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Topaz, 42

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About Me

First I would like to say thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Second I would like to say, without sounding too harsh, that I am not looking for a long distance relationship here so if you live more than an hour from me and you don't have recent pictures posted then please don't message me I'm not your match.Now about me I am a single mother of three wonderful kids 16, 19 & 20. They are the most important and precious things in my life.’s work, snowmobiling, a snowball fight, making snow angels, boating, fishing, motorcycle rides, campfires and spending time with family and friends. So you see there really isn’t much that I don’t enjoy indoors or out and if I haven’t listed it, it doesn’t mean I wouldn’t do it or at least try it . When in a relationship I love to show affection and enjoy receiving it and honesty and trust are huge to me. I like country music, I don't like animals in the house and I have 5 tattoo's...nothing crazy I promise. Again, I am not looking for a long distance relationship here so if you live more than an hour from me and you don't have recent pictures posted then please don't message me. I don't mean to sound harsh in any way but I am truly looking for a relationship. So that’s me in a nut shell. If you want to know more just ask! First dates are tough. I think it all depends on the two meeting. If you both like coffee then a cup of coffee and some conversation or if wine is your thing then a glass of wine in a corner booth would work too. The first date should be a comfortable time for both

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tonisha

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am just trying this site out..I was on once before and there are a lot of weird people on here BUT I have met some nice guys from this site :) Who are great friends now :) I was a flight attendant for 15 years and I am taking a break from that...long story..on the job injury...greatly miss my former career but nonetheless I went back to school to obtain my Bachelors in Criminal Justice with a focus on Internet Crime. I am a single mom who is currently in school for a new career. I don't have time for b.s. and men who are just looking to have sex been there done that...I don't do with FWB. However speaking of friends, I love my friends and have many friends male and female, some of my friends I have known since kindergarten. It's wonderful to keep such long lasting friendships with wonderful people.ü! love travelling, shopping and wine tasting. I LOVE scary movies and watch them all the time. Lately I have been trying to do "extras" work. I was an extra on a movie "; Great group of people and if you know anyone that can get me on the "Walking Dead" I would love ya forever!! I am working on my video for Survivor...yes I love that show. Let's see if I can make it out there. My son and I both are filming Spongebob ***minor background parts but I had a scene with Antonio Banderas :)BUT please don't contact me if you are into hunting or have pictures of deer heads or like country music....actually scratch that..you can like SOME country. I am starting to like some now :) I graduate in June with my Bachelor in Criminal Justice with an emphasis in Cyber crime. Depending on the job market I may be thinking of law school next year. Hope that doesn't offend anyone :)Yes i like to try new things which is probably why I drove an ATV once but....S. not to be rude BUT if I do not *** back after a message or two then I'm probably not interested. Sorry but I don't want to waste your time or my time. Life is too short! Wishing everyone happy fishing out there :) I'm very flexible and easy to talk to soooo perhaps lunch or a drink to test the waters out then go from there

  • Vernell

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    This is the part where the wonderful description of ourselves goes hmmm? It is a somewhat daunting task to describe oneself. So here it goes, some random things about me: At my best I am spirited, curious, and diverse, at my worst stubborn and I talk too much. I try to be a better me everyday, physically, and mentally. I am very straightforward and take things as they come to me. If you ask me my opinion, I will tell you, tactfully of course, and it will be exactly that, my opinion. Feel free to disagree. I am a self described glass is half full girl. Honesty is of great importance to me. So is laughter. I don't gossip, it's unkind. I keep confidences because it is important to be trustworthy. The best compliment I ever received was that I am compassionate. The best advice ever given to me was "we regret in life more the things we don't do than the things we do". I am a people person. I love kids and old people (I know that sounds hokey, but I do!) They usually have an interesting take on things. I am inspired by nature and the outdoors. I am learning to fish because my children love fishing. Last year I learned to shoot and loved it! I am also rather bookish, reading and writing are my escape. I love movies, music, and theater. I speak fluent German. I like early mornings as much as late nights. My favorite movie is "It's a wonderful life". My current favorite song is "Sometimes I get a feeling" by Flo Rida. I will dance, although it is usually in my kitchen while cleaning. I am not a huge sports buff but will hang around for the occaisional sporting event, I am artistic and inventive and love gardening and have been know to bouts of baking a bit compulsively. Yea, there's more but if you got this far and you're still reading and curious you'll have to ask, otherwise it'd be just as well to simply publish my autobiography in this here small box for your reading pleasure and just skip the whole dating thing. :)Addendum: I am flattered by the many responses I have gotten in my first 2 days here. I don't know if it because I am brand new and it will begin to drop off after a bit, however I do try to respond to most even if I am not interested. Please don't be offended, I have spent time thinking and have a pretty good idea of what I want in someone I will choose to spend time with. Days may be long, but life is short and I see no point in wasting anyone's time. I have a few criteria that are general reasons I will not date someone- If you are closer to my kids age than mine, thank you for stopping by, as a general rule I prefer to date a bit older, next you don't have to be a rocket scientist but you have to know something about something, be able to write an intelligable note (perfection is not necessary) and hold a conversation, one that goes back and forth, don't expect me to do all the work, I am a woman that wants to be wooed, (yes, I am so worth it), I have many interests, hopefully so do you so we will have plenty to talk about and you should like to do something I do or vice versa, SO, if you have nothing to say please go to the library (is that harsh? I hope not it's just that is the appropriate place to be quiet, not on a date ) Next I want to be able to see your face, your stuff is nice, so is your dog and your home is beautiful, I know those pictures are meant to say things about you, but the picture of you should show your face clearly and should be recent, and oh yes you look great in your sunglasses but I want to see your eyes. As a sidenote, smile! You are here to find a date not get a part in the next serious guy movie. PS. Sports are ok, like I said I will watch on occasion, but if you're into sports and only sports I am not you gal either. Sports is what I see as a great excuse for you to have your time and me to have mine but I prefer not to spend a date that way. Lastly I am a 42 year old woman, with a real 42 year old woman's body. I have had 2 children so let's be real. I have curves, some in the right places and some not so much. I will not ask you if I look fat in this outfit, I am generally pretty comfortable in my own skin, but if physical perfection is important to you then you need to hop off the bus gus. Oh yea, and anything too forward or freaky fetish stuff should be saved. Sex is important in relationships, note: in relationships, not in a weird first hi I'm so-n-so note. Thank you for you patience, please carry on4 month Update: I no longer try to respond to most, it's too much to do, I am a busy girl. It gets exhausting to keep explaining things over and over. Convincing someone, no, really you're not my type. Sorry. Not trying to be mean...so If I don't respond you haven't caught my intrest or you don't meet the criteria. It is hard to reject someone, no one wants to do that. So yea, sometimes it is easier to say nothing. Some of you write the nicest things too, which makes it even harder. But that is just how it is, sometimes we just don't feel it. So if I don't respond, thank you for your note, I am always flattered. This is not an easy way to meet someone, feels unnatural and backwards. Also if you ask for my number and I give it to you, call me, don't text me. If the phone conversation goes ok then maybe we can text. Finally, I do this all on my phone so I cannot do the online chat thing, so don't be offended when I don't respond. ;) This first date box is kinda silly, because we all just want to look at a person face to face, see if they are still attractive (do they really look like the picture that attracted you) find out if there is mutual chemistry and does this individual have anything of interest to contribute or is sitting with them a tortuous strained affair. It's anyone's guess folks, this is afterall internet dating...so whatever it takes to relax and be yourself

  • Phemie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a mother of 2. I have a daughter that was recently married, she is a beautiful and active young lady. I have a son that is still in high school. He is handsome, very athletic and is also quite intelligent. I have two kittens that I adore, I consider them to be my children as well,but I have to clean up after them a little more.I do have a disability due to a deep bone infection, i lost my right leg. i am currently learning to walk with my new prosthesis and hope to be up and moving very soon! I attended college for 2 years after graduating high school. I am looking in to going back to college very soon. I would like to take classes so that I could become a certified public accountant, I have always been pretty good in math. I would enjoy anything, I would love dinner almost anywhere from fastfood to steak, mexican, italian, chinese, well I guess you get the point.The main thing is that I would hope that time would be no factor. I would definitely want time to talk and get to know each other. Of course every lady has ideas and dreams of "the perfect date" but I don't think we need to worry about all of that. We could make it as simple as going to a high school football game or wrestling match and watch my son give it his all or a lady always likes surprises!

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