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Lakisha, 51

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About Me

I am looking for a man who can challenge my mind, makes me think & respects women & others. It was time I updated my photos, and a few other comments ***. I have been on this site for a few years now. I think you all should know it works! I have met and dated some really cool, interesting and fun guys and some again for round 2. For one reason or another they did not work out at this time. However, I have forged some great friendships out of this. I love my job and I am very successful at it, that being said, I don't have a lot of time, I have a very close network of friends I love hanging out with, so I am taking my time in looking to see who would blend well with me, my friends and lifestyle. Everyone has some sort of baggage at this stage of age, so no worries there, life is not perfect. So be patient if I do not respond back as quickly, I go on binges with this site, I am on it for awhile then I'm not (esp. if I start seeing someone...one at a time). So if you think you are the one...tell me About me: I love being active.. working out & yoga. I participating in a variety of sports mostly water ones, boating, surfing, scuba diving & riding my bike to meet up w/ friends. I prefer outdoors to indoors, most music...a little of everything... smooth jazz, rock and love new country. I like college & pro football, having friends over for a BBQ, traveling, checking out new restaurants, volunteering community events, dancing & keeping life exciting.-shirt/flip flops grabbing a gl wine/beer/fish tacos w/ friends by the sea. My friends say I am classy & polished and I do love wining & dining and clean up nicely and would like a man to do the same. I am fun... not scared to cut loose as I know when to keep a little composure. So this brings me to my quest of looking for someone who can introduce me to new and exciting things. Down time for me is falling asleep on a raft (in the pool or ocean) after work, kickin back for a good movie, downloading a great recipe or reading. And here's some thing I've learned... flossing is important, laughing is essential, perfection is impossible. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't....Must not get seasick, take your self too serious, be allergic to animals or the sun. Keep it simple...refreshment by the sea.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rochelle

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    A zest for life (lemons preferred over limes). Optimistic, energetic, creative, generous. I love pretty much anything to do with the outdoors. My music: any genre but it's gotta move me (the toes, the hips or the soul; small hole-in-the-wall venues or concerts). I can easily go from a home improvement project in the morning to the theater or a fundraising event in the evening. I'm into travel near and far (travel light and passport ready). I'm not into traffic or filing paperwork. I can't sing (but sometimes that doesn't stop me). I've taken golf lessons and will play but that hasn't improved my game -- maybe it's those ***'s clubs I have. I don't think I could be convinced to bungee jump or eat a bug with lots of legs. Other than that, I'm open to try most anything.As far as you go: You can make me laugh. Optimistic, adventurous, fun, genuine, honest, communicative. You’re willing to join me in the kitchen (but you don't necessarily need to know how to cook). You’ll share some of your interests with me and are keen to trying out some of mine. Planned or spontaneous -- I'm game!

