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Essa, 47
United States, Indiana, Jasper

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About Me

Have been off for awhile to reasses what I want in a relationship, and characteristics I would , like to find in my forever.Professional, Independent lady pretty in pink, but not afraid to get dirty! Lil bit of Country, Lil bit of Rock n' Roll. Enjoys being outdoors not a homebody, however snuggled up with that someone special watching a movie is always an option. Nascar, pro - football, beach... can be adventurous with someone to be adventurous with....My soulmate has to be out there some where, not into serial dating, one night stands, games. Prefer someone with his own group of friends to hang with if I am busy, no cling-ons. I enjoy time with my friends and family with and without a significant other attached, (absence makes the heart grow fonder) not attached to the hip! I love a good cup of coffee and conversation. If you have to drink to have a conversation then do not contact me, an occasional drink is fine just not liquid courage! I am a single mom with a teenager who will be leaving the nest soon, not only am I independent but self sufficient...have learned to fix things around the house (superglue and duct tape works well) JK.. I do not expect or always want help, would rather screw it up first then ask for help.Don't get offended if there's no response, if there's an interest I will respond. Surprise me! Hint pink roses are a plus.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Caribbean Indonesian Japanese Golf Rodeo Sailing
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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