• Atchison
• Kansas
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

I don't think any of us really expected to be where we are today. I know I never would have thought that I would be sitting on some website looking at different men's profiles seeing who my "perfect match" is. You want honesty? A real person? Well, here it is. I have been married 3 times and I have four kids. LOL....don't freak out yet....my kids are grown and while all relationships take two to make it or break it and I accept responsibility for my part in that, they would not have ended had addictions not been a part of the equation. You can only fight for so long. I have been single for awhile now, so any anger or other junk that was a result of a failed marriage is in my past; but it has made me wiser in what I look for in a man. I actually maintained a decent relationship with my first two exes because we had children together. The 3rd one and I had nothing together and therefore I never felt a necessity to carry on a relationship once the marriage ended. I am a very honest and loyal person and being that kind of person I find it a waste of time to respond to those I am not interested in. That may seem a little rude but I tried to answer all messages at first and it made saying I'm not interested very difficult. I look for honest, trustworthy men that act like men. Meaning you hold a job and do what you say. I expect to be treated properly, with respect. If your just looking for a hookup....I'm probably not the woman for you. If we get to a point that I give you my number so that we can get to know each other, it is not so I can send you pics....LOL... and if you want to meet then we should actually do that. I think one of my biggest pet peeves is lack of communication....meaning that if your interested, then talk to me and if something falls through or you lost interest...tell me. I see myself retiring someday, living on the beach and sitting in my rocking chair with my life mate sitting beside me....here is to hoping anyway. I work nights fulltime as well as attend school fulltime so give me a day or so to respond...I may jump on and check my messages but I do not always have time to respond. What I want: A friend, lover, and partner. I look for good communication, honesty, faithfulness, nice looking, with a great personality (meaning be yourself!). I like men that are taller than myself and height/weight proportionate (usually athletic to average). I do not interracially date...no offense, it is just not my thing. I can not have any more children, so if you are hoping to have a baby; I'm not the one. I guess age wise, I am looking for someone in there late 30's to mid to late 40's. I like to be as active as I can so I do not want someone that never wants to go do anything....LOL. I am not into anyone that does drugs or drinks too much....this includes pills. I do not mind dating men that have children; although, I never have before. I also am fine with most pets; however, my son is allergic to cats so that would be a problem if we took this relationship further. I am fine with tats and piercings but please do not have them on your face. I can't look at you if you have writing all over your face...LOL. You must have pictures before I will contact you and if you are married or separated I will not respond because unfortunately a lot of men say they are separated in order to "hookup." I do not believe in having relations with someone that is in a relationship. So, I guess that is all for now....If I didn't loose your interest, feel free to send me a message! :-) Coffee or dinner.

• Atchison
• Kansas
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

Hi there. A little about me: I'm tall with long, dark brown hair and eyes and a medium, curvy build. Most people are surprised by how young I still look for my age. Personality wise, I'm family oriented, down-to-earth, peaceful, and affectionate to those close to me. I have a positive, optimistic outlook on life and I seek the same in others. I love beaches, hockey and football, crochet, yoga, and seafood/sushi.- love the city, North Park, sports teams, and would like to explore more of it with someone special.I work hard at maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Although I don't mind a glass of wine with dinner, I outgrew my party days a long time ago. I would like to meet someone with similar habits and goals. Personality and character means more than looks, but there does have to be a physical attraction. I like clean-cut, neatly dressed, well- I don't care much for tattoos or piercings, but can get over one or two of them.Would love to hear from you if you think we might hit it off. Best of luck to everyone and take care. Coffee shop or quiet restaurant to talk and get to know each other.

• Atchison
• Kansas
• United States

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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

I've been told that I am creative enough to survive stranded on an island with only a toothpic and duct tape! I try to make the most out of simple things. Love to go camping, boating, creeks, rivers, or the beach. I try to take my kids camping a few times a year, we ride bikes, and spend time at the beach or fishing in a creek/river. I have a soft spot for animals and old people, not sure if that is a good or bad thing, but it's the truth! I value honesty and communication. Would like to spend time with a man that enjoys laughter, avoids drama, and doesn't have any "mommy" issues. No time for fussing and being angry over trivial things......life is too short, got to laugh and enjoy it! I am a bit "out of shape" and looking to change that. I'm not a weakling by any means, but could use some toning. I spend a lot of time with my kids and their sports activities, but love to go for some adult fun, too! I'm easy to please when it comes to dining......I enjoy quaint little places, but also shine and sparkle in a fine dining atmosphere. Music......almost any, NO RAP! I have done many things in my life, as far as career, and always try to improve......one can never be too smart. I've made little money and I've done better, but I don't live to make money......I make money to live!