  • Mariyah

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    First line up there? If you get it, please give it a chuckle. Thanks. I appreciate that. I hate the new descriptors meetville is using, so if you are looking for a coffee snob, it ain't me. I don't drink coffee. But I really don't think film tv buff is me either. Sure I watch them but they certainly aren't my life. The whole am I looking for a date, a husband or a partner forever thing puts me off as well. Why can't there be multiple choices there? I don't know. I was with my husband for 28 years or so, then he died. I dated a bit, then found an online guy. Who lived too far away. Well that guy dumped me for a local gal after almost three years. I truly don't know what I want now. I just know I don't want that. I hesitate to put that here on meetville because when I did I ran into all kinds of people I know. And I know well. And sure I'm not at the point where this isn't all a little embarrassing still. Damn if only I was still twenty and cute as hell! I'd walk down the street and get dates and marriage proposals! Job offers too! But life has gone on and I'm just an older chubbier chick looking for something real. Back to my scheduled profile:DARE TO BE GREATLooking for a caring, trustworthy, witty, tolerant man who,DOESN'T MIND A WOMAN WITH MORE THAN CARRY-ON BAGGAGE!Because I have baggage, lots of baggage, to wit;I was happily married, 28 years, no, you are right, you can not compete with a dead man. And I will never ask you to!I have children! You read that right children. And......it gets better! They all live with me. No joint custody, no grandparents. just me. Yes, two are old enough to move out and one even did!, however, for now, as long as I need THEM, they are staying. And they are my responsibility, so no worries! So, okay, if the first two didn't get ya, this one should. I live in the middle of NOWHERE.....I like walking, reading, cooking, just hanging out. I love concerts, museums, checking out new places and people. I like driving fast and riding motorcycles, but I am not a biker. I love hanging out with my kids and learning from them.I drink, but never to excess. I'd rather watch other people make fools of themselves than do it myself.I love my job and the people that I work with and meet there.I am a redhead, by choice and refuse to give in to grey!!!! I am too young to be old.I am readjusting my life to being single. I am not a divorcee, if you don't know what that means, figure it out.I do have kids and I am now for the first time in my life a single mom. They are great kids and are practically self sufficient, but they do need me occasionally.I run a business and I have very flexible hours that allow me to take care of family, friends and have a private life as well. I live near a city center and like going over and listening to bands and going to comedy clubs. I like to dance but I am a little shy on the dance floor. Okay, fixing that, apparently with one shot of tequila I am not shy at all.Hey, just existing, trying to have fun. Filling in time between work and kids with this website. I guess it's more fun than playing solitaire, not sure, let me check my cards.What am I really good at? No clue. Reading, writing, arithmetic? Balancing the books?I wish I could say reading people, but no. I wish I could say seeing the future, but no.I guess I'm okay at raising kids and doing the juggling act between work, family and trying to have a, uh, hmm, well, you know, social life. I do try.Okay, my sense of humor is well developed. Sorry guys but that means, no, I really don't enjoy Southpark that much, but I don't care if you do.I do settle disputes relatively well, luckily as it is part of my job, helps with a big family as well.Ah, thought of one at last, I am really good at remaining calm during emergencies, is this one? First date huh? Well I would say meet for coffee. But I don't drink coffee. I do drink tea though. The only problem with that is I generally live too far away to just meet for coffee. So I don't know. Get together and figure out if we click or not would be the most important thing. If that's over a pizza or a drink, either is fine.

  • Lelah

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    MEMO: I feel I need to add this, I have had a number of gentlemen contact me and meet but it seems that they all had one thing in common and that is that they all thought we were going to jump in the sack together right off. Well.. that is NOT going to happen so figure might as well put it out there now and save us all some time and hassle. I don't go w/ that 3 date thing either by the way I will guarantee that it will be lot longer then 3 dates before we make our way to the bedroom together. I need to know some one really well to get to that point, you see I am one of those strange women that when I give the body the heart follows.............If you are still interested please read on............. My hobbies are trail ridding and working with my horses(3 AQH & I am intrested in a lot of things and passionate about everything, I'm an open book so all one has to do is ask and I will tell you what ever it is that you would like to know, just be sure that you really want to know cause I'm not to good at sugar coating, don't believe in it. I am 100% country and have tried the city /town life but just can't do it, so might as well put it out there now *** later. I would relocate gladly for the right person but not to town. I figure better to know your limets and be honest about them as to have them cause difficulties down the rd. I do like to dance, Ginger I'm not but I have fun trying,I enyoy most all types of music but I'm mostly country, classical, and old time rock and roll. Love to take rd. I'm not a couch potato but do love to snuggle on it w/ the right person. I would say that my main goal in life is to find stay active and agile as long as I can. This says to discribe what makes me unique, well we are all unique in our own way, but if you want a person that is an all the cards on the table kind of gal,that can calve out cows, disk the feid in the spring, and has raisd 5 kids and works as a care giver/cna then drop me a line. I thank you for taking time to read this and wish you the same luck at finding what you are looking for as I hope for myself and always remember "life is what you make of it, if it doesn't fit then make alterations. My perfect date is one that we both have fun, enjoy each others company and one that keeps me smiling for days. No set place but a lot of possiblilties

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