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Bella, 50
United States, Indiana, Jasper

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About Me

Everyone has a story....I've been divorced almost 2 years and not sure where to even start dating again. Friends will tell you I have a good heart, I'm loyal and trustworthy, honest to a fault, independent, can be stubborn and don't do drama or games. We aren't in high school anymore and life is just too short for that ! Also I occasionally have a wicked sense of humor, I mean laughter is the best medicine, right? I can give and take a joke as well, just don't like hurting other people. I guess you might say I've got a fairly strong willed personality.I'm just as comfortable working hard and getting dirty as long as a shower is in the near future. I'm not into camping for a week without being able to wash my hair LOL I mean I'm still a girl :-) Most days I will be in jeans and my boots except on Sundays. I do like to dress up for special occasions. I believe in old fashioned values, I attend church on Sundays. Online dating seems very strange to me. I believe you need to get to know one another and be friends before you jump into a relationship. I love my kids, my son is 19 currently attending college and my daughter is 22 and going to start back to college after the first of the year. I have "tomboy traits" my latest project is finishing a remodel on my home. I'm not a big tv person, usually listening to music no matter what I'm doing. I love to swim, have a garden every year, love to country western dance, love most music except rap and just hanging out under the stars. Mexican food is probably my favorite given a choice. Love hanging out with friends/family and seeing new places. If you want to know more about me just ask..... If you aren't within DRIVING DISTANCE, please don't waste your time, I won't just sit and chat for hours. Not enough hours in the day for that.I don't need someone to take care of me, I've been doing that myself for a long time. I do however like to have my door opened for me and be treated like a lady.I'm through settling .....looking for someone to "; with, someone that makes my heart skip a beat when I see him smiling just for me! Meeting for dinner or a couple of drinks getting to know one another. Love to country western dance but not into the bar scene. Going for a walk, sitting under the stars or open for suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Funk
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