Really not into the bar scene, but do enjoy going out every now and then. Between work, home projects and family I find I have little spare time. I need to find more time for myself and that special someone. I love new adventures, exploring new places and learning local history. One of my favorite things to do is check out architecture, new and old, well kept or falling victim to time... every building (public and private) has a story to tell!IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PHOTO, PLEASE GET ONE AND CHECK BACK WITH ME THEN. :-) Get a bite to eat, ease into conversation. Next date would be something outdoors, explore a new or familiar place. Seeking friends, dating, etc.

  • Kamari

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I\'m faithful, real down to earth, Drama-Free, I don\'t argue I always keep it moving. I love living the life and having fun. I\'m looking for a realist who isn\'t about sugar-coating or superficial.

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