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Jessie, 31

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About Me

I want the real thing. Incredible chemistry, laughter, curiosity, adventure, amazement, desire, craving, discovery, joy -- expanding over time into a deep friendship, respect, realism, flaws, arguments, forgiveness, acceptance, admiration, understanding, loyalty, a tiny two-person family together, a life hand-in-hand.I want to truly see you and be truly seen in return.About me: I'm trying as hard as I can. Trying to honor the deathbed me rather than filling her with regret. Awkwardly and earnestly and relentlessly pursuing connection with other people. Taking wonder in those little everyday things. Like that cup of coffee when I first get into work. Or the breeze. Or sunlight through the trees. Or the anticipation of opening the mailbox. Or 93.5 FM. Or clean sheets. Being outside as much as possible. Dancing. Having my nose in a book all day. Not watching TV. Looking at art. I just learned to throw a football. I crave physical touch. I'm into music. I love children and animals. Sometimes I want to live in a cabin in the woods but then LA pleasantly surprises me.I'm a bunch of contradictions, just like you. I'm confident often, insecure intermittently. I eat healthy, except for those damn burritos. I'm quite ambitious, but love to spend the day in bed. I love to dress up; I love to go camping. I'm logical and rational; I'm often overcome with emotion. I'm independent and assertive, but melt when you insist on buying me dinner. I'm an atheist who thinks it all means nothing, but I also think it means everything. I don't believe in soul mates -- but I'm looking for mine anyway.And you? You are uncommonly smart. You enjoy banter. You make me laugh. You are mature and responsible but also silly a lot of the time. You are not desperate for a relationship but totally open to commitment with the right person. You want that relationship to be both stable and exciting. You can stand up to and take care of a strong woman. You want to be an awesome dad one day. You are into having new experiences. You want an unconventional, meaningful life with a partner you respect. You want to wake up on Sunday morning and eat homemade pancakes. It's not creative, but I like to grab a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mathilde

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I'm still semi-new to the area and excited to meet new people and familiarize myself with the area. I am very close with my family and am lucky to have the best friends ever. I love trying new things and pushing myself to grow and evolve. I'm pretty much up for anything (I draw the line at skydiving, though...I think)...I'm a pretty big Steelers fan--don't hate now). Education is important to me and hopefully you too. I am someone who...loves to laugh (at others and myself), dreams big, is passionate about learning (I'm a teacher), is creative, loves my dog, appreciates quick wit and snarkiness (is that a word?), travels when possible, and always tries to pay it forward. About you:You are honest and have a great sense of humor (two of the most important qualities for me). You also are genuine, considerate, intelligent, open minded, and romantic (even just slightly). It's the little things that are most meaningful. You're adventurous, encouraging, and push me out of my comfort zone every now and then. You value family and close friends and envision yourself with your own family someday. You are educated and ambitious, but also goofy and playful. You can cook because I really can't (I do try), but I CAN wash dishes ;-) You are someone that is a bit tired of reading this, but wants to know more, so send me an ***'s chat! ;-) Let's be honest...first dates can be awkward. I usually prefer to meet over a drink or two and see how it goes from there. Doing something active on a first date, though, has always been fun and doesn't leave you just staring at each other if conversation isn't flowing at first. :)

  • Jancis

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I'm out going love to be around ppl love music I listen mostly to r&b I love my job and have one child

  • Amparo

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Please read before messaging me...people say looks don't matter but they do. I don't want a Greek god just someone I can like looking at. This means have nice teeth. I have all of mine. Firstly: I am not in here to find someone to have random sex with!!! So don't come at me sideways. Secondly: I prefer athletic men who are attractive, if you are not attractive don't send me a message. Thirdly: I have a busy life, with kids, work and home. I like to read and I enjoy working. I also write short stories and poetry. I like to volunteer my time to good causes. I spend much of my time outdoors. During the summer I kayak and do a lot of swimming. Camping is also something I do a lot of. I'll be going back to school next semester. I am working on an English degree. Im up for anything that does not involve kid stuff. A movie would be a great start. I don't like mushy gushy girls movies! Drinks after would be awesome.

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