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Penni, 38

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About Me

I am a divorced mom of three incredible sons. Two of which are surviving. My youngest has autism and is the most amazing being in this world. Through adversity in life, I have become not one in a million, but 100% one of a kind. I have many passions in life, including music (I play the bass guitar), writing, reading, being around my loved ones, animals, children...the list is really never ending. As for the genres in music that I enjoy, there are so many. I love heavy metal, which is what I am more likely to play, also. I love classic rock, punk, house, opera, classical, the blues, reggae, indie, some rap and r&b classic country. There really isn't much I can say I don't like. Being a musician all my life, my appreciation expanded with time. I am also a published poet who hopes to someday write a book. I love being outdoors. Camping, fishing, sleeping under the stars. The world is a most beautiful place and there is so much of it to see, I tend to have a hard time staying inside if I don't have to. Naturally, with that comes along my love of traveling. I was fortunate growing up and my parents took us children many places I couldn't imagine have never seeing. All my friends say I am a lover, a humanitarian. I believe in the law of attraction and live by it. I am an all out, spunky, funky, and super punky kind of girl. I live life to it's fullest with nothing but positive energy! No matter where I am, I am smiling and making sure those around me are too! Nothing but love and light to give, but so happy to give it! I'm not looking to just get laid...I can do that very easily if need be...I need and want something different. Not necessarily sure what that is, precisely, I just know what it isn't. Sorry, I don't settle for anything less than I desire. I hope I don't lose all hope here...waiting for someone to grab my attention and keep it! Be different! First date...that's funny. Or should I say, what is that? It has been so long, I honestly don't know anymore. I look for spontaneity and excitement. New things. I am a very high energy person all around. I love to be silly and have fun without any cares on what others may think. Yes, I love the typical movie and drinks....but I love different even more!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bella

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a very independent strong willed woman. Im in th medical field and am furthering my education from a Masters. I love to travel (scuba diving fanatic), exercise and be a devoted mother and hopefully wife if I find the right person. If not I'm fine on my own. I am blessed in so many ways. I want to find a companion who has similar interests but can handle a strong willed independent women. Being spoiled is definately a desire. High standards, morals and compatibility are a must as well. I have no time for nonsense. I want to find foremost a best friend that likes what I like and is devoted to spending time together and getting to know one another.**********ok I don't care to see your gross pics of dead fish and deer carcasses. Anyone can kill a defenseless animal. If your looking for the fwb thing please don't bother.

  • Janelle

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    So...I'm not really sure how many times I've been on meetville....(I kind of lost count). It is up to you to decide if it has anything to do with me or not after reading my short (yet entertaining) novel, so sit back, relax, have a glass of wine, and cuddle up to this, at times, heart warming (but equally disturbing) account of non-fiction literary genius....AKA: My Dating Life***I should warn you, however, that this tale is not meant for the weak of heart. On the contrary, I am sharing my experiences of internet dating with you in an effort to deter those of you whose intentions are to repeat any of the following scenarios that I have, sadly, encountered through internet dating.Let's just get one thing straight first: I realize that when I decide to engage in internet dating, chances are, I'm not the only girl you're seeing/talking to. This is perfectly fine, and even socially acceptable....but only to a point. Once we decide to engage in sexual congress or "take it to the smush room", I expect monogamy. ..what I'm saying is that once we are intimate, you cease to be intimate with other women. As ridiculous as it may sound to some of you, I do have to spell it out for the guy in the back row who wasn't paying attention...LOL. If you are the kind of guy who still defines his manhood by "quantity" versus "quality", then please keep moving on and do not message me. I am quality, and will not accept being one of your minions. By the way, "wants to date but nothing serious" is just a nice way of saying, "I want to have sex with you and never call you again..." So if that's your "intent", then no thanks..The first few people I met on this site weren't even the same people who were in the pictures. This is equally as disturbing as back row guy....Why can't you people just be the same people in the pictures???? The gig will be up at one point or another! Okay, true story: so, my sister went on another dating site and met up with a guy who she was talking to for a couple of weeks and dude shows up to their first date in a wheelchair!! First off, I have no problem with folks in a wheelchair. What I DO have a problem with is the lack of disclosure...the bait and switch...just don't do this gentlemen. For this reason, I will not text incessantly with you for days and weeks without TALKING on the phone. What's so wrong with talking anyways? I guess it can be terrifying to some without a personality, but part of physical attraction is chemistry and I can tell more about how this relationship will go by a conversation. Plus, if you only text me and you can't have a conversation, I will be convinced you are either married or live with your girlfriend....which is a perfect segue to my next no-no....The next string of guys I met off meetville all had girlfriends aka that one "CRAZY EX" that just "won't go away". C'mon fellas...women don't cling unless they're still getting the ding-a-ling. If you have a crazy ex or baby mama, this is not going to work. I have dated guys from meetville (all unbeknownst to me) who are: married with a 7 month pregnant wife, living with their girlfriend who's "just a friend"...believe me, I've heard every excuse imaginable. So at this point, your thoughts are that I'm "jaded...cynical....bitter". No, not really. If I were any of those things, I wouldn't be giving this internet dating malarkey another chance.- Consequently, I am here...on meetville...hoping for a different result than my former experiences. I would be lying if I said I take any of this too seriously, but you have to admit, it did make for an entertaining read :) To be honest, I have a daughter. She is 8, totally awesome, and the two of us deserve the world. In honor of her, I will not tolerate any more douche bags with insecurity issues (being that insecurity is the root of seeking quantity vs. quality). I am a very stable woman. I have been a single mother for 8 years. I have an amazing job, I provide for my daughter and myself, so I don't "need" a man, I just want one. I am at the highest point in Maslow's heirarchy of needs where I'm ready for self-actualization (although my "sexual intimacy" category could use some cultivating as of late). If there is a guy out there for me....awesome! If I have to do this life alone....okay, whatever, not a big deal! Do not mistake my aloof attitude for lack of want or passion...:) I'm not really sure why I just totally went ghetto right there, but hey! decent prose, right? :)) So will the real slim (not shady) please stand up?? :***last thing :***I go to the gym constantly. One could argue that I have OCGD...obsessive compulsive gym disorder. I am attracted to guys who are as passionate about the gym as I am. Just going to the gym is not enough for me.....I like men who can lift heavier weight than I can....so no, spin class and cross fit do not count. And if you ride your bike down busy streets with your tight spandex and retarded helmet, chances are, I have chucked something out the window in an effort to teach you a lesson at some point. They have bike paths for you people!!! Use them!!! LOL. Okay, I am done...... My best response to this is very simple. I've said it before and I'll say it again: We meet at the airport...no bags, oh no, we aren't going anywhere....we just sit at the airport bar and "people watch". I used to be a flight attendant, so trust me, this is amazing.e. where they're going, where they've been, why are they screaming into their Star Trek blue tooth device at this invisible, omniscient boss so intensely....are they really THAT important? Is it really necessary to be screaming like that? The best is when they drop their bag or laptop...then they have to bend down and furiously stuff all the papers into their leather bonded briefcase, sweat pouring from their hairline to their furrowed brow....somehow, when we're buzzed, their bad day just became our best day...Now THAT is true comedy....LOLOLOL

  • Takako

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Family is important to me and like to travel and meeting new people. I\'m driven, honest, successful. And open minded. Waiting for a message from a sincere person, without skeletons in their wardrobes.

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