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Janiyah, 42

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About Me

Me: fun, sassy, caring, passionate and honest. The two things I've been called the most in my life are funny and spitfire. I would describe myself as a nice girl with a little edge. I have a kind heart and enjoy helping others. I'm pretty social and really enjoy meeting new people and trying new things. I also enjoy my alone time when I need it. I love good food, and of course a good glass of beer or wine with it. I also love dancing, but that doesn't mean you have to do it with me. You: fun, witty, caring, passionate and honest. I'm looking for a man that is confident, but not arrogant...strong, but not a bully...smart, but not smug...extroverted, but not a show off. I'm want someone who will make me laugh and treat me well...and I will do the same in return. Meeting at local bar or restaurant with character for a drink or two...if we have chemistry we can make it up as we go along...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Xiomara

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Me & what I like...I have tattoos... no piercings... Working hard, sleeping in. Coffee, quite in the morning, sleeping to a fan. Kissing :), laughing, smiling, sunflowers, golf. Family, friends. Cooking, alone time. My dog. My cat. My job. Music.... all kinds. Dinner out. Oceans, the moon, the smell of up north. Growing my own vegetables. Laying on a boat in the sun. Camping, bed n breakfast, room service. Italian food, accents. A man in uniform. Honesty. Mutual Respect.I have never been married...almost, I am happy and I am doing what I love. I would like to meet a wonderful man and see what happens from there...hopefully... I will find my best friend and we will live happily ever after!...lol .... I'm all grown up... I have raised a boy into a good man.... I am not into games or drama. I have complications in my life just like everyone else....It's finding someone that can adapt to your life and you to theirs. I want that feeling again when he brushes up against you and your heart almost hits your feet, and he didn't even know he did it. I want to see the smile on his face that is the one he has only for me. I want to be at work and can't wait to get home to see him.....everyday. You:Attractive, confident, kind, honest. TALLer, funny, protecting. Smart, handy, spontaneous, sarcastic. Fun. Cares about others and themselves. I would like to meet someone that is in to living a healthy life style and wants to continue to do so. Dinner... coffee... conversation?

  • Treasure

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    It is September and I have taken a year off from dating and recently decided to give this another try. I am comfortable being single however I would like to share my life and interests with someone special. I would rather someone make their own opinion about me by talking and meeting me but I will tell you a little about me. First of all, I am a very happy person. I don't let things get me down and I always see the positive even in a bad situation. You will always see a smile on my face and I do joke and laugh a lot. I am quite the social person and have a large network of friends. If you like quiet, then Im not the one. I love having conversations, asking questions and learning. Im not a needy person so that works out great for me to have my self time. I don't have drama in my life and I appreciate the simple things in life. I very much enjoy going out to eat. I don't cook much so if you cook me a meal, that is a perfect date for me. And if you send leftovers home with me, it means more to me than trying to impress me with gifts. I am financially and emotionally stable. I don't watch tv much except for my favorite fall shows and I do not own cable. I prefer to stay busy than being a couch potato. I don't drink much but a glass of wine with a nice dinner out. You rarely will find any alcohol in my house and Im not much of a bar person. I am a faithful and trustworthy person. I put others before myself. I am very comfortable with who I am and where I am in life. Although I like to look nice going out, I definitely have no problem running to the store in jogging pants, tshirt, hair in pony, glasses and no makeup. I think communication is important. I tend to be on the bold side and say whats on my mind. There is never guessing with me, I will let you know what Im thinking. I would like a guy who would equally take charge on making plans. I tend to be the more aggressive one in past relationships and it would be nice for once to have someone make plans and tell me what we are doing, but equally share that responsibility also.What I am looking for is hard to explain. Ive never been willing to settle and I have never wanted to get divorced. Im not looking to get married (if it happens, great) but mostly what I am looking for is a nice healthy committing relationship that may eventually lead to that. This person must be stable, faithful and trusting in all aspects of life. I am not picky in looking for the drop-dead-gorgeous guy, just someone that makes my heart beat a bit faster. It could be the sparkle in their eye, their smile, the way they laugh. Just simple things. I am more attracted to someone who has a nice smile. I do not get along with anyone who is negative or unhappy in their life. I tend to stay far away from those type of people. It is important that this person is willing to involve me and share me with their family as I do not have family near.I am quite sure it will take some time to find the right (not perfect) person for me. I appreciate all the nice *** are sent to me and regret if I feel we are not a good match. I believe this process takes time. Im not a serial dater so I only respond to those that I feel confident on attributes that I am looking for. Most of all, I'm looking for someones who shows respect.Note-Those with shirt-off photos or flexing your muscles, Im not interested. Also not interested if all your photos are taken in a distance or sunglasses and hat in every photo. There are serious and not so serious people on this site. In my opinion, if you put effort into your profile, then you are person that will put effort into a relationship. I like a first date to be simple. A quick drink or I don't mind meeting for lunch/dinner as I do enjoy a nice meal out and conversation. You can expect me to pay for my own as I view this as a first meeting, not a date.

  • Mariann

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I've been frequently told, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger." I think that qualifies me as an Amazon Warrior. But I am also fiercely loyal, will fight to the death for those I love or a cause I believe is worthy. That's the tygress in me.) More often than not though, I find a peaceful solution to my problems and the problems for which I am asked to mediate. My faith is very important to me, and I would like to meet someone who shares that faith.I love trying to play tennis, going bowling, watching a good movie with lots of action or drama (not too big on chick flicks), or going swimming. In the summer or warm spring day, I love to go out on the lake, go for a boat ride, cooking out and relax around a good fire eating too many marshmellows with close family and friends. My most frequent outdoor activity is hiking out behind my home, typically in shorts and barefoot. When you get down to it, I was born and raised country and I'll be country til the day I die. There I learned to interact with people from all types of socio- As I mentioned, I love going barefoot in shorts and a tank top, but I also wear business suits for work. I can also dress up and be comfortable doing it.I believe relationships are about more than who makes you feel good in the short term. Good relationships are about being with someone you love even when they royally tick you off. When it is truly right, being with the right one for you brings out the best in you and helps you be a better person. And at the end of the day, nothing makes you feel better than just being with each other, no matter what you're doing.Someone recently put me back in touch with poetry writing."Listen to the Wolf Cry"Listen to the wolf cry, For she cries all night for you. She knows the path you travel For her spirit follows you. You once held much potential; Strength and wisdom did she see. Now when gazing upon you, All she does is quietly weep. Chances left untaken, Unanswered challenges scattered by the way. "Your life is going nowhere!" Is what she thinks but does not say. Answer the call within you, Embrace life with open arms. Become the one you were born to be, So the wolf will cry no more. Adventure, laughter and a good connection. I can handle the ever so awkward meeting over caffeine and appetizers and chit chatting. But I would love to try something like ziplining or some other adventurous activity. If the date doesn't exactly spark a match, at least you'll have fun and you won't spend 20 minutes trying to figure out something to fill the silence. Though that would be very rare with me. I can talk about just about anything. I love expanding my mind, to learn to see things through another's eyes. And I listen even better than I talk. But my vote is still for the adventuresome date. Why be like everyone else? But, if you feel safer with a traditional meet and greet, I can handle that too.

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