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Desirae, 43

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About Me

I am a 43 year old woman with a lifetime of struggle! Have you ever wondered why? Why do I have to go through all of this to get to the place I want to be? I'm there, my life has been struggle after struggle! I'm looking for a soul mate, and all I want is someone to love me for who I am, and what I'm all about. I have 3 children, 24, 23 and 16. I have 2 grandchildren. I've been a singleparent most of that time, our life isn't perfect, but we have struggled through a lot and made it this far! I'm in the midst of losing everything right now, but I'm not giving up because I have god in my life! My kids aren't perfect (but whos are) but I love them with my whole heart! If your looking for someone to live the rest of your life with that has a passionate zest for love and romance no matter what life may bring then I'm that person! I just want a soul mate! And I'm looking for you, you know who you are! I would like for a first date to be a such:Meet somewhere nice and quiet so we can talk and get to know each other. If things are going okay I wouldn't mind going for a walk or going for a drive. Of course out to dinner or a movie would be great as well! I'm a very easy going person, I could just sit at home and watch a movie as well!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Luci

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I've been here on and off. Met some nice people. Some not so much. I'm looking for quality and not hook ups. I ask that you don't send spam messages, lie about our height (if you say you're 5'9" and I'm taller than you...red flag!), don't ask for dates if you are married, in a relationship or newly out of one and still hooked on her. I am an honest person who deserves the same in return. I coach kids. Little ones and adult ones. This is my passion. It provides for my family and allows me to travel the world. I love music. Just not top 40 or country. I love the music that comes from the soul. Not all the contrived garbage found on the radio. I love to sing. Im not good but I just have to do it. I get a lot of funny looks while driving my car. Sometimes there's a dance party going on too. So far this summer I have spent my free time with my boys and friends at the lake- hammocking, slack lining over water, swimming and cliff jumping. So I don't check this site often as its way more fun playing outside. I really don't know what else to say. I'm nice? Yes, Friendly? Yes. Smrt? Somewhat. My friends love me. My boys adore me. I guess that makes me pretty lovable. Yay! So let's see where this fish bowl leads to... Best of luck everyone! I've had some good first dates and some not so good first dates. The new ones are the planned ones with spontaneous follow up dates. I have no expectations other than both of us showing up. From there, enjoy whatever happens. Laughing is the best. Lets see if we make each other smile.

  • Marilou

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a big tomboy. Just new to the area and hoping to make some friends and build some wonderful relationships. I am looking for Friends. I am an old fashioned type of gal that believes there is a proper way to court a lady. So Please move on it you are wanting more. I do service work/maintenance on my vehicle, can roof or build a house, can hang and finish sheetrock, do my own electrical work, do almost anything a man can do. Some men are intimidated by this but that's okay....just saying if you prefer the timid type.....it's not me. I love to listen, more than talking..... but I am a very outspoken person. If you ask my opinion you will get the honest version....nothing sugar coated. There isn't a filter between my brain and my mouth, however I am very diplomatic in my presentation because I am very considerate of others feelings.Recently separated from a 25 year marriage and at this point in my life I am honestly not sure what I want, so I just really want to take things slow, have fun and find out what makes me happy again. If God intends, the right man will come along in the meantime. Yes, If I Find The Right Person I Will Reconsider My Status. I am not a booty call kinda girl! I have a very demanding job that requires long hours, but also enjoy going out and having fun in my downtime. I enjoy anything outdoors. I am a very self sufficient, independent person and do not require a man in my life however thoroughly enjoy the company. I love passionately, but I also like things a little slow and to come in their own time.Big Turn Offs: Mama's boys, man with the squeaky ladies voice, wanting to make out on the first date, and arrogance. I am not easily impressed by material possessions (your cars, motorcycles, boats, etc.). If you still live with momma or you don't have a job please don't apply! Too much talking before we finally meet, I will get easily bored with you no matter how great of a person you are. If we talk too much before we meet is there really anything else left to say. If you *** not get my attention by a simple hi or hello. It shows me lack of effort on your part! I try to respond to most *** if I am not interested.Turn Ons: Secure confident man without being overly arrogant. A positive energetic attitude, I do not surround myself with negative people. Spontaneous people are great. The quickest way to win me over is a good sense of humor, with a little touch of sarcasm! Iam easily charmed by a handsome country boy.WARNING TO MEN: NEVER Underestimate The Power Of A Kiss To A Ladies Neck And Never Use It Too Quickly! First date a simple meet and greet. Date should be less than an hour for the first meeting... you typically know in the first 30 minutes or less if there is a connection. Like to meet at a crowded and safe place, yet private and quiet enough for conversation.I am a spontaneous person so please don't feel like you have to *** week before you invite me for a meeting.

  • Janise

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    i love my kids first. I like most anything. I dont like liers,be honest. If i give friendship take it. If i give my heaet into your hand,dont play it. If i give u all of me,cherish it,cuz im me,never find a careing person as me.

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