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Lillie, 44

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About Me

Most of my friends are suggesting that I give this online dating stuff a try so here goes... I am a strong willed,independent,caring,compassionate women. Humor is the spice of life, I find many things funny and am quick with my tongue. I can play the quiet and shy roll all though do not maintain it for very long. I am not looking for someone to tame me but someone I can be friends with and if it grows into something more then great. I don't want someone that I need to walk behind or in front of, I want to be side by side. I am not looking for someone that requires ***attention. I have a busy schedule, yes could possibly slow down some, maybe I will meet someone who makes me want to, however I enjoy what I do for work. For the right person I may be able to take a little more time off to be with them but I will continue to work hard at what I do. You need to be strong enough to tell me NO at times, but smart enough to know when to just say yes. I will admit that yes I do have a temper and it shows at times, but doesn't everyone.... ok so maybe not those that are still in denial. I am not the type of girl that needs to be wined and dined all the time, I am capable of feeding myself and have on occasion been known to whine haha. All that said I am not the type for casual hook ups or booty calls. Please don't waste your valuable time if that is what you are about. I am hoping to meet new friends, really if you don't like someone enough to be able to spend quality time with them then the whole thought of intimate contact seems moot... doesn't it?? That's where the morning after regrets, trying to chew off you arm while trying not to wake your sleeping partner comes from.Not looking for anyone with a drug habit or problems with alcohol, yes this also includes those that think they don't have a problem... as in they get drunk fall down ( no problem ), or "I only do drugs on days off!!"Sorry not interested. Not against social drinking. I am a single mom of three wonderful children that are all almost grown, only two left at home and only that is part time. I love family time, however with teenage kids that usually consists of them dropping their laundry on the floor and then wondering where it went once its clean. What's for dinner, and never being able to find the house phone. Thank god for personal cell phones and having two bathrooms!!I am who I am and don't have the ability or wish to pretend to be someone I am not.I most definitely do not have the body shape of BARBIE!! I have more curves then would like, yes trying to change that part, not doing very well but still trying. I am comfortable with our without makeup, with hair in a ponytail or done up, can dress up or just jeans and a tee shirt. Don't like head games from either side, yes sorry to be the bearer of bad news but men actually play them too :) If this has in any way tweaked your interest send me a message, you never know where things go. Coffee and a chat would be great. See if there is something worth a second cup or just going our own ways with no regrets.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Here I am taking a risk once again to find someone to spend time together enjoying our surrounds, music, movies, sporting events and of course each other. I'm shy to begin with, and would much rather you take the first step and say "hi", but I'm getting a little braver in the cyber world. Life has thrown me a few curve balls but I have yet to let one knock me out of the game! All I'm looking for is someone to take a chance, gain another friend and who knows maybe a whole lot more! ??Who's that girl?She has eyes that see the positive in all things and people. Hands that love to hold, caress and comfort, a heart that beats for the ones she loves and often found on her sleeve for others to see. Teammate, play maker, trainer and official of summer and winter sports, competitive and recreational both. Hockey being the first and foremost passion and almost anything else that requires a leather ball, club, bat or racquet to play. She's given her heart to the One, and awaits her two that shares her relationship with Jesus Christ in word and action.Seeks like minded companion, teammate, confidant, friend, and life partner to share in new adventures, dreams and goals. He's charming, but only has eyes for one, compassionate, driven, sensitive but protective. He's handy, active, a leader, adventurous and wears his heart on his sleeve willing to give his shirt off of his back to help those in need. His faith is a priority by knowing it's the true relationship and foundation for how he lives his life. He'll be my loudest cheerleader and I his, I'll be his comfort in times of trial as he'd be my strength, my medic when I'm hurt playing sports and I his nurse when he's not feeling well. My comedic relief when I'm feeling blue and my entertainment in the "dull" moments of life. Together walking hand in hand together making memories, sharing life together. Passionate stolen kisses, simmering glances across the room meant only for each other, butterflies fluttering in the stomach and the memories of yet to be made....Okay.... now the next step is yours, be brave, send me a note and reel me in. Oh look.... shiny...... Something fun and casual.... dinner and a movie, I'm game for something simple. Surprise me with you wit and imagination!

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am resourceful and enjoy finding a way to accomplish a challenge.I enjoy grocery shopping reality tv and a good cup of coffee.I like listening to talk radio ( Coast to Coast AM) I am reflective and love improv humour.I am forgiving by nature and able to see more than one side of a situation.I enjoy history and haunted property sites. talk on the phone and go for a coffee.Thrift shopping. Go Grocery shopping together.

  • Emerita

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am an eternal optimist.! I have quite a sharp sense of humour and I love to laugh. I appreciate quick wit and sarcasm. I enjoy movies, books and I will never back down from a good conversation or debate. I have a daughter who means the world to me and of course she always comes first in my world. I love my job. I am a font of random information and can speak intelligently for literally seconds on many subjects so I am a delightful companion in any situation, failing that, I am capable of smiling sweetly and nodding politely. Parents love me, children tolerate me, animals are drawn to me, house plants die in my presence..... I hope we get to meet soon. I would like to do something where we could talk and get to know one another like a walk, a cup of coffee/tea or lunch.

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