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About Me

… old buildings, castles, munros...). Secretly, I enjoy the mud making mountain biking a pretty great thing. That being said, sipping coffee with friends or an awesome book (likely a mystery) is still a big deal in my world. In my spare time, I am trying my hand at drawing; it is a hoot, especially when the very specific human subject somehow looks like an alien by the time I’m finished drawing. Post-rationalization is a wonderful thing though: “of course that was my intention all along.”). I am curious about things. I can get stuck on the minutiae which will completely engross me. I like learning and peanut butter but not shopping. Although I don’t live near my family, I am close to them. I was about to describe myself as a "geek" for the describe-myself-in-single-word, but then I remembered the original historical meaning of a geek is someone who bites heads off chickens...and decided that was not me. Nerd perhaps, but definitely not a geek. (You can use that tidbit of info for your next trivial pursuit night party.). But I digress...Who are you? Maybe you have dry wit and a sense of the absurd. You are confident. You like being outdoors and are keen for spontaneous adventures big or small. You are perhaps energetic yet laid-back. But really, I can simply say you are interesting. If any of the above (aka me) strikes your fancy, I would enjoy hearing from you. A coffee or drink somewhere on the first date so that we can plan our next adventure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rika

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I have a love hate relationship with this site ..;) I guess i'm craving attention ;) .. Not sure what to say ... I'm 5'9" so if ur under 5'11" to bad but i love my heels .. Loll ... I workout on a regular basis so plz not big belly or couch potato ... Sorry if it sounds shallow but i know what i want .. Try to be original and i don't do well with stupidness .. And oh yeah , i smoke , ain't stopping in the next weeks so ... ;) ... Be a man ..;) its ur job to tell me loll

  • Ellenor

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    ***Well here goes.....I am recently single from a year long relationship. I then did something I never do. I allowed a mutual friend to set me up. Her exact words were, "He's such a nice guy and extremely funny. I can honestly say it was one of the best and most heartbreaking experiences I've ever endured. So here I am, hoping to casually date, perhaps acquire a few friendships. Right now in my beautifully broken state I'm unsure about the love thing. My boys steal most of my love and the little bit I have left I'm going to use to love me. With age comes knowledge. Bad boy's need not apply. I am interested in a nice guy. You know the guy most ladies put in their friends zone and leave there. That's the type of guy I want to get to know. ***My knight in shining armor turned out to be a loser in aluminium foil. So here I am. Since my kids might have to pick my nursing home at some point, I like to be nice to them & spend time with them & they come first. Yours should as well. Really little people are where it's at, the rest of the world is crazy. "Of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother."; manoeuvre a kayak through little puddles. I wear mud as well as I wear my stilettos. Don't ask me to find my car keys at a moments notice, it won't happen. LOL So far I've learned that everyday of your life must be lived to the fullest, life is about smiling, laughing, and crying. Life is about making the most of what u have and what your given. It's about keeping relationships and losing them. Life is about falling in love and losing someone you do love. Life was given to us as a challenge, and its not easy, but you have to try and meet that challenge and make the most of it while you can because you don't actually know when it will be your turn to lay down to rest. You only have one shot at life, so make sure you take it with both hands and squeeze every little drop out of it you can.Happy Fishing, wear your floaties so you don't drown...watch out for the eels they might bust the floaties. ;) Perhaps Fishing? It would give us the opportunity to talk and keep your hands busy. ;)I'm kidding of course. Perhaps a leisurely stroll?

  • Laymantammieu4

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-45

    Hi! My name is Laymantammieu4. I am divorced other caucasian woman without kids from Hawkinsville, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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