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Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

So here's the hot skinny on me: Guy Looking for Another Guy to Date: Available for fun. Open to learning about you. Interested in seeing where it goes. Taking it one step at a time and becoming a gay dating success!Sound familiar? :) Hopefully, it rings true, and you want to find someone to get close to and not just a one-nighter. Interested in knowing more? Read on!So, what do I have to offer? Hmm...I grew up in a small, rural town, but love being in the city. I'm Italian. I'm sincere, real, easy-going, gentle, masculine, a communicator, accomplished, well educated, creative, fully employed, and busy. I own my home and share it with roommates. I have dogs and enjoy them as my kids, but not obsessively so. I am a good cook and enjoy experimenting in the kitchen. I enjoy movies and TV and try to keep up with pop culture some (thanks to my job), but again, not obsessively so. Like to travel, don't do it often, but enjoy finding out what the rest of the world has to offer. Love to dance. Pay attention to politics, lean left and try to stay away from organized religion. Have some belief in a higher power, but not sure where to go with that belief.I'm curious about life and the world. I like learning about ideas, cultures, people and food that I may haven't experienced before because of growing up in such a tiny place. I want to expand my horizons and hope I can offer the same to someone that wants to come along.I'm healthy, mind and body, and ***percent disease-free/HIV negative.My style of dating is to keep my eyes open and enjoy. Sometimes you know its right from the minute you meet, and sometimes you know it after a few dates. Prefer to hit it right off, but certainly interested in finding the right guy even if it takes time.I love to be close and share my time, my thoughts and my needs. I'm a problem solver, and will work hard for someone I love. I really appreciate physical closeness, but I'm not clingy and don't need to be glued at the hip.What can I say? Want to spend time with someone that really wants to be together. I'd love to make someone smile on the inside, and I hope the feeling is reciprocal.I'm willing to learn and grow to meet a partner's needs, and I expect the same in return. I'm NOT perfect and don't expect that either. I will make mistakes, but I will try to keep those to a minimum, and when I do trip-up, I will never do it out of spite or in an attempt to hurt someone. Life is too short to waste time on games, and I've found WAYYYYYYY too many gay men play them.I've worked very hard to get where I'm at in life and to have the things I can call mine. I'm looking for someone to spend time with, become friends, find that connection and hopefully one day, seal the deal and start our own team together.The best way to get to know someone, in my opinion, is a good old fashioned date. E-mail, texts and on-line profiles don't completely convey someone's personality.So, if you hit me up if you think what I have merits a second look, and let's see where it goes! Would love to meet up for something casual, talk and get to know each other, and see where it goes. First dates are often good chances to find out if you actually want to spend time together, and if someone wants to leave, no harm, no foul.

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Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

Professional guy - East Valley. I moved here a few years ago. I'm active... Roadtrips are a blast whether a day trip or weekend. Family/friends are the most important things to me - I am unquestionably dedicated to the important people in my life. I'm very caring and a true romantic at heart! I think I'm a pretty darned good catch! :) Ah, what to do for a first date? I love casual starts... meet for coffee, lunch, dinner or a drink and talk. If it is a great evening, taking a walk and just enjoying the company of the person I'm with. I always find it amazing how, when people click, a simple first date can go for hours but only seem like minutes!

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Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

-fashioned date to go on with a nice guy in his 20s to 40s. I love doing things outdoors like camping, kayaking and biking. I also love movies, music (anything but hardcore rap), cooking and hanging out with friends. I click best with guys who are laid back, witty, smart, fun loving and who enjoy the outdoors as well. I'd like someone who takes care of themselves and has a healthy outlook on life. A sense of humor is a must for me. I love to laugh and enjoy being around guys who can laugh at the most stupid things with me. I also enjoy travel and finding a travel companion would be great. I'm pretty open when it comes to first dates. Typically it's dinner at a mutually decided upon restaurant. Then depending on the time of year and the weather, maybe a stroll along river parks afterwards to enjoy the outdoors. Or perhaps a visit to one of the museums on a Saturday afternoon. Regardless of the venue, it needs to be conducive to conversation.