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Gracelyn
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I divorced three years ago after a long term marriage. While I'd prefer to meet men the old fashioned way, through work, church and friends, I'm in a position where I don't have the opportunity to meet a lot of new people, which is why I'm on this on-line dating site. Some day I’d like to get married again, but I'm not in a rush.I come from a close knit and loving family who raised me well by *** morals, values faith, and work ethic, and I've been blessed with two wonderful children who have graduated from high school. My son still lives with me during these first couple of years of college, and my daughter is on her own and is fairly self sufficient. I've owned my business as an insurance adjuster for 8 years and I love what I do, but it keeps me busy. I enjoy the beach, motorcycle rides, boating, art shows, cruises, camping, roller coasters, and I'm always willing to try something new. The kids and I will try skydiving in the near future. The newest thing in my life is my discovery of CrossFit. I've never been athletic, but one time is all it took, and I'm addicted. I try to work out 5x a week, and the changes in my body, my eating habits, my energy level, my attitude and my self confidence have amazed me. So what do I find attractive in a man? What am I looking for? A Christian who shares my values. A man who treats me with respect (and that goes both ways), and has old fashioned manners, knows how to laugh, a natural romantic, and is established with a career and home. Faithfulness and honesty is a must (and that also goes both ways). Fitness and fairly healthy eating is part of who I am now so it's important to me that we share this. (although admittedly, I do love chocolate!) And, if you can cook, you get brownie points because I have a tendency to burn things :) And to be perfectly honest, because we all should be on here...I don't do drama, I'm not into mind games, nor do I have the energy or patience to deal with a highly-emotional personality (been there, done that, divorced it). Nor do I want to deal with baggage like psycho ex wives or custody fights. It could be as simple as a walk through an art show or window shopping through a quaint downtown area, or a glass of wine in a little pub with a band, or maybe dinner and drinks. Something that would give us the chance to talk and get to know each other.
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Audra
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Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Love travel, food n wine. Would love to do some camping and hiking. Interested in discovering new restaurants, both fine dining and hole-in-the-wall. All around fun girl looking for someone fun to hang out with. I work mostly nights. No drama, no drugs, no whining. Cheers! Pizza!
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Alyvia
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
When I try to come up with a profile that will make someone laugh and say hey I'd like to get to know her better, meetville messes it up. I know I hit save and then it just jumps into the abyss never to be seen again. Most of us on here are shopping, we have a budget. We come on here shopping for the best deal in our own little price and comfort zone. I read wonderful profiles of men of various ages within my comfort zone. I do wonder sometimes what in the world some are thinking. We put down our must haves, do not wants and will tolerates and hope to find someone we can stand for an evening. I did learn some very valuable information and picked myself up brushed myself off and thought .....Should I even try this again, so much effort blood sweat and tears....for what??? Turns out just to learn more, I am not as optimistic or trusting but there is still room to grow. I found out for sure what I won't tolerate and what I will. I realize if someone wants something bad enough nothing actually stops them but themselves. I found out I can love again, I might get hurt, I might a lot of things but, I won't compromise my integrity anymore on someone not willing to take chances because the don't know how to not settle. I am 48 years old. I have my up's and down's in my life everything and everyone in my life is not hunky dory. (I cut myself the other day and guess what I was bleeding. Guess what still human) I expect to find someone just like me out there and work with them trying to make sense of it all and still come out on top. With and without past that they have left behind or learned from, trying to take new steps everyday in a better direction. With or without someone!! That knows they would really rather it be with someone. That last sentence might seem somewhat confusing for some but I know there are one's out there that will get it. You have to be fine with yourself, before you can really have someone in your life. Then you have to know that is what you want and what it might take to get it to the other. If you have not sit down and had a real heart to heart with yourself how can you expect to let someone in to your heart if that is what you want so badly. I wish all of us have the opportunity to explore this and come out on top of your own little universe. Somewhere that could be enjoyable for both people - someplace to be comfortable in even if you were by yourself and wasn't on a date