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Gracelyn, 48
United States, Indiana, Greenfield

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About Me

I divorced three years ago after a long term marriage. While I'd prefer to meet men the old fashioned way, through work, church and friends, I'm in a position where I don't have the opportunity to meet a lot of new people, which is why I'm on this on-line dating site. Some day I’d like to get married again, but I'm not in a rush.I come from a close knit and loving family who raised me well by *** morals, values faith, and work ethic, and I've been blessed with two wonderful children who have graduated from high school. My son still lives with me during these first couple of years of college, and my daughter is on her own and is fairly self sufficient. I've owned my business as an insurance adjuster for 8 years and I love what I do, but it keeps me busy. I enjoy the beach, motorcycle rides, boating, art shows, cruises, camping, roller coasters, and I'm always willing to try something new. The kids and I will try skydiving in the near future. The newest thing in my life is my discovery of CrossFit. I've never been athletic, but one time is all it took, and I'm addicted. I try to work out 5x a week, and the changes in my body, my eating habits, my energy level, my attitude and my self confidence have amazed me. So what do I find attractive in a man? What am I looking for? A Christian who shares my values. A man who treats me with respect (and that goes both ways), and has old fashioned manners, knows how to laugh, a natural romantic, and is established with a career and home. Faithfulness and honesty is a must (and that also goes both ways). Fitness and fairly healthy eating is part of who I am now so it's important to me that we share this. (although admittedly, I do love chocolate!) And, if you can cook, you get brownie points because I have a tendency to burn things :) And to be perfectly honest, because we all should be on here...I don't do drama, I'm not into mind games, nor do I have the energy or patience to deal with a highly-emotional personality (been there, done that, divorced it). Nor do I want to deal with baggage like psycho ex wives or custody fights. It could be as simple as a walk through an art show or window shopping through a quaint downtown area, or a glass of wine in a little pub with a band, or maybe dinner and drinks. Something that would give us the chance to talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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