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Totty, 41

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About Me

I'm sorry but I won't respond to the "meet me" so please step up and ***, it's a free site after all....I've had wanderlust since my teens; I immerse myself in the places I go, learning about the food, culture and people. I take my camera with me as it reminds me to look at the world from different perspectives and to bring some of myself to and from the places I go. I have more brain cells than pairs of shoes, and do not freak out if I chip a nail. That being said, I am not a tomboy. My style is elegantly sexy and I grew up in a family that puts greater value on integrity and practicality than vanity and labels. I am straightforward, intellectual, spontaneous, self-confident, compassionate and have an insatiable curiosity. I exercise regularly (mostly strength training and yoga, which keeps me strong and focused..and I can stand on my head!) I am toned but will always have curves. I can be reserved at first, but when comfortable, am very open, warm and romantic.I started my own company three years ago and am looking for an equal partner to enjoy theater, museums, exploring the world, long walks in the park, dining out, wine tasting, movies, weekend getaways (yes, I can hike and hang out in the jungle too), and lazy Sundays..and perhaps even more. I have a basenji puppy -- no yappy fluffy dog here. He's hunter, racer and clown all rolled into one. I know there are habitual daters out there. Not me. I am looking for an honest, fun, grounded and ethical guy to develop something special with and who views intelligence and strength in their partner as assets. Although I may come across as a ducks-in-a-row kinda gal, I do prefer a partner who is not afraid to take the lead. Someone who thrives on sharing and learning from each other, who can laugh with me and at ourselves and not take life so seriously all the time, is an optimist, who is just old fashioned enough to exchange love letters *** text messages, and who has the emotional courage to share his dreams as well as his vulnerabilities with me. Who finds those special unexpected moments are as romantic as I do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Antionette

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well...let's see....I think if one of my friends were to describe me, they'd say, or at least I'd pay them to say, "She's silly, fun, classy, goal oriented, adores her children, loves her dog, creative, happy, witty, confident, independent, honest, goofy, accountable, reliable, and lastly the best friend one could wish for!!" ;) Like I said, I'd pay em'. The most important things in my life are my son and daughter, my puppy dog, my family and friends. I I also like to keep things as simple as possible - live in the moment. Some of the things that are important to me in a guy are that he values family, loves children, has great a sense of humor, is goal-oriented, honest, loving, and easy-going. Doesn't take life too seriously. Good tipper. The first date would be pretty casual. Maybe a drink or coffee.

  • Tisha

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello.So Iv'e been here before and I'm not sure why I'm back trying. But here I am. So lets see aboutme...bitter, vengeful, nasty, and pissed off!!! Lol ok just kidding. Discouraged...yes. I'm a single mother of two.With one still at home. Moved here from So Cali 9yrs ago. I enjoy most music, and most movies. I'm easy to please and not high-maintenance, but I am a woman, and do enjoy being shown affection and appreciation. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me or someone that i need to raise along side my kid. The one thing I'm searching for is honesty, and for some reason that's so hard to find. I love to laugh. I crack myself up. Almost always have a smile. I'm looking for a relationship. I know it has to start with some chemistry, and friendship. But want to meet someone that is open to that being the goal.I'm a BBW so if that's not your thing, that's ok, good luck fishing.Not into the club scene.

  • Blanid

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Not really great at talking about myself but figured it is time to update the profile with a different mindset than the one expressed before. I have been on this site for a little over a year and though I have met some great people I have not found the one. I lost my job in December of this past year and have started my own business. I am a much happier person now that I set my own schedule. I enjoy working in the yard, DIY projects indoors or out, listening to music on mp3 and live, reading (mostly self help books these days), fishing, spending time with friends, and working out at the gym. Would love to find someone that has the same or similar interests to spend time with. I want someone that takes care of themselves, loves to laugh, doesn't mind affection (even in public). I do not date outside my race but am not racist (so don't bother messaging me BS about it) just a personal preference. I am not looking to be someones mistress or piece on the side. I also prefer men that are atleast the same height as myself. I am a very open person so feel free to message any questions you may have. Look forward to hearing from you. breakfast, lunch, dinner, workout at the gym, coffee, juicebar. Anything where we can get to know one another.

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