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Mariyah, 54
United States, Alabama, Muscle Shoals

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About Me

First line up there? If you get it, please give it a chuckle. Thanks. I appreciate that. I hate the new descriptors meetville is using, so if you are looking for a coffee snob, it ain't me. I don't drink coffee. But I really don't think film tv buff is me either. Sure I watch them but they certainly aren't my life. The whole am I looking for a date, a husband or a partner forever thing puts me off as well. Why can't there be multiple choices there? I don't know. I was with my husband for 28 years or so, then he died. I dated a bit, then found an online guy. Who lived too far away. Well that guy dumped me for a local gal after almost three years. I truly don't know what I want now. I just know I don't want that. I hesitate to put that here on meetville because when I did I ran into all kinds of people I know. And I know well. And sure I'm not at the point where this isn't all a little embarrassing still. Damn if only I was still twenty and cute as hell! I'd walk down the street and get dates and marriage proposals! Job offers too! But life has gone on and I'm just an older chubbier chick looking for something real. Back to my scheduled profile:DARE TO BE GREATLooking for a caring, trustworthy, witty, tolerant man who,DOESN'T MIND A WOMAN WITH MORE THAN CARRY-ON BAGGAGE!Because I have baggage, lots of baggage, to wit;I was happily married, 28 years, no, you are right, you can not compete with a dead man. And I will never ask you to!I have children! You read that right children. And......it gets better! They all live with me. No joint custody, no grandparents. just me. Yes, two are old enough to move out and one even did!, however, for now, as long as I need THEM, they are staying. And they are my responsibility, so no worries! So, okay, