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Andi, 49

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About Me

I have little patience for ***, but a little goofiness I can take all day!!! A real man, calm inside with a strong presence. I am new, very new at this. It is not my priority, so if you don't hear back from me...part of the reson is: I am a single mom of twin girls, 9 years old...but I will be in touch or politely let you know I am moving on.My goal is for the girls to understand what a loving relationship is between a man and a woman. I pray the damage is reversible, but I do NOT want them to make the same mistakes I have in the past. They need to see a strong, convicted, gentle, loving man with their Mommy.The guy will have to allow me, and he to catch each other's soul, through our eyes and there must be chemistry with a conviction of me being his and he being my first priority in life, and to lead side by side, with me to the most amazing front porch, where we will sit on that double rocker, hand in hand, reflecting on the life we were so graciously granted as another chance to recognize love, be loved, and love someone as it should be.I want in the end, for my girls to look at he and I and recognize how much we love each other. Is that too much to ask? Am I just a dreamer? I don't expect a smooth ride, but I do expect a champion who can still look at me at the end of the day, understand my depths, respect them, accept them and appreciate who I am, how I love and most everything about me. This is my first time out in 12 years, so I suspect there will be a few learning curves for me, however, I am no child, and find it refreshing that I am so bold writing this, and so sure of what I want for the first time in my life.Do you?;-) Deb First dates will be tough, I get all shy...especially if we have not met. Something casual...short time frame, glass of wine...and then take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Topsy

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    * For Starters* I am a mother of four and a grand mother to 2 with 2 more on the way. My life is all about them and making sure they grow and become whom the Good Lord intended them to be. I would like to find a Real Man; by this I mean a man that will accept me for whom I am no matter what. Continue reading if I haven't scared you off. I am a true romantic and would like to find my equal. I would like to find someone that can be open and honest about everything they are feeling. I find that intelligence to be very sexy... I would like to find someone that can hold a conversation in any subject. Growing up, my father always told me I was a jack of all trades and master of none. I love working with my hands and am often found making things or taking them apart to see how they work. I fell in love with Christian Grey and just like all the other women I set out to find my Christian. I do not want to find a man that is a push over nor do I want a mom-ma's boy...I would like to find someone that is strong yet has a gentle side.I have to be honest: I love God and all he has done for me, I thank Him everyday. God comes first in my life. I love my children and grand children but they cannot keep me warm on a chilly evening. Looking for a man that would like to curl up on the couch/sofa and watch a movie...or just lie down and watch the stars with me.Now for the look.... I would like to find someone that has little to no facial hair... 5 o'clock shadow YES!!!! Do not understand why but I do love a man's biceps.*note* extra points if you know Christian Grey and can tell me about his life. Surprise Me!

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