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Andi, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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I have little patience for ***, but a little goofiness I can take all day!!! A real man, calm inside with a strong presence. I am new, very new at this. It is not my priority, so if you don't hear back from me...part of the reson is: I am a single mom of twin girls, 9 years old...but I will be in touch or politely let you know I am moving on.My goal is for the girls to understand what a loving relationship is between a man and a woman. I pray the damage is reversible, but I do NOT want them to make the same mistakes I have in the past. They need to see a strong, convicted, gentle, loving man with their Mommy.The guy will have to allow me, and he to catch each other's soul, through our eyes and there must be chemistry with a conviction of me being his and he being my first priority in life, and to lead side by side, with me to the most amazing front porch, where we will sit on that double rocker, hand in hand, reflecting on the life we were so graciously granted as another chance to recognize love, be loved, and love someone as it should be.I want in the end, for my girls to look at he and I and recognize how much we love each other. Is that too much to ask? Am I just a dreamer? I don't expect a smooth ride, but I do expect a champion who can still look at me at the end of the day, understand my depths, respect them, accept them and appreciate who I am, how I love and most everything about me. This is my first time out in 12 years, so I suspect there will be a few learning curves for me, however, I am no child, and find it refreshing that I am so bold writing this, and so sure of what I want for the first time in my life.Do you?;-) Deb First dates will be tough, I get all shy...especially if we have not met. Something casual...short time frame, glass of wine...and then take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Fishing French Portuguese Spanish Vietnamese Adult Animation Romance Spirituality
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    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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  • Kinborough from Collinsville | Woman | 46 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Here I am again,. I am extremely laid back friendly and courteous, I am the girl next door. I am enegertic , outgoing and fun. I have a wonderful personality and even make my own self laugh. at times... I am very ambitious and am spontaneous.. I love to dress up go out on the town. or spend quiet days at home..I enjoy wine tasting too. I love to go fishing, dancing, eating out, and to have fun.. My best quality is my eyes and my smile they are brown and am extremely romantic. ..I love flowers or sunsets just because. . I love almost any kind of music... Except hip hop..... I do have children however they don't live with me. I am an awesome cook but cooking for myself is not fun. Oh i forgot to mention im a big Nascar fan and I love football. Go Pats!!!Country and top 40 its all good... :) I use to model but please don't hold that against me. I also love to be by the beach and the water. Volleyball? Sailing ? What are you up for ?? I am also interested in taking up ballroom dancing. I would love to have a nice time.. coffee shop, ice cream, a nice glass of wine. ....... or just even a nice walk.. up to your your choicel where we are both comfortable.

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  • Jani from Collinsville | Woman | 49 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I love to be outdoors in the spring and summer time.Summer is my favorite . My son is no. 1 in my life . i like going a watching his bodybuilding shows. What makes me unique is that i am not a selfish person, very kind hearted ,sincere,fun,caring gal. I tend to like a little bit of a bad boy. I am a sweet gal with a little bit of a wild side, I like all types of music. I would like to someday to move where its warm. Unless i have found my mate and then i would like to be with him wherever. I like to be active and willing to try most things. And above all love to laugh. If your into lying and games please move on. I am not looking for a one night stand. I am a hopeful romantic. I have alot of interests and would like to try new ones. ..I grew up riding motorcycle with my dad and still enjoy riding with someone and going where the road will take us,its very mind clearing for me. Its not a deal breaker if u dont have a harley, but would be awesome for us to both enjoy riding, Thank you for reading my profile ,. . Oh and yes love to fish and hunt. If your tired of the games send me a message. If i dont message you back its nothing personal ,saving us all time. I have found thats what happens to me if there not interested they just dont answer,Thats how they roll on here.(Love comes from not finding the perfect person, but learning to see an imperfect person perfectly!!! Meet for a drink or coffee. And see if theres a spark..

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