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Raquel, 35
United States, Alabama, Pell City

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About Me

I'm THAT girl. I'm the one that is NOT batsh*t crazy. I'm that pretty cool chick. Intelligent, down to earth, emotionally connected, intuitive and drama free. I don't argue, get passive aggressive, or play the fight over something stupid, break up and have great make up sex game. I'm the total package, minus the Barbie body and the finalized divorce. ;-) After thrEe years, you'd think I'd have that done by now....but at least I have a great story! Anyway....I should mention that I'm a self employed Real Estate Agent. It's my more than full time gig, in addition to being a full time Mom. It is how I feed my family. So....feel free to message me if you are interested in buying or selling or are facing foreclosure. (*Sorry, shameless plug, but this is, after all, an advertisement anyway, right?) I seek passion, heart, and soul. Those cannot be bought or paid for other than by the dues of life. Love in life and all things is what drives me. It used to be money.My friends consider me to be a warm, passionate, loving, generous & caring person...but there is fun and fire behind the sweetness ;-) I am usually more of a listener than a talker but I'm not exactly an introvert. I'm extremely laid back and from the East coast....thus, my skin is pretty thick which means it takes a lot to ruffle my feathers. I'm all for wit, sarcasm & dry humor. Go ahead and bring it, but you're gonna get it right back! ;-) I’m compassionate & empathetic....a lover AND a fighter if it is something that I am passionate about!I should get back to the Barbie body comment before we get too far. I am a big girl. A half fat chick....but hey, I used to be a WHOLE fat chick :-) "Pear" or "Diamond" shaped. That means a big booty and crazy amazon thighs that have a lotta cellulite. Yes, I said the C word. I will even say the other C word if you tie me up and spank me ;-) Hey, look...I'm not a lazy unhealthy slob, either....110lbs down and done the RIGHT way....but due to a metabolic disorder, I may have to go to Germany to get rid of the rest. More about that if you get to know me.Regardless, if you don't like 'extra padding', 'big', 'thick', 'fat', or 'curvy', I am not your girl....so please don't accuse me of just lacking confidence or having a warped self image. Trust me, when clothes are off, from the waist down Im a BBW. If that's a problem, good luck in love and life.For the past few years, I have been focused on having a healthy household...and not in a good way. I'm focused on improving my business and am determined to take it to the next level. I am a constant work in progress! I am also just trying to de-clutter my environment, enjoy life and be the best Mom that I can be.I share 50% custody of 2 amazing little girls and the cutest little boy. Yep....3 little ones. I love being a Mom! If you have never been in a relationship with a single Mom (especially one with THREE) it really is a whole different lifestyle. It means you have to share me. A lot. If you have kids, that's great, because hopefully you will actually 'get it'.I don't fail well or give up easily. I dive right in, I don't wait to be taught. I don’t sweat the small stuff but I do appreciate the small moments and the little things. I have learned how to get over it and let it go. I don’t hold grudges and I forgive too easily. Though I'm a pain in the as* to date, I have so much love to give.I'm not much of a 'rules' girl, I've kind of tried to find a way around them just about all of my life. I am spontaneous to a fault...I am not a planner. I moved to AZ from CT in ***w/2 suitcases, my dog & $***. I love spur of the moment drives or trips or adventures out & I love surprises. I am a night owl but I love sleep. I am easily distracted, disorganized, and late for just about everything but somehow I still manage not to piss everyone off.I'm a huge fan of communication and telling it like it is. I am a total smart ass & if you get me going, I could make a sailor blush when I'm not consciously watching my mouth. I tend to over think and over communicate. If you don't want to know what I really think, don't ask ;-)I believe that Science and Nature prove there is a Higher Power, a Designer of life; its proliferation and evolution. I don't, however, believe in organized religion...though I respect that others do. I think it is arrogant to believe we are alone in the Universe.My place is definitely NOT in the kitchen, but I try! I love finding where the best restaurants are hidden. I'm not a natural housewife either....I am a firm believer in outsourcing whenever possible!I believe in love and passion and one without the other, although maybe fun, is not worth pursuing in depth. I LOVE SEX ...BUT....Casual sex is just not my thing.What I REQUIRE: Simply put... What I am looking for is NOT perfection!!! I am VERY far from perfect. I do hope to find 'the one' who is "right" for me. Hopefully your sheer existence in my life motivates me to be the best that I can be...and vice versa....men who are at least somewhat dominant, intelligent, witty/sarcastic, articulate, older than me, and taller/bigger than me. Metrosexual is not necessary and can even be a turn off. If you take longer in the bathroom than me, we are never gonna get anywhere (literally). Your mind, eyes & heart, however, are the most important of all!I won't make you chase me but I'm not gonna be easy. Pursuit, when done right, ...is super hot. It's all about the chemistry....it won't really matter what we are doing or where we are if we hit it off! A little swanky, intimate atmosphere with low lighting will hopefully lead to great conversation. Food or drinks or coffee, doesn't matter so much for the first meet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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