• Benton
• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

Hi! To make a long story short...divorced twice (first married my son's father, 2nd I married my best friend). I have a great 16 year old Son, a great job and am very good at what I do. I am intelligent, attractive, energetic, sometimes too outspoken and sometimes too set in my ways. I am NOT rich and don't own material things and don't really care (divorce and being a single parent will do that). I think I sometimes scare guys off with my who gives a crap attitude (dating), but I am ME and if you like me for who I am then great. I've kind of been a loner for awhile (never really had close girlfriends, didn't care to) and I have been kind of living in limbo since my divorce from my best friend and partner. Sure, I've dated and even got burned a couple of times, but I refuse to believe that I am going to grow old and alone, lolI am not a player, I don't like games. I am straight up and to the point and expect the same. I am looking for a great guy who can be my friend to start, lover and eventually my partner in life. But if you are just going through a separation, divorce, still hooked on your Ex or looking for an FWB, don't bother with me. I am definitely NOT interested in any of that. Like I said, I get right to the point.I'm fun to do things with, sports, beach, fishing, golfing, camping and watching Rider games (Huge Rider Fan). Many interests and try to enjoy life, but I sometimes stress about things that truly don't matter, but that is just an aspect of my personality and of me being ME. Take it or leave it. I am who I am...I should not have to change myself if someone truly cares about me, as I would not expect that of them.I want a best friend to start and hopefully my partner in life...Don't be afraid to message me. I am still optimistic that I will meet my equal on this disheartening dating site lolKat Something casual or something energetic!

• Benton
• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

I am a kind, caring, person who is done raising her now adult child and ready to start living life to it's fullest potential. Because I'm not a barfly, I don't get out much but I can boast a large library of hardcover Koontz and King, all read. I enjoy writing and am not bad at it. Maybe I can write you a poem one day if you so touch my heart. I am an animal lover and just felt I had to mention thatl I love family and unfortunately haven't any to speak of due to several deaths so my holidays are rather lonely. But I do love the holidays and don't let that stop me from being festive when the mood strikes. I am a Sagitarrius and I mention that because anyone that knows anything about that, first of all has at least that in common with me, and second of all, many of it's personality traits are also mine. One thing I grew up around and will always love is motorcycles. The sound of a Harley is one of my favorite sounds. I love to travel, I love to be spontaneous, and I'm not one to plan things out to a tee and stick to a rigid schedule. I've found that in my experience, things have always worked out even better than I could've ever thought to have planned in the first place. I haven't dated in a long long time and no relationship[ for years.Music, I love music, it helps me in many ways. I've been to several concerts and that was one of my hobbies I've gotten away from but would love to get back to. I love everything from rock to country to, yes some older rap. I am now writing a book and will be attending school again soon. I enjoy good food, not too formal, love being outside, love the ocean, music, dancing. AND FUN.

• Benton
• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

I thought I'd give this another try. I'm a very laid back cool chick. I love to laugh. I like all kinds of thingsI like motorcycles,tattoos. Like to go out and dance have a good time or just stay home. Not a girly girl but like to dress up to.I'm looking for something real. Any questions. Just ask.Also another thing if your not serious about wanting to meet someone to hav a relationship w please dont message me. im looking for a good guy who is real, honest and sincere.. not looking for friends w benifits or a hook up or one nite stand. so if your a decent good looking guy(no looks arent every thing but they help) message me