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About Me

Disclaimer: I have read what I wrote and it tends to sound rather formal. That really isn’t who I am. I am a down to earth person who will pretty much tell it like it is (or at least how I see it). Notice the line about making others laugh, this is something I love to do! Anyways, read on and you’ll see what I mean…I value people who exhibit life ambition. This doesn’t mean that you are constantly looking to climb the corporate ladder, but rather you are always looking for ways to better yourself and broaden your horizon. This could mean schooling, but mainly it is doing the things that make you happy with who you are as a person. It could be learning a new hobby, taking a class or face and overcome a fear. A personal example would be facing my fear of claustrophobia by crawling through an enclosed maze in the dark. My heart was beating out of my chest and I hated every second of it, but once I was through I was very proud of my accomplishment.Family and friends are a very important part of life. I was raised within a loving family and I am still close with all of them. Even though we are now scattered around the U.S., we stay in touch and visit when possible. If my family or a friend needed me, I take pride in being there to support them in whatever way I am able.I am an outgoing person. I love to make people laugh. I would say that my brand of humor is sarcastic, but not mean. I am honest, sometimes I think I might be too honest. If someone asks a question looking for the answer to be what he or she wants to hear, I may be the right person. However, if I sense that this is the case I will ask the person if they really want to hear my opinion. Just because I’m related to you or your friend doesn’t mean that I will lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am an independent person, but I would love to find someone to share my life with. I don’t need anyone, but I want a special someone in my life. I feel that if you need someone, a relationship won’t work. If I need someone to be happy then I am not happy with myself, and honestly, it’s too much pressure to put on someone else to make them responsible for my happiness. I think it is important for two people to have shared interests, but also to have different interest as well. Variety is the spice of life, or so I have heard. The perfect first date is something that allows plenty of time for conversation and getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bethany

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm educated, happy, healthy, confident, strong, understanding, passionate, bold, honest, intelligent, wise and hilarious! These are all the words that acquaintances would use to describe me. I don't fight nor argue, I communicate. Overall I am pretty peaceful and fun in each day. Love and passion in life is harmony, communication and the quest for more knowledge gives me understandable determination. I'm trying to enjoy life and relishing in the present and what is in front of me now. To start off I'm a lucky woman and have most everything what I want and am a believer if I continually become the kind of person I want to become then the kind of people I want or deserve in my life will come to me. Maybe that will be you :) I believe there should be passion in a relationship but also support for each other's dreams. I am creative and always growing as it rejuvenates me. So though some type of intellectual chemistry is needed in addition to the physical chemistry for two people to connect I also think that someone you can build, be free and eventually share your soul with would be nice. No pressure right? Ha Ha just kidding, (oh but I am not ;) Finally I also believe it is important to be aware of your past but not dwell on it and learn from any mistakes and to try and keep evolving into a better person. Bottom line is that the right person should be pretty easy to get along with and not too much work but something that comes naturally for us both.

  • Rosamond

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Fun easy going and Italian girl looking for Mr. Right .sincere and honest with a big heart After a few converstions on the phone meet up and have a drink/coffee and see if there is chemistry

  • Kinley

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello,Here I go one more time! I am looking for a long term relationship.Yes we have to start out slow and build a friendship, but you should know after a few dates if you want to move forward with a person.Sometimes you know right away,some times it maybe a couple of dates.I am a fun,kind,very loving affectionate person.I like to hold hands,kiss and touch the one I'm with. I'm not afraid of public affection,and will show you I care for you in many ways.I'm a divorced mother of two great teenage boys 18&15.They live with me 50% of the time.I have no drama with my ex,we get along very well.I'm a independent women who can take care of herself,but is looking for someone to fall in love with.You have to be 110% HONEST,kind,loving and affectionate. I like to have fun,go dancing and meet new people.I like to be out and about....not a couch potato!( Staying home with a good person cuddling is always welcome!!) I am very much a people person.I love family and cooking for them! . I am a hairdresser,been one for 23yrs.I love it.I listen to any type of music...I like long walks and people watching. Just hoping to meet a good guy. Someone fun. .I'm ready to find that special person to fall in love with.Will you Live, Laugh and Love with me? Would love to get back those butterfly feelings! If you are out there,please send a message and we can meet. A drink,coffee. pizza is always good.I"m easy going so anything would be fine.Even just a walk. :)

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