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Bennie, 26

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About Me

I like to think I am a well balanced nerd. On the practical side I am a high school English teacher. I also work a part time at the outlet mall off of I-40. I own my own home, and I like to garden. I have three dogs and a cat. I like to cook and bake when I have the energy. I make a mean cupcake. I'm not particularly athletic. In high school I was in theater and choir and dance. I did a little dance in college too.I am kind of a nerd according to my students. I watch Doctor Who, play some video games when I have the time, and read sci-fi/ fantasy books when I have the free time. I don't do online gaming, but I do own a PS3 and am looking forward to the PS4. I love the Firefly series and movie. I used to work renaissance fairs in college and high school. I am crafty, I make stuff and sell it on etsy and I sometimes do conventions and craft fairs with my stuff.I don't follow sports, but I can talk about football, basketball, and baseball. I do occasionally enjoy a good game of football. I like hip hop, rock, some metal, dub step, country, and show tunes. On average I listen to pop/rock. I watch just about every kind of movie. I love horror and action but I'm a girl and so romantic comedy does own a little piece of me. I'm kind of picky about my comedy, I don't do stupid comedy. I did however love Waiting and most other Jim Carrey movies.I generally only drink socially or if I have a really bad day. I don't have a problem with it, I just don't for some reason. I own a hookah but have never been to a hookah bar. Always wanted to, but never have. I don't smoke anything else and never have. I like going out to movies,art walks, and shopping. My favorite food is Asian, specifically sushi of all kinds. I am not a club scene kind of girl. While I like them for specific occasions and parties I don't think they are good for first dates. Something quiet with culture or that shows your personality would be amazing . Maybe dinner at a fun restaurant and then like a jazz bar, or fun quirky dessert shop then drinks. I am a bit of a hopeless romantic so there is that. Really I just want originality and effort. Even if the service sucks, and the food is burned, and the speakers blow out, if it is obvious you put in effort that's all that really matters to me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    My life has had the most growth in the last 3 years. I went from someone desprate to find love, insecure and searching for who I was. All that changed when I developed a relationship with Christ. I have learned that I am perfectly content being single...if thats God's will for me, I have learned that I am a beautiful person inside and out, I have learned that I have so many amazing things to offer someone and I cannot wait to start lifes adventures with someone who inspires me to be a better person and who I inspire to be a better person. I understand my worth like I have never before experienced...seriously. I mow my own lawn and can change my own oil and tires. I have to thank the men of my past for being so worthless that I had no choice but to stand on my own 2 feet. I think it was God's plan to develope me into a woman of great strength. I know what I like and what I dont like and will gladly share those details with anyone who cares to know. I am very driven and ambitious and I have accomploshed most of the goals I have set out for my life. I am not saying I never fall short, but when I did I can honestly say I gave it all I had. I am also not saying that I am perfect or flawless...I have flaws and many of them but I can boast in my weakness because I live by the grace of God. I don't hide things in the dark to appear to be flawless. Some of those flaws are that, when I love...I love fiercely. I dont drink often but every once in a while, I may have a few too many and make a bad decision or two. Sometimes I find it hard to compromise and have to be continously aware of this so that I can grow to be more flexible. So with all that said...I want someone that can accept me for who I am, and I promise to do the same. I want someone who puts in the effort to get to know exactly who I am and how I came to be that person. I need someone who is more in love with Jesus than they ever will be for me because if a man puts Christ first, they will know how to love me. I want someone who wants me...but does not need me to complete their self worth. When I find someone that I want to pursue...it will be a desire, a want...not a need. A need is simply something u have to have for survival...a want is an active choice that even though u do not need me...u are willing to commit good and bad because having me in ur life enriches it...not complete it. My life is completed by Christ and I want the same in a partner. A relationship is hard work and it requires that every day u wake up and say no matter what I want to be in this relationshio and will do what is in my power to out the other persons needs and desires above my own to for the better of the two. The problem is that most men in my experience are intemidated by a woman who is fine without a man...I can assure u, if I am in a relationship with a man I will work everyday to make them feel how much I appreciate them and all that they bring into my life to make it better. If u would like to know more or like what I have said or have questions or concerns...please message me...I will gladly explain or answer any questions. I love meeting new people and investing time to learn what makes them who they are...u can learn so much about life through the eyes of someone new. I have also started a new adventure to become active and athletic and over all healthy. Its not about weight loss, all thought thats a bonus and I could use to lose a few...but its more about living everyday to the fullest and extending the amount of time that I get to experience this amazing thing called life...I would charish having someone to experience lifes adventures with. Use you imagination and think outside the box. I will absolutely not go to dinner and the movies on the first date, your going to have to put in a little more thought than that.

  • Sherika

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    I like to be outside when OK weather is nice. Hiking, fishing, going to the lake, picnics, walks, Thunder Basketball, OU football, road trips to no where or just sitting on the patio enjoying a good book and a good snuggle!.. LOL, I know such a chick... I am taking my last 2 classes to finish my bachelors degree and will hopefully start my Masters in May ***. I have goals and aspirations to excel in life and have a great paying job to allow me to do what I want. With that said I want a man who has goals and aspirations to excel in life and a career as well. I don't want to be a sugar momma. I want a man who knows how to take care of a woman in her emotional needs. I want somebody who has manners!! Opens the door for me, says please and thank you, tells me I look nice when I get all dolled up for a date. I am somebody who can wear shorts and t-shirt and talk all dirty with a group of the "guys", but can get all dressed up for a black tie event and take home to momma. I love kids, but haven't found the right guy to have kids with. Also, not 100% sure I want to have my own kids in this society, but for the right guy who takes care of me and shows me that I'm the most important thing I would be willing to have kids. I want to feel like the most important person in the man's heart. I don't mind if the guy has kids full or part time, but I've done the baby mama drama and don't want to do that again. I like PDA so you have to be willing to hold hands, hug, kiss, snuggle. I love to laugh and joke around, but know we have bills and life to afford so I have a serious side. There is so much more I could write about, but that will be up to somebody fitting this criteria and sending me a message to get to know me more.... I love Mexican food so I would have to say a first date to eat Mexican food. It doesn't have to be anywhere fancy. Somebody willing to pick me up and open the car door and say I look pretty. Then after dinner go someplace quiet to talk to get to know you better like a coffee shop or park depending on the weather. And then drop me back off like a gentleman not expecting to get laid on the first date. I don't work that way. Also, it's nice to not really have to plan the date. Have the guy think of something romantic to do is always nice.

  • Baby

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I'm 27 years old. I'm a full time nurse,full time student and most importantly a full time single mom to the most amazing little boy on the face of the planet. He's my only child and he was born in March of this year. He means absolutely everything to me. His dad and I arent together,obviously,but we do talk almost every day (as friends)and about our son. There is absolutely no chance that we would ever be back together, but we do get along well for the sake of the baby.I love kids and would not mind dating someone who had more at all. I'm ready to find someone who is looking for the same things as me. I want to settle down and have a family life.

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