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About Me

Good food is my ultimate aphrodisiac... I am in constant struggle with the rational and the irrational side of me...I make friends in the unlikeliest of places, and I love to talk! I truly do believe that life is too short to sweat the small stuff, and because of this I pick my battles carefully. I believe that laughter heals any and everything. What else can I share??? I'm random, impulsive and believe in good ol fashion chivalry.;Breakfast at Tiffany's" over and over. I love music, and much like my favorite movies, I will play the same cd over and over and over, just because of how it makes me feel when I listen to it. I just started to collect albums, and I do have a record player:) so much fun... When it works:) I think music is like a photo album... A song can take you back to a moment, a friend, a time in your life... I always have my music on!Let's see, my family and friends ground me... I will try anything once, twice if I am not sure.... I am VERY social, and not in the least bit shy. Damn, this is tough... I curse like a sailor, have been on here once before, but was truly not ready. My family comes first, that said I am the oldest in a very large, Irish, Catholic family, and I am definitely the "black sheep.” I subscribe to that statement and firmly believe that every family needs some color, I am that in spades! I love to laugh as I have mentioned earlier, and it truly has been my saving grace. Hmmmmm, let's see.... I speak my mind, I just don't believe in games... and as much as I try to avoid it, trouble always seems to find me. I am sure I will add more as the mood strikes me:) If you have any questions, please ask:) I am an open book, and if a chapter is closed, I will tell you! Promise:) We can decide together, but I think a drink and conversation is the best place to start... I'm equal opportunity, I love coffee, I'm addicted; but also love a glass of wine at the end of the day. (Add an obscure restaurant to the mix and that is even better!!!!) Peace and luck navigating the site! Jules

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Citlali

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi :-) I am a single mom of the best daughter a mom could ask for a true blessing from above she is my heart my life my all.. I enjoy a nice sunny day ;) dinner outside and great conversation,I like to stay fit and jog,walk as often as I can..I luv to cook and esp cook for that special guy..I am looking for a relationship not date after date obv unless with one person to get to know them..I like to be with one person,I like a strong,confident person,independent yet available..I am NOT looking for anything casual I am looking to hopefully meet a nice person with a solid foundation and direction a man that is looking to be with me give me there time and attention, enjoy each other's conversation and company...I want a friend a lover a true person who enjoys laughter as well as the good and bad we may encounter but overcome and be one.. ..I want a man who enjoys the silly things in life outside of the everyday pressures of work,family etc..My guy would be a professional ,smart yet funny serious but silly secure with himself and know what is important in life and never settle..height and weight are not a main factor it is what is in the heart that out shines the rest..In return I am funny,serious, focused, cute,sexy,playful..Love attention kisses hugs hand holding and to just be as one (with the right person)Distance is not a issue or a deal breaker for me :)) If its a right fit it is sure worth it..If ur young but grounded mature then that is ok as well.. if you have children great too You must at least love children as I have a daughter who means more to me than anything so i come as a package so this must be known and understood :***Please be real some of us truly want to make that ONE connection...Someone who calls to say Good Morning, How was your day.. and most importantly says Good Night to there Girl.. It is the little things that make the difference and hold the most meaning ;***Please only message me if you are looking for a real honest relationship,someone you can be with.. be loyal and commited,honest,funny and serious in what you seek in one person..Chemistry is key there has to be a connection but first connection is that initial conversation too so take a chance talk then meet why the rush to meet in a half a second..Again I am Only looking for a serious minded man for a true commited relationship if your looking for a sure thing look at the next profile and best of luck :***All my pics are current so please represent yourself correctly.....and everyone asks what do you weigh I am ***and fit.. so now you know Lol I would like to TALK not text or *** if we are the right fit and go from there,coffee something casual and if it goes well then lunch or dinner or both are always an option :)Chat on here for a bit then see if there could be more to move to the next step :***

  • Raymonda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I like the outdoors. camping, fishing, 4 wheelers, etc. i like to hang out with Friends and family and have fun. Interested in friends first then see what happens after that. I'm old fashioned and I like to take relationships slow and build friendships first.I guess I have to add this comment: NOT looking to hop in the sack after hello. If that's what ur interested in then move along. Go for coffee, sit and talk and get to know each other.

  • Ellyn

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    My hobbies at this time include volunteering through work and church to help organizations and people in need as well as my kids. I like to try lots of new things, who knows I just might find another hobby or interest to add to the rest. I am on the board for an animal foster which I enjoy very much. I have passion for helping others- people and animals. My goals are to continue to be a successful parent raising my kids so that they will become successful adults. I also continue to look for ways to improve my life and help others. I would love to find someone that likes to do outdoor things such as going to the park, sitting at the lake or listening to an outdoor concert. I would like to find a walking buddy also, someone to motivate and make the walks a little more interesting. I attend church on a weekly basis and enjoy it very much although lately I haven't been the best at making it. God is an important part of my life and I would like to find someone that feels the same. I am not a bible pusher but I do very much believe. I also have three tattoos, all with a special meaning. I am a very caring and giving person and would love to find the same. I am a very loyal, faithful, honest person and would expect the same back...no games. Let me just say this be honest tell me what you want. Treat a lady like a queen and you shall be treated like a king. Don't objectify us as a sex object you and use and lie to. I do have tattoos but they are tasteful and have meaning. If that bothers you I'm sorry but they are a part of me and I will probably get a couple more over time. I enjoy many types of music, pop/rock, r&b, country. I'm perfectly imperfect and created by GOD My first date..... I would like to find a respectful, fun guy and maybe go to dinner so that we can get to know each other, from there if the weather allows we could go for a walk or sit by a lake and visit. I am terrible at bowling but that can also be fun, makes you come out of your shell a little! I like movies, however I don't think they are the best for a first date because you can not talk and get to know each other. I think communication is very important for a successful relationship or friendship. If you know you are not interested after the first date just say so. I respect a person for being honest and upfront. I would ask that if you are not attracted to me or you are not looking for a long term relationship that you be honest and just tell me I will respect you for that. If you are unsure of what you want then we may not be a match at this time.

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