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Fern
Online
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
"" I don’t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys. Perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals who I do connect with more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a proud mother of two amazing young girls. Ironically, these girls keep me grounded and adventurous. I love the ocean; hate the beach. Give me a balcony overlooking it any day. I enjoy reading, but for right now I read books that don't require too much thought or feeling. I do enough of that during the day. I have a career which provides long-term stability. I'm not looking for someone to support me or my children. I can offer a lifetime of devotion, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. Let's be honest, we are all on here for the same reason and we are seeking the kind of chemistry that happens when you spend quality time face to face. If we're not a match then we respectfully move on. It's ok to say, "I'm not interested." My biggest pet peeve is a man who can't tell it like it is. You should message me if: you think that your already-pretty-good-life is better when shared with someone, andyou're ready to find that someone now-ish.you're as likely (and happy) to spend Sunday lazing in bed as you are enjoying the outdoors. you have brains, humor, and challenging repartee. you want to teach me how to sail. you are spunky and self-confident (not narcissistic).you have resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). you have been through some sh*t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).you can spell, and are generally happy.The rest is negotiable. Don't bother messaging me if:you are looking for a quick hook-up; you are going to text message for days about nonsense.you are serial-first dater and looking for nothing more. This should be titled "Initial Meeting" not first date. Let's save that for when we really connect. In the mean time, we can meet for drinks and take it from there.
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Bonnie
Online
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Recently I've gone through some life changes and in those changes I've realize that life is to short and sitting around and watching my life pass me by isn't an option for me anymore. I'm looking forward to meeting new people even if its for a friendship or much more. I'm a single mother and my children will always come first. I enjoy hanging out with friends and family having a BBQ , Sunday dinner being surrounded by family and catching up. I don't have many hobbies but I'm open minded and willing to give things a try. So if I interest anyone send me a message who knows ;-) the usual coffee or a drink
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Cinderella
Online
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Hi there!I have been on this site a year and half now and it seems the site/people haven't changed too much. I'm not sure why I continue with the site, maybe its the hope of finding love and believing it's out there reguardless of whether your on the net, bar or maybe even the grocery store. I have, however had no luck with either concept. I remain hopeful that someday I'll meet that guy that just gets me, and I him as well. I have been on a few dates from guys that I've met from the site. I have had some really great phone conversations but they all seem to end the same. I'm tired of empty promises and the idea that I'm given, that I might be the "one". I have thought maybe some of them might go somewhere, although you can see I'm still here. Do me a favor don't tell me what I want to hear show me the things that a man hasn't up to this point. Talk is cheap be a doer not a talker. I've been on the dates where they say "gosh I can't wait to see you again" or "I really like you" and then no phone call the next day. I really have to admit even though I will be 38 soon, I truly still don't understand men. I'm not here to find "one night stands" nor am I willing to settle for that matter, I'm looking for the "real deal". I have been in love and I have lost love, I know what they both feel like and I know how scary they can be too. The guy I want to meet doesn't have to be perfect he just has to be perfect to me. Perfection is different to everyone my kinda perfect, is the guy that laughs, has fun, enjoys life. Live life to the fullest that way you'll have no regrets. I do want to fall in love again someday, however I want it to happen as it's suppose to no rushing just falling. It would be nice to for the guy to feel the sameway with me. I often wonder "am I crazy" haha not like that, but to think that love can still happen for me. I like to remain optomistic and think that's why I still believe in love, it's because there is a man out there somewhere for me. Are you the man that can showme how a real man treats a woman? I sometimes wonder if the nice, romantic, sincere, and confident men still exist. I was married for 10 years (seperated the last 2 years) and I enjoyed married life and I've discovered that married life suits me and that single life isn't all that exciting, at least not to me. There are many things I can say about myself like how I'm confident, strong, motivated, romantic, and very outgoing, however at the end of the day these are just words its actually what you see with your own two eyes that's really matters. All I really hope is someday someone see's me for me and love's everything about me, I want that kinda of love that you see in couple's that have been married for 50 years. They just get one another, they know what they both need and want, sometimes even without words. I stay hopeful that this too will happen for me. I know that putting this all out there might scare some, however I've been on here for this long what do I have to lose. I'm tired of hearing how much of a sweetheart I am and tired of being let down. I'm not here for games, I am just looking for love. There is a lot more about me and I would love to share it with the right person. I'll say this, I love music (countrygirl), movies, and just spending time with good company doing whatever may come our way. If any of this sounds like a woman you want to get to know or just chat with, talk to me, I promise I wont bite, well at least not right now ...hahahaA few things to add... I love sports especially Hockey, Football and Baseball. I'm always up for a good time and I also love a good concert with good company. I' would love to just meet someone that I could have a great time with. Please do me and you a favor and don't respond to this posting unless you're really looking for something special. No head games, just looking for the possibilities of the real thing. "A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It's just His way of letting you realize He saved you from the wrong one!" “It is better to deserve someone and not have them than to have them and not to deserve them.” -...Lets just have fun and be ourselves!!