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Patti, 43

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About Me

im a open,honest and out going 41yr old widow who has not been out in the dating world for a long time.i dont want any drama!life is to short to be dealing with crap.i have three grown children all in college or school,who are my world.i enjoy long drives to nowhere,the beach,loud rock n roll,my dogs,nice dinners, cooking,hicking in the woods, camping.im not your typical 41 yr old widow,i go out to play pool and have a drink,i have tattoes and piercings,and im very independent with a fiesty streak.i want a man who can handle that.i love big dogs,big trucks and big men so i sound like someone you are interested in let me now.no drama or games please!!!!!!!! my ideal first date would be dinner and conversation,afterword maybe a walk or drive ,or just a cup of coffee.i think dating is over rated and people dont talk and get to know each well enough these days.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sheridan

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love to laugh. I love to be in, on, under or next to the water. I enjoy games...I don't need to win...but I will keep trying until I do. My friends may sometimes call me competitive...I just say "challenge accepted". I'm pretty sure people invite me to functions for people of all ages to entertain the kids. I am ok with that. I am by all means not afraid of a trampoline or a slip and slide. I love camping..prefer on a river...but if the coffee is ready before i wake up that would be great! Be creative. Be fun. You got this!

  • Nelda

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi, first off let me start by saying that I am not on here just to find someone to "Hook up" with.. So, if that is all you want, keep fishingi am a true Oregonian, so with that, I like to walk on the beach, even in the rain. Camp, fish, hike, do just about anything the great NW has to offer. I am an animal lover, I love to go to the movies, or just sit home and rent one and watch it while cuddling one the couch. (maybe with an occasional smootch)I would like to find someone to be friends with at first, and then if there is mutual feelings between us for more,then see where that can lead us. I'm pretty easy going. i love to make people laugh. And if you can make me laugh, then there's bonus points. Both my children are adults, but they are still a big part of my everyday life. If you can't handle that, sorry!!I am not a real big fan of bars, but I do like to go on occasion to listen to a live band. My favorite music is classic rock, but I do like 80's and country. Other than the outdoorsy stuff mentioned, I read alot. Would be nice to have someone that can carry a good conversation, or even at times, nothing has to be said at all. I love to cook, so a man that knows his way around the kitchen is good. BBQ's in the summer with family and friends are a must! So if you think you might be enterested, send me a message. If things don't work out, then if nothing else you have found yourself a loyal friend for life. Nothing wrong with that is there? The first date should be something fun. lets do coffee, go to the beach. Even take a walk thru the park. Just not a movie or dinner.I don't think you can get to know someone while paying attention to a movie, or while stuffing your face. Am i wrong?

  • Orabel

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    First and foremost, I am a single mom of 4 beautiful daughters and 1 handsome son. They are my world. So if you dont like kids, you might want to move on. I am also a big, beautiful women who has had to learn to to love the skin im in, and I do. I have alot to offer someone. Trust is a very big thing for me I have been used, and dont wanna go back there, I am an extremist if I enjoy something I will go all out, and in love or relationships it is the same. I have a wide variety of interest, from music to making jewerly. I have been told im a great cook, and enjoy doing it for people who appreciate it. Well if I have caught your eye then please send me a message, I look forward to talking and hopefully meeting some awesome men. Have a great day!

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