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Christeen, 48
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

Offline, last seen Sun, 26 Apr 2026 14:29:52

About Me

I am putting serious effort into meeting someone. I am an old school girl who likes a man to be a man and me to be a woman. Love to have doors held for me, flowers for no reason, and all the manners your momma taught you when you were young. Mutual respect is huge, I would love to meet a man who is able to be emotionally available,who can actually know how to relax,and be ok with it. He must love to cuddle,kiss ,hug and be affectionate easily,that's his nature. He has lots of energy and is spontaneous.Someone who has time to invest in building a long term relationship.I'm looking for the right guy for me,not mister perfect. If you have children, that is fine. My baby is 18 and doing his own thing. I try to be a better person everyday,and practice randoms acts of kindness. My theory is,you get as good as you give in life. I love my job,but it doesn't rule my life. A fun loving guy who loves to laugh and enjoy life with a great lady.I have a great sense of humor and have my friends laughing hysterically,so he would also have to be able to make me laugh. Someone who can be friends leading to lovers ending in a future together, but taking it slow to get to that point eventually. He should enjoy travel,the beach,amusement parks,sports,camping,be flexible and some what spontaneous. If you have a pass port even better, I love the islands. I enjoy working out, walking, just started jogging, it would be great to meet someone who can do these things also. A partner makes it more fun. I am a curvy girl and like it that way, but I am trying to get healthier. I'm not obsessed with looks,attraction is key,even if its a beautiful pair of eyes or a killer smile. I don't discriminate against people with tattoos or piercings,we all have our own look,doesn't make us bad. I am sorry, but I can not date someone who smokes cigarettes. The smell is just too much. If this sounds like you, let me know! (Please have full body pictures, or sorry, I will not reply. ty k:)) Unfortunately, if you do not get a reply, it is because I feel we would not be compatible. There has to be some kind of attraction. Excessive texting makes me crazy, call me and talk, lol, then we can make plans to meet. I didn't sign up to be an *** Thanks and best of luck with your search k :) That is something we would have to discuss, everyone is different. I can assure you it would be a lot of fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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