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Fern
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
"" I don’t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys. Perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals who I do connect with more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a proud mother of two amazing young girls. Ironically, these girls keep me grounded and adventurous. I love the ocean; hate the beach. Give me a balcony overlooking it any day. I enjoy reading, but for right now I read books that don't require too much thought or feeling. I do enough of that during the day. I have a career which provides long-term stability. I'm not looking for someone to support me or my children. I can offer a lifetime of devotion, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. Let's be honest, we are all on here for the same reason and we are seeking the kind of chemistry that happens when you spend quality time face to face. If we're not a match then we respectfully move on. It's ok to say, "I'm not interested." My biggest pet peeve is a man who can't tell it like it is. You should message me if: you think that your already-pretty-good-life is better when shared with someone, andyou're ready to find that someone now-ish.you're as likely (and happy) to spend Sunday lazing in bed as you are enjoying the outdoors. you have brains, humor, and challenging repartee. you want to teach me how to sail. you are spunky and self-confident (not narcissistic).you have resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). you have been through some sh*t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).you can spell, and are generally happy.The rest is negotiable. Don't bother messaging me if:you are looking for a quick hook-up; you are going to text message for days about nonsense.you are serial-first dater and looking for nothing more. This should be titled "Initial Meeting" not first date. Let's save that for when we really connect. In the mean time, we can meet for drinks and take it from there.
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Kristin
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Wondering what my headline means? Well, I hope to visit the 50 states by my 50th birthday. You ready for a road trip?It seems as if everyone writes the same things here... I love going out to dinner, the beach in the summer, a night in just as much as a night out. I cherish my friends and family and nothing is better than being together with some food and wine. I love the ocean and dream of a day that I have a place near the beach. I love the arts....in all forms; theatre, music, literature, visual. I also enjoy working out, though my schedule these days does not allow me to be as committed as I once was...I try. I have played on a co-ed Volleyball league for over 10 years. I also love to cook and entertain...even if it just for a small group of friends.I have a young daughter, who is the world to me, so I need someone that understands (and respects) what it means to be the primary caregiver to a young child.I am not here to play games, just get to know someone to see if there is any chemistry. Seriously...I don't get it...aren't we "adults"?A few other things.*I value honesty, respect, integrity*Good communication is important. I think that although texting/emails are good and easy ways to get in touch with someone, it takes away from a real conversation. And too often things can get lost in translation. *I would prefer someone who is around 5' 11" or taller (sorry- I'm pretty tall and like to wear heels)*It would be preferable that you are in the NNJ/NYC area. If either of us has to travel an hour or so it may not work too well.*Please be sure that you are recognizable in your pictures and that I don't have to guess which one is you.I WILL NOT EVEN READ YOUR *** DON'T HAVE A PICTURE.Bonus: profiles and messages with sentences, punctuations, and limited text/chat abbreviations :)Thanks for your time...good luck. I am not interested in sharing endless ***, but think it's important to see if there is any interest/chemistry before meeting. I prefer to call it a "meet up"....after an initial introduction contact (a few exchanges through here), and then actual phone conversation. I would like to see what our interests are and take it from there.***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
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Arlinda
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
This is always the hard part.I am a simple, kind, down to earth, diverse, drama free, modest woman. I'm family and career orientated. I have never been married. I love football, playing pool, darts, dining out, movies, concerts, boating, traveling, and being with family and friends. I work in the IT field and have a stable career, home and vehicle. I am looking forward to doing more international traveling. I have found a love for the Caribbean. I would like to find someone that shares the same desire to travel. I try to get to the gym ***times a week. I will admit I can be lazy with this as I don't like working out alone. I like to be challenged and I have been known to be competitive at times. Within reason of course (I know my limits)How other would describe me: funny, out going, laid back, I appear flaky until I get to know you. I'm mysterious, and I like my time alone. I am very honest and forward but not rude about it. I am blend into any situation and get alone with almost anyone I come in contact with. I have a way of putting people to ease with my company, I don't like to be pressured or forced into anything. I like to let nature takes it's course. What I am looking for is someone without a felony, or done jail time. Who is a gentleman, goal orientated, open minded, who knows what a relationship is suppose to be about. I am not seeking my equal but some to balance out the relationship and add happiness. If you are jealous, and insecure we will have problems. I am secure with myself and want that in my partner as well. If you want to know more ask.