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About Me

I'm sorry but I won't respond to the "meet me" so please step up and ***, it's a free site after all....I've had wanderlust since my teens; I immerse myself in the places I go, learning about the food, culture and people. I take my camera with me as it reminds me to look at the world from different perspectives and to bring some of myself to and from the places I go. I have more brain cells than pairs of shoes, and do not freak out if I chip a nail. That being said, I am not a tomboy. My style is elegantly sexy and I grew up in a family that puts greater value on integrity and practicality than vanity and labels. I am straightforward, intellectual, spontaneous, self-confident, compassionate and have an insatiable curiosity. I exercise regularly (mostly strength training and yoga, which keeps me strong and focused..and I can stand on my head!) I am toned but will always have curves. I can be reserved at first, but when comfortable, am very open, warm and romantic.I started my own company three years ago and am looking for an equal partner to enjoy theater, museums, exploring the world, long walks in the park, dining out, wine tasting, movies, weekend getaways (yes, I can hike and hang out in the jungle too), and lazy Sundays..and perhaps even more. I have a basenji puppy -- no yappy fluffy dog here. He's hunter, racer and clown all rolled into one. I know there are habitual daters out there. Not me. I am looking for an honest, fun, grounded and ethical guy to develop something special with and who views intelligence and strength in their partner as assets. Although I may come across as a ducks-in-a-row kinda gal, I do prefer a partner who is not afraid to take the lead. Someone who thrives on sharing and learning from each other, who can laugh with me and at ourselves and not take life so seriously all the time, is an optimist, who is just old fashioned enough to exchange love letters *** text messages, and who has the emotional courage to share his dreams as well as his vulnerabilities with me. Who finds those special unexpected moments are as romantic as I do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am adding this information to cut back on messages and wasting someones time. I am not interested in booty calls, doing freaky things, getting massages from you or hanging out with married men. I have no intentions on sending you dirty pics of me, so don't bother asking. I date younger guys most of the time. I am interested in very smart, tall, and athletic guys with big muscles. I am a lot of work and have a strong personality. I like going to sporting events and would never date someone who didnt want to take me to a Bama game or at least watch their games. If you think going to wine tastings or galleries is fun then I am definitely not for you.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a hard-working mom of two awesome teenagers ***a senior in high school and one entering his second year at Western! I am sensitive, fun loving, caring, honest and sincere. Those who know me best may say I am a little sassy too! I value and love my kids and family very much. I enjoy hanging out with my friends, boating, dancing, music, going to the movies, walks in the park or whatever sounds good at the moment. Love to be outside! I am up for trying new things, look forward to new challenges - like learning to golf, which I definitely need more practice at, and new adventures! Meet for coffee or drinks...somewhere quiet so we are able to talk and get to know each other.

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hello, I'm a single-mom looking for someone to have fun with and who we can get to know each other and go from there! I love to camp, read, cook, spend time with my children and family, and let loose every once in a while! I'm unique because I know when to be very serious, but I also know when to sit around a campfire or go to dinner and have lots of laughs as well! Hope to find someone looking for some similar likes and interests :o). I don't want a liar, cheater, or a player. I want someone that is willing to stay fully committed (it DOES take work on both sides) Maybe going out for dinner and a movie, or maybe having a fire and a couple glasses of wine and get to know each other. I love to talk and laugh, so whatever comes naturally to both of us, I guess!

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