Total users: 64,635,004 Online users: 232,490

Ellen, 47

United States, Illinois, Bunker Hill

Online

About Me

I'm a very passionate, deep thinking person. I value people and learning new things. I won't ask for anything that I'm not willing to give. I abhor inequity and will always fight for the underdog. I spent 20 year of my life doing something that I didn't really want to do and then changed careers "mid-life" to finally follow my passion. So, I'm in a really good place now and finally doing something meaningful that I also love. I love being a mom and am at once terrified and elated that my girls are getting ready to "leave the nest". They're amazing people and very important to me. I've been through a few relationships - each with their own unique positives and negatives and all of them have helped me grow tremendously as a person. Now I want to find someone I can settle in with. Life is unpredictable. I don't want to spend whatever is left of it alone. Right now, I really just want to find someone I can hang with, talk to about anything - someone who has some time and wants to spend it with me. I want to focus on friendship first. I have always told my girls, "Marry your best friend". It's so important. I want someone who doesn't have the kind of baggage that keeps them from moving forward and living life. I want someone who understands the value of time - who is self-confident, enjoys what they're doing, realizes that life isn't all about work, and also values relationships. I'm trying to be present in my own life, so I want to be with someone who is present as well. I can handle intense, but I'm trying to be more easy going - so if you are that would be great! I have a good group of friends, so hopefully you like meeting new people. I also like hanging with my kids occasionally, so hopefully you don't mind teenagers. I can just as easily sit around at home and watch TV or go out for dinner and drinks and prefer to have a little of both in my week. I'm a talker and a listener - very "open book". I'm definitely a people person and although I can talk to anyone, I prefer to fill my life with "real" people. If any of this sounds good to you then send me an *** I am pretty content to do anything, but for the first date probably meet out for dinner and/or drinks somewhere - spend some time talking and getting to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Country Jazz English Portuguese Cricket Tennis Singing
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Alvina from Bunker Hill | Woman | 50 years old | Libra
    Alvina

    Online

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    well here I go- I love many things in life. Especially smiling, I want to find people who are kind understanding, honest not a game player. And dosn't live for drama !! who wants to be treated special and will treat me the same way... Im someone that wants to meet people that don't judge a book by its "cover". I am so much that way!! .And would appreciate meeting more people like that.. I'm very independent and I live a life with spirituality not so much religion.I'm definitely spontaneous and can be ready in about 20 minutes to do about anything. I love all types of music especially live music.Some of my favorite lyrics are from Pink Floyd: For long you live and high you fly,For smiles you give and tears you cry, for all you touch and all you see is all your life will ever be. I think that sums it up quite nicely.I'm very easy going and enjoy meeting new people and talking with them and trying new things.I feel very blessed in so many ways,I have one beautiful daughter who lives at home and is very independent. I also have two very good friends their like a brother and a sister to me.. I need my special person, my partner to understand these kind of relationships. I'm not looking for any type of 3 ways or jumping into a uhaul !! I'm always working on myself every day. I'm over weight and trying to lose some weight not for vanity but to live a healthier life. I definitely would say I'm loyal,understanding and a great listener. And have been told this by many.And I enjoy meeting others that carry these same characteristics. I'm self employed so I need to stay close to SD .I love dogs and have two their the ones I sleep with every night. I strongly believe in only adopting animals from shelters or rescues.There are so many animals in need of homes. I wish I could have more but two is a good amount. I love travelling anywhere, even if its just a road trip to get some time to relax. I love getting a good massage regularly, I do pamper myself and others and have no problem doing that.. I've been told by many that I'm a good cook and I love to entertain,I love the pleasure of cooking a delicious and beautiful meal and watching others enjoy. The two things I must have are HONESTY AND RESPECT because I deserve that and so do you.I feel that those two things are very important in any relationships!!!! Looking forward to meeting you. Take are GG

    Chat
  • Sarahjeanne from Bunker Hill | Woman | 49 years old | Gemini
    Sarahjeanne

    Online

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I love to travel, go to casino's and spend time at the beach. I enjoy anything that has to do with water. I am kind hearted, easy going and a giver. I am seeking the same. I enjoy spontaneous road trips and just quiet times at home. I enjoy country music, 70's-now music and southern rock.I work full time and hope to go back to school for continuing my education. Some day hope to travel again.Would love finding someone to Jet Skiing, boating, shoot some pool or just hang out with. I have traveled a lot and I think this is the hardest State I have lived in to meet people. If you are out there and want to get together and just have some fun; send me an *** meet some where mutual and see if we click enough to hang out together. Then let nature take its course. Who knows we may become great friends or something more.NO drugs or excessive drinkers. Meet at a causal mutual place for coffee or drink; where we can talk and be comfortable.

    Chat
  • Silver from Bunker Hill | Woman | 47 years old | Gemini
    Silver

    Online

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    How would I describe myself? Hmm, I'm down to earth, people say I have a great sense of humor...I do love to laugh, it does wonders for the heart. Photography is one of my passions in life, I'm an amateur, but I absolutely love it. I enjoy going for walks along the river and taking time to wander and explore, you never know what treasures you may find. I love all kinds of music, from the type that makes you wanna dance, to anything that stirs your soul. I'm an animal lover. My friends are my family and mean the world to me. I love the outdoors and out of the way places. I enjoy good conversation and getting to know new people. I love life's simplest moments and find that the greatest gifts are those that come without the wrapping. If you are interested in getting to know me, I'd love to hear from you. I look forward to getting to know you.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: