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Missy, 32
United States, Kansas, Arkansas City

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About Me

The introduction :Well I've finally done it... I grew up, what a battle, almost didn't think I'd make it, becoming this adult my family always pushed me to become but I'm here, and unfortunately or maybe fortunately ... I'm alone. I've spent the greater part of my life being a **** up and a rebel and after years of disappointing myself and everyone around me I've picked up the pieces and put together this lil O life I have right now which is incredibly boring but at the same time comfortable and the happiest I have ever been. (outside of being lonely of course) I have tons of plans/goals to accomplish, and while I am totally living for myself now a days, I'd love to have company on this new journey i am on.... (Wow aren't i getting fancy) All about me:I am an animal lover, and have a little chihuahua poodle mix that comes everywhere with me.... even if not allowed (he is infact a purse dog but don't get it twisted he is still very much a dog who loves walks fetch and so on he's not an accessory) and a fat cat who thinks he runs the show. I enjoy walking around, reading in parks on nice sunny days under a tree, and drawing random things as i stroll around. I have a clear direction I want to go in, and know exactly what it is I was ment to be "when I grow up" and am working towards accomplishing the goals I have set for myself. I do enjoy volunteer work, and helping others I have found doing something nice for someone everyday really does bring me inner peace and joy. After all the years stuck in a rut and being less than pleasent and happy I have finally found myself, and have infact began loving the person I am. Family is hugely important to me after isolating myself from them I'm trying to make up for lost time, and my little brother who isn't so little is my very best friend. I finally with confidence can say I am happy with myself, and am ready to meet someone I can hang with, who doesnt bring stress and drama and who is in the same place in life, content with themselves. I really am more concerned with finding a connection and friendship than placing myself into a title with someone.The important stuff :I find myself attractive but really who self describes themselves as ugly?.not just book smart) I am confident in the most realistic ways. I want the same types of people in my life. I'm not looking to stroke an ego or boost someone up, I want someone sure of themselves without the arrogance and self centered natured of the typical c0ckiness. I don't have a type, nor do I have some checklist of must haves you need to measure up to. I'm not sure what it is I am looking to find on here but I am open to anything.. if I wind up with a couple good friends id consider the site a success, so please women men whomever message me if you think I sound like someone you may want to meet (meeting is mandatory I do not plan on having an online community of friendships, I am looking for people who enjoy the sunlight ..haha... and actually want to go out and do things)*pedo's,pervs, dope fiends,depressing, pathetic one liners, fakers, outdated profiles/pics , viral, arrogant, ***, echain/utube/junkmailers, unintelligent, self centered, sex freaks, texters/im'ers need not apply - seriously don't waste your time as i won't waste mine, have something worthwhile to say if you are going to send a message* SOrry for the novel It has been awhile since i have had any kind of online profile and I wanted to get it all out there.Looking forward to hearing from you :)xoxo~Nat I'd love to go on a walk, maybe with the pets, through a park or something... an activity that forces interactions past the menu... meals are nice and all but restaurants/pubs/foody places are very fake environments and can mold or force direction and schedule into a date that is outside of that persons norm... being outdoors and doing something like walking through a park really doesnt have any direction and youre forced into actually making an effort for a good time as oppose to following a pre formatted date, .. i like doing things outside the norm.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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