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Totty, 41

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About Me

I'm sorry but I won't respond to the "meet me" so please step up and ***, it's a free site after all....I've had wanderlust since my teens; I immerse myself in the places I go, learning about the food, culture and people. I take my camera with me as it reminds me to look at the world from different perspectives and to bring some of myself to and from the places I go. I have more brain cells than pairs of shoes, and do not freak out if I chip a nail. That being said, I am not a tomboy. My style is elegantly sexy and I grew up in a family that puts greater value on integrity and practicality than vanity and labels. I am straightforward, intellectual, spontaneous, self-confident, compassionate and have an insatiable curiosity. I exercise regularly (mostly strength training and yoga, which keeps me strong and focused..and I can stand on my head!) I am toned but will always have curves. I can be reserved at first, but when comfortable, am very open, warm and romantic.I started my own company three years ago and am looking for an equal partner to enjoy theater, museums, exploring the world, long walks in the park, dining out, wine tasting, movies, weekend getaways (yes, I can hike and hang out in the jungle too), and lazy Sundays..and perhaps even more. I have a basenji puppy -- no yappy fluffy dog here. He's hunter, racer and clown all rolled into one. I know there are habitual daters out there. Not me. I am looking for an honest, fun, grounded and ethical guy to develop something special with and who views intelligence and strength in their partner as assets. Although I may come across as a ducks-in-a-row kinda gal, I do prefer a partner who is not afraid to take the lead. Someone who thrives on sharing and learning from each other, who can laugh with me and at ourselves and not take life so seriously all the time, is an optimist, who is just old fashioned enough to exchange love letters *** text messages, and who has the emotional courage to share his dreams as well as his vulnerabilities with me. Who finds those special unexpected moments are as romantic as I do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tamala

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am happy at home with my kids, some good friends and a bottle of wine and just as happy out on the town; dancing, seeing concerts, wine or beer tasting, tons more. Maybe you can find me a new hobby! I am very playful, even leaning towards the sarcastic side. I like to debate politics and current events; love Bill Maher! So if you watch him that should tell you a lot about me. I am a pretty straight shooter and I usually say what's on my mind. No games here unless you are talking about a good competition. But I do have a soft side and love to do things for the people I care about. I am looking for someone that can be spontaneous and go with the flow, for someone that is not afraid to try new things or sometimes just embrace the "cheese". Yes, maybe a heart shaped bed and champagne glass bathtub... So I look forward to hearing from you! I find the fun in anything, why not try something different?

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    My interests include playing my guitar singing,i love concerts local bands.support. i love boating jetsking,harleys spending time cuddling im not to materialistic so it dosent take much to make me happy. Like i say im not materialistic so coffee dinner pizza boat ride bike ride car ride talking is all good with me.

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