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Andi, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

Offline, last seen Sat, 27 Sep 2025 14:10:40

About Me

I have little patience for ***, but a little goofiness I can take all day!!! A real man, calm inside with a strong presence. I am new, very new at this. It is not my priority, so if you don't hear back from me...part of the reson is: I am a single mom of twin girls, 9 years old...but I will be in touch or politely let you know I am moving on.My goal is for the girls to understand what a loving relationship is between a man and a woman. I pray the damage is reversible, but I do NOT want them to make the same mistakes I have in the past. They need to see a strong, convicted, gentle, loving man with their Mommy.The guy will have to allow me, and he to catch each other's soul, through our eyes and there must be chemistry with a conviction of me being his and he being my first priority in life, and to lead side by side, with me to the most amazing front porch, where we will sit on that double rocker, hand in hand, reflecting on the life we were so graciously granted as another chance to recognize love, be loved, and love someone as it should be.I want in the end, for my girls to look at he and I and recognize how much we love each other. Is that too much to ask? Am I just a dreamer? I don't expect a smooth ride, but I do expect a champion who can still look at me at the end of the day, understand my depths, respect them, accept them and appreciate who I am, how I love and most everything about me. This is my first time out in 12 years, so I suspect there will be a few learning curves for me, however, I am no child, and find it refreshing that I am so bold writing this, and so sure of what I want for the first time in my life.Do you?;-) Deb First dates will be tough, I get all shy...especially if we have not met. Something casual...short time frame, glass of wine...and then take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-40

    I consider myself to be a pretty down to earth and laid back person. I’m pretty easy to get along with and I’m very family oriented. I am a single mom and my son is my world so I’m pretty picky about who I bring around him. I work very hard to sustain what I’ve achieved in life so far and I’m looking for the same in a partner. I’m looking for someone who has his act together as I do. With that being said, I’m not looking for a sugar daddy and I’m definitely not looking to be a sugar momma...been there, done that. I’m more interested in equal partners. I’m not looking for a random hookup so please skip me over if that’s all you’re interested in. I would like to get to know someone and just see where it goes. If it turns into something, awesome! If it doesn’t, hopefully we can still be friends. You can find me on ***, Nshellz86.

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  • Cyndi from Collinsville | Woman | 47 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hmm. I hate this part... I'm a sweet, kind girl who is extremely simple, happy, and easy going. I'm spontaneous and fun loving. I guess you could say I'm old fashioned, very loyal and honest. I have a huge heart and I love to by gifts just to see the smile on your face, that makes me happy. I'm only interested in dating one man, I'm not into someone who's juggling a few girls. I love cooking, cleaning, baking, eating, and working out. I'm addicted to laughing (and chocolate). I like a guy with a sense of humor. I have two daughters, they are 23 and 25, and I have two granddaughter's who I'm absolutely nuts over. They live out of state so I don't see them much but they are the loves of my life! I work in a middle school in special ed with children who have all types of disabilities and behaviors. I truly love my job and all the kids I work with. My kids are grown and I'm all alone now so I'm taking a chance and hoping to find someone on here who is genuine and not into playing games. I'm looking for someone who likes to joke around and laugh, someone who doesn't take himself too seriously, someone who likes to keep fit as well. I'm Italian so you have to like to eat, I have the appetite of an eighteen year old boy. Lol If you think you're interested, *** we can get to know one another. Without chemistry, it doesn't really matter what anybody writes. Something real quick to see if we have chemistry.

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  • Delila from Collinsville | Woman | 47 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a very affectionate, caring, loyal person. I can be a bit shy at first, until you get to know me. I am looking for someone I can feel comfortable with having quiet evenings talking as well as fun nights out on the town! Someone to enjoy spending time with... I enjoy staying in watching a movie with a glass of wine just as much as going out and shaking up the town! My friends would tell you I am loyal to the end, someone you can always count on. I've had my best friends since I was a little girl! I believe in honesty being the best policy. You won't find any drama or games with me.I'll be honest, I am currently a bit out of shape, and I am working on that. I recently took up running! I am not huge by any means, but if you're looking for a supermodel, you will want to move on... If you're mainly into looks, I'll want you to move on anyway... But it would be fun to meet someone I could go on runs,hikes or even just walks with. I do not like rap, and I can tolerate country. Any other type of music I like! I enjoy going to see a good band. Comedy clubs are fun too. I also enjoy motorcycle rides and boating. If you've got a motorcycle, I've got a helmet! (By no means is no motorcycle a deal-breaker though, lol)I am an independent gal, comfortable with who I am but would like someone special in my life! That about sums me up. Oh yeah, I love my scottie dog too...and I am allergic to cats. Coffee house is always nice, or drinks. Somewhere where we can chat and get to know each other.

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