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FernOnline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
"" I don’t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys. Perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals who I do connect with more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a proud mother of two amazing young girls. Ironically, these girls keep me grounded and adventurous. I love the ocean; hate the beach. Give me a balcony overlooking it any day. I enjoy reading, but for right now I read books that don't require too much thought or feeling. I do enough of that during the day. I have a career which provides long-term stability. I'm not looking for someone to support me or my children. I can offer a lifetime of devotion, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. Let's be honest, we are all on here for the same reason and we are seeking the kind of chemistry that happens when you spend quality time face to face. If we're not a match then we respectfully move on. It's ok to say, "I'm not interested." My biggest pet peeve is a man who can't tell it like it is. You should message me if: you think that your already-pretty-good-life is better when shared with someone, andyou're ready to find that someone now-ish.you're as likely (and happy) to spend Sunday lazing in bed as you are enjoying the outdoors. you have brains, humor, and challenging repartee. you want to teach me how to sail. you are spunky and self-confident (not narcissistic).you have resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). you have been through some sh*t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).you can spell, and are generally happy.The rest is negotiable. Don't bother messaging me if:you are looking for a quick hook-up; you are going to text message for days about nonsense.you are serial-first dater and looking for nothing more. This should be titled "Initial Meeting" not first date. Let's save that for when we really connect. In the mean time, we can meet for drinks and take it from there.
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AdreeaOnline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
How many people really read this section all the way through? Honestly, if a person wants to get to know me, they are far better off striking up a conversation. I have no list of things I do/do not want in a man. I think such things falsely include, or worse yet, exclude people. Just be a real person. Have something interesting to say, be able to laugh at yourself, and not take any of my oddities too seriously. Sometimes, we find the strongest connection in the people we would have least expected it. It is not for me to tell you who you should be, it is for you to show me who you are. We will either get along, or we won't. No harm, no foul.(*please note: if your first message to me starts out with something akin to "hey sexy", I am not going to respond to you. Some women dig that kind of opening, but I don't. I'm just a person, no better/different than you. There is no need to be borderline salacious from the start. It's just not the kind of conversation I want to engage in with a complete stranger) Last, but not least...please, have your own money. I neither need, nor want you to buy anything for me, I have my own income, and am self reliant...you must be able to say the same. Hockey game? Shooting pool at a dive bar? ....I don't really know. Something interactive with a slightly competetive element, yet not so social as to leave no opportunity to get a good idea of who I'm dealing with.
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RacquelOnline
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
Hello, I'm Janet... the most recent pics are the 2 puzzle frame pics and the one of me in the glasses and this main photo.I work downtown at a company that provides healthcare coding and assistance for individuals travelling in Germany. Alas, I speak German.At 3 years old, my parents were arguing about being 'anti-something' and I sauntered into the room and asked, "mommy, what does anti mean?" She responds, "It's when you are against something?"..I promptly backed up to the wall and ask, "Antiagainst the wall?!"- they couldn't stop laughing.;Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring."I value my independence and "me" time, so if we are in a relationship and I ask you for space, it's not cause I don't like being with you - its because I am just asking for a time buffer, which is healthy in any relationship. I also don't like being smothered, asked what I am doing every ***hr, where I am, etc. Unless we are engaged or married...this is not a good habit to adopt. Also, if you abuse animals, keep them outside chained up, or abuse them physically -don't even consider messaging me-people who abuse animals will abuse people too. Disgusting and cruel.If you can't hold an intelligent conversation with me about politics, weather, music, the arts, geography, current events - the date will most likely fall flat. Geminis are conversationalists - it's our primary trait and we are VERY brainy.I will here and now admit that I am a kick ass dancer..trained...could smoke anyone off a dance floor. I am a DJ and a huge New Order,Joy Division, M***look up the song, Midnight City - *** You Be There"; Lately for some reason, I have been listening to a lot of British trip-hop..and Robyn- although she is not popular here, I have used her stuff frequently during DJ gigs. It works in larger venues really well. I also make a mean batch of fajitas and sehr gut pepper steak!I'm a House (the show) junkie, I watch the show to review my medical terminology (I'm not kidding). I used to eat lunch with Sylveste r Stallone's AUNT...Not a joke!Read my assessment for a Ibetter idea of how I tick... *** am looking for a guy who is very involved and enjoys hanging out with family. An individual who loves and cares for his mom and respects and admires his father. A guy who loves his sibs and enjoys hanging out with extended family. I come from a very large family - I'm very used to it.I'm a quick study, analytical, smart and quick with words. I speak German (minored in it). I like to keep you guessing- I am highly skeptical of the interwebs and people's ability to (sigh) "find your soul-mate" through a monitor. Peel away the layers, is my philosophy. If you let out too much, there is nothing left to do. *** like to dance, sing, travel, learn new languages, camp, swim, photography, movies..yadayada.I cannot go fishing, as I am SEVERELY allergic to fish, so can't do Thai, Japanese, Chinese or Sushi.- perhaps.