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Athena, 50

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About Me

"I looked in all the places you aren't...I just can't find the places you are. I only know, that you... are where...I am not." - . . "I found you to be a fabulous combination of smart, funny, sexy and last but not least... Beautiful!" Unfortunately, he lived too far.I would describe myself as Kind-hearted, Sensitive & Easy Going and tend to wear a smile on my face, Romantic, Sensual, Outgoing, Smart, Funny, and I have a quick wit in a playful way. I'm fun but I don't play games. Most importantly, I'm Authentic and hope you are too. I Desire a man with similar qualities who is emotionally available, a man who appreciates the beauty within. When I love, I love with every ounce of my being. I love being "in love" (but it's been a long time), I love to laugh and yes, that magical Chemistry is important. I'm not in a rush to get married again unless your the guy that takes me by surprise and knocks me off my feet, don't want to live with anyone anytime soon, but I'd love to be in a long term loving relationship. I do realize these things take time. I'm also not interested in a Serial Dater. I must have missed the episodes on Sesame Street when I was kid that talked about sharing because I do not like to share my man.I gravitate towards a man with Confidence, Intelligence, is Romantic, with a great sense of humor and knows how to treat a Lady. I prefer a non-smoker and between the ages of 40 to 57. A guy that actually wants to talk on the phone once in a while is a plus. I don't mind texting but I'd love to hear your masculine voice too. I'm a Professional Business woman, love my job most days and don't need a man to take care of me. Doesn't mean I won't let you spoil me though if you want to! I recently turned ***yikes! But I have a 10 yr old daughter that keeps me young. The Ex has her often enough to allow "Us" time. If there isn't enough "us" time there is such a thing as babysitters. We have a good relationship raising our daughter so there is no drama there. Naturally he gets my blood boiling every now and then, but I'm easy going, get over it rather quickly and we're back to being friends again. Love all music - Smooth Jazz and The Blues is my favorite - don't care much for Rap and Country. Favorites;- Comedies, Chick flicks;)TV: Shark Tank, Hells Kitchen, American Idol, Million Dollar Listing & I hate to admit it but Millionaire Matchmaker - Patti just cracks me up!Food - Italian is my favorite I've been asked, why am I still on here? It seems all the good guys either live too far away, don't have the time (or both) or we have our kids opposite weekends. I prefer to be pursued, not the one doing the pursuing. I'm a little old-fashioned in that regard. I try to respond to all e-mails even if it's just to say I don't think we'd be a good match but if you just say "Hi" or "hi, how are you" it doesn't give me much to work with! If you think we might resonate, let's get off this site and let our fantasy love story begin!Lastly, I'm a full-figured girl but still feel sexy and carry myself with confidence. I realize most men prefer skinny chicks and that's fine - why waste each other's time? But if you're attracted to a voluptuous curvy woman, we're off to a good start! I don't respond to profiles or e-mails without pics. I have found that the guys without pics usually are either married or have someone at home or have something they are trying to hide. Please be within 45 minutes or have your own private jet. Most of my pics were taken ***some ***. Romantic dinner on the waterfront is always nice or meet for a cup of coffee / breakfast on a weekend morning.But I found that if we have that magical chemistry, it really doesn't matter where we meet or what we do.Although jumping out of an airplane would not be on my list of personal preferences!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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