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Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

I'm a good looking, honest, loyal, hard working business owner. Love to go out to dinner, movies, in the summer i like to be outside working in my yard and having people over to grill. I'm not into the gay bar scene but do enjoy going out to regular bars for drinks, also enjoy being at home with that special guy....

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Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

I am 42 years old, I'm 6 feet tall about ***pounds. I have brown hair & green eyes. I am on the slim side but have a good body. I guess I'm not like most, I was in 1 relationship that kept me from living the "gay" life, so there wasn't much going to clubs or to Fire Island so I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't have much experience with the "gay scene". I am not a gym guy, I don't work out but like I said, I am slim so I'm lucky. I prefer quiet nights at home opposed to going out, most of my friends are straight, I like crappy tv, I prefer beer over wine and I am definitely family/friends oriented guy. I am trying to find someone that's like me, just a regular guy that likes guys. Someone to share life with on a daily basis. To be honest, I am not interested in feminine guys at all. Not to say that I am super masculine but I'm just regular. Although, I am proud of who I am, I don't broadcast my sexuality. I like to start things out by speaking thru text, moving on to a couple of phone conversations and then meeting. Being that I am new to the dating scene, I notice that people like to jump right in bed and I have tried it but it's just not me. Maybe you're the guy I'm looking for? My idea of the perfect first date is pretty simple. I was in a relationship for a long time so I feel so NEW at this. Going out to dinner is cool. Staying in for dinner is cool too. Drinks. A walk in NYC. Just being in a setting where we can talk and get to know each other.

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Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

Southern guy with an edge for other like minded guys. I am looking for someone who is sexy and interesting. I measure this by what one projects and attempts in their lives to improve themselves and those around them. I am a down to earth guy and looking for the same. My head and heart are in a good place right now and I plan to keep it that way.I am a creative and truly happy when I am being creative. A true artist at heart. Been in the advertising / graphic design industry for almost 10 years. I am really good at making people feel special. I am a caregiver and tend to spoil those around me. I love to cook, design home spaces, entertain and am the consummate host. I like to make people smile!The first things people notice about me are my baby blues, smile, southern charm and outgoing personality. I am at ease in any social setting and comfortable in my own skin.You should message me if you are sincere and honest. Intelligence and a sense of humor go a long way with me. I can honestly say that I do not have a particular type and do not have an unrealistic self imposed laundry list of physical attributes in a man. I do however place high regards on inner beauty and what makes a guy special and unique. My Daddy raised me right. I find manners and integrity extremely sexy on a man. I am a true southern gentleman. Please and thank you's are mandatory and a smile costs nothing and is infectious.P.S. If you message me on here for sex, here's a little food for thought: All these guys complain about wanting a relationship, yet they are ****ing every other guy that comes their way. No wonder the gay community has such a bad rep. You say you want a long term relationship and to fall in love with someone, but yet your priorities are all out of whack. You can't live two lifestyles and expect to have both. You have to pick one or the other and then the true test of how much you truly want love is tested. For those of us who would like to one day find love feel helpless because all the players, sex addicts, and even other couples destroy what hospitality there is left. Not really into the typical "Dinner & Movie" date as I am not a typical guy. A great date could be something as simple as drinks and appetizers at your place or mine...candles will always win me over. I enjoy one on one time so that I can really get to know someone. I am very attentive. A perfect date is anything that shows sincere thought. I am easy to please.