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About Me

Disclaimer: I have read what I wrote and it tends to sound rather formal. That really isn’t who I am. I am a down to earth person who will pretty much tell it like it is (or at least how I see it). Notice the line about making others laugh, this is something I love to do! Anyways, read on and you’ll see what I mean…I value people who exhibit life ambition. This doesn’t mean that you are constantly looking to climb the corporate ladder, but rather you are always looking for ways to better yourself and broaden your horizon. This could mean schooling, but mainly it is doing the things that make you happy with who you are as a person. It could be learning a new hobby, taking a class or face and overcome a fear. A personal example would be facing my fear of claustrophobia by crawling through an enclosed maze in the dark. My heart was beating out of my chest and I hated every second of it, but once I was through I was very proud of my accomplishment.Family and friends are a very important part of life. I was raised within a loving family and I am still close with all of them. Even though we are now scattered around the U.S., we stay in touch and visit when possible. If my family or a friend needed me, I take pride in being there to support them in whatever way I am able.I am an outgoing person. I love to make people laugh. I would say that my brand of humor is sarcastic, but not mean. I am honest, sometimes I think I might be too honest. If someone asks a question looking for the answer to be what he or she wants to hear, I may be the right person. However, if I sense that this is the case I will ask the person if they really want to hear my opinion. Just because I’m related to you or your friend doesn’t mean that I will lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am an independent person, but I would love to find someone to share my life with. I don’t need anyone, but I want a special someone in my life. I feel that if you need someone, a relationship won’t work. If I need someone to be happy then I am not happy with myself, and honestly, it’s too much pressure to put on someone else to make them responsible for my happiness. I think it is important for two people to have shared interests, but also to have different interest as well. Variety is the spice of life, or so I have heard. The perfect first date is something that allows plenty of time for conversation and getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Anglea

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    For whatever reason I forgot my password n they weren't excepting my *** I had to start over.I am a mom of 3 n currently looking for someone to talk to n get to know,I work a lot so don't go out much n am tired of the club/bar scene.thought I'd try this,like I said in my last profile,it's been a while n I forgot what it's like to date but do wanna give it a shot.Just wanna find a guy I am attracted to first then hopefully can build an emotional connection,I'm a simple girl n want the simple things in life..to be happy again in a relationship!!!!! Whatever is comfortable for both of us,maybe dinner n drinks so we can get to know each other

  • Easter

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love all that the city has to offer, especially culturally..museums, art galleries, theater, opera, ballet, and the yankees.I am a traveller and a yogi. I like new adventures and going to new places. Love exploring new restaurants whether mom and pop shops or michelin star rated..I like to go to a new destination every year..i find it inspiring and soul enriching to immerse myself in different cultures, learn the history, and meet new people.I like all kinds of music, but my heart still belongs to early 80's alternative..

  • Lucrecia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    in my life I seem to encounter waves of change… what I mean is, as I grow and my life's circumstances change around me, I seem to be constantly trying to redefine who I am. Switching careers, going through the phases of entering and then ending a marriage, moving, becoming a mom… all these events present challenges to maintaining a sense of individuality. I keep trying new things, new ways to keep it real and remind myself of the enjoyments of life.I love to write, but when I can't get to the computer or focus enough to put pen to paper I enjoy daydreaming. I smile a lot… because I'm usually thinking about things that make me laugh. I'm a little bit shy and try to cover it up by being silly.I play the flute, sometimes to get my daughters to eat their dinner but sometimes I just play it because I love playing. I belong to a flute choir, and we perform about once a month. I've played since I was really young, maybe third grade, and I still enjoy it every time I pick it up. It makes me especially happy to be able to share this with others through performance. Who I'm looking for: PLEASE NOTE: If you are an overw***something-yr-old, please DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you have nothing to say, DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you have no picture and no information in your profile, DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you don't speak or write fluently in English, or have limited education, please DO NOT CONTACT ME. Just because I'm no longer in my 20s doesn't mean I'm interested in settling. No plumber-butts need apply.I'm adventurous… I like skydiving, playing pool, target shooting, roller blading, sailing & wind surfing (although I haven't been in years!) riding on the back of other people's motorcycles, going swimming at night…I love wine and good conversation! Pour me a glass and get me talking; as long as you're conversational we'll have a good time.If worse comes to worst I'll get a little giggly and start telling you stupid stuff like how my youngest daughter likes to compose songs which she yells at the top of her lungs while playing the piano (which she is doing as I write this...) My one stipulation is that you be reasonably open-minded. I sometimes get tired of political discussions, because it seems that most people who want to discuss politics seem to be far more opinionated than open-minded — but I'll give it a shot.I'm interested in someone highly intelligent, successful, with a strong personality - confident, but not arrogant; active, athletic, adventurous, kind, sincere, with a sense of humor...Someone who has something to say to me

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