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Chanda, 41

Offline, last seen Mon, 22 Jun 2026 13:44:49

About Me

I have been divorced for several years now. I am finally at a place in my life that I can give someone a commitment. I have been employed at the same place for 14 years. I really enjoy what I do and the people I work with. I am really easy going and enjoy taking to people. I have no idea what my future holds but as of now I like to surround myself with positive things in my life and avoid alot of adult drama. I am however, one of those people who change the radio stations constantly. I seem to gravitate to the late 80's music and more classic rock but I do however like country. I would probably prefer a more casual first date. Where we could sit down and be ourselves. Getting all dress up is nice but not all that comfortable and relaxing on the first date. I would like to meet somewhere where we could talk and actually hear what each other is saying.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Topaz

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First I would like to say thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Second I would like to say, without sounding too harsh, that I am not looking for a long distance relationship here so if you live more than an hour from me and you don't have recent pictures posted then please don't message me I'm not your match.Now about me I am a single mother of three wonderful kids 16, 19 & 20. They are the most important and precious things in my life.’s work, snowmobiling, a snowball fight, making snow angels, boating, fishing, motorcycle rides, campfires and spending time with family and friends. So you see there really isn’t much that I don’t enjoy indoors or out and if I haven’t listed it, it doesn’t mean I wouldn’t do it or at least try it . When in a relationship I love to show affection and enjoy receiving it and honesty and trust are huge to me. I like country music, I don't like animals in the house and I have 5 tattoo's...nothing crazy I promise. Again, I am not looking for a long distance relationship here so if you live more than an hour from me and you don't have recent pictures posted then please don't message me. I don't mean to sound harsh in any way but I am truly looking for a relationship. So that’s me in a nut shell. If you want to know more just ask! First dates are tough. I think it all depends on the two meeting. If you both like coffee then a cup of coffee and some conversation or if wine is your thing then a glass of wine in a corner booth would work too. The first date should be a comfortable time for both

  • Krishna

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am silly, short and I laugh often. I enjoy watching movies (not just chick flicks). I love almost all sports - football being my favorite. I enjoy all types music - I especially watching local live bands, I also enjoy anything that keeps me outdoors. I am not big on the club scene; I would rather spend time at home with that one special person. I drink socially, or will have a glass of wine after a long day at the office. I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make what would have been a mundane experience a great time. I have a strong southern accent - most people find it cute and a little surprising. I am always asked what is it that I am looking for in a man - pretty simple...perfect doesn't exist, just be yourself. I want someone that knows how to have fun, laughs at the silly things in life, puts family first, and is open to really getting to know me. Looks can only take you so far, a good heart lasts a lifetime. I look forward to seeing what the future will bring. I just want to start things off slow, have fun , with all hopes of finding ONE fantastic guy. But please don't get me wrong, I don't want to spend years *** and forth, the only way to know if there is chemistry is to meet face to face. ***has been the year of many firsts. I learned how to ride a bicycle this year, purchased my first hybrid bike ( early May), Kayaked for the first time and ran my first 5K this year. This year has also taught me a lot about dating in the electronic world, I am not a drive thru window, please don't treat me as such. If you are sincere and are looking for a long term relationship, I can promise you this, you have never met anyone like me. Dating really shouldn't be this difficult If you catch me looking at your profile...Please send me a message. I am a little shy when it comes to making contact first. My favorite movie, Ghost. My favorite song, 3AM - Matchbox Twenty. Favorite Band, Stone Temple Pilots."To speak without thinking is to shoot without aiming". Maybe coffee or something casual so we can talk and get to know each other.

  • Daniela

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hmmm... I have been in this area a couple of years now and feel like I have been wasting it. There are so many good places to hang out and things to do. Yet I don't do any of it. I work and go to school and never seem to go anywhere. How boring! I would like to meet someone to really hang-out with. I need some intellectual stimulation in my life. Some good conversation would be nice. I kind of like the intellectual "geeky" type. Also must like cats as I have 3 of them. Thanks. :) Probably coffee or something similar.

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