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Arlinda, 38

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About Me

This is always the hard part.I am a simple, kind, down to earth, diverse, drama free, modest woman. I'm family and career orientated. I have never been married. I love football, playing pool, darts, dining out, movies, concerts, boating, traveling, and being with family and friends. I work in the IT field and have a stable career, home and vehicle. I am looking forward to doing more international traveling. I have found a love for the Caribbean. I would like to find someone that shares the same desire to travel. I try to get to the gym ***times a week. I will admit I can be lazy with this as I don't like working out alone. I like to be challenged and I have been known to be competitive at times. Within reason of course (I know my limits)How other would describe me: funny, out going, laid back, I appear flaky until I get to know you. I'm mysterious, and I like my time alone. I am very honest and forward but not rude about it. I am blend into any situation and get alone with almost anyone I come in contact with. I have a way of putting people to ease with my company, I don't like to be pressured or forced into anything. I like to let nature takes it's course. What I am looking for is someone without a felony, or done jail time. Who is a gentleman, goal orientated, open minded, who knows what a relationship is suppose to be about. I am not seeking my equal but some to balance out the relationship and add happiness. If you are jealous, and insecure we will have problems. I am secure with myself and want that in my partner as well. If you want to know more ask.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hi there!I have been on this site a year and half now and it seems the site/people haven't changed too much. I'm not sure why I continue with the site, maybe its the hope of finding love and believing it's out there reguardless of whether your on the net, bar or maybe even the grocery store. I have, however had no luck with either concept. I remain hopeful that someday I'll meet that guy that just gets me, and I him as well. I have been on a few dates from guys that I've met from the site. I have had some really great phone conversations but they all seem to end the same. I'm tired of empty promises and the idea that I'm given, that I might be the "one". I have thought maybe some of them might go somewhere, although you can see I'm still here. Do me a favor don't tell me what I want to hear show me the things that a man hasn't up to this point. Talk is cheap be a doer not a talker. I've been on the dates where they say "gosh I can't wait to see you again" or "I really like you" and then no phone call the next day. I really have to admit even though I will be 38 soon, I truly still don't understand men. I'm not here to find "one night stands" nor am I willing to settle for that matter, I'm looking for the "real deal". I have been in love and I have lost love, I know what they both feel like and I know how scary they can be too. The guy I want to meet doesn't have to be perfect he just has to be perfect to me. Perfection is different to everyone my kinda perfect, is the guy that laughs, has fun, enjoys life. Live life to the fullest that way you'll have no regrets. I do want to fall in love again someday, however I want it to happen as it's suppose to no rushing just falling. It would be nice to for the guy to feel the sameway with me. I often wonder "am I crazy" haha not like that, but to think that love can still happen for me. I like to remain optomistic and think that's why I still believe in love, it's because there is a man out there somewhere for me. Are you the man that can showme how a real man treats a woman? I sometimes wonder if the nice, romantic, sincere, and confident men still exist. I was married for 10 years (seperated the last 2 years) and I enjoyed married life and I've discovered that married life suits me and that single life isn't all that exciting, at least not to me. There are many things I can say about myself like how I'm confident, strong, motivated, romantic, and very outgoing, however at the end of the day these are just words its actually what you see with your own two eyes that's really matters. All I really hope is someday someone see's me for me and love's everything about me, I want that kinda of love that you see in couple's that have been married for 50 years. They just get one another, they know what they both need and want, sometimes even without words. I stay hopeful that this too will happen for me. I know that putting this all out there might scare some, however I've been on here for this long what do I have to lose. I'm tired of hearing how much of a sweetheart I am and tired of being let down. I'm not here for games, I am just looking for love. There is a lot more about me and I would love to share it with the right person. I'll say this, I love music (countrygirl), movies, and just spending time with good company doing whatever may come our way. If any of this sounds like a woman you want to get to know or just chat with, talk to me, I promise I wont bite, well at least not right now ...hahahaA few things to add... I love sports especially Hockey, Football and Baseball. I'm always up for a good time and I also love a good concert with good company. I' would love to just meet someone that I could have a great time with. Please do me and you a favor and don't respond to this posting unless you're really looking for something special. No head games, just looking for the possibilities of the real thing. "A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It's just His way of letting you realize He saved you from the wrong one!" “It is better to deserve someone and not have them than to have them and not to deserve them.” -...Lets just have fun and be ourselves!!

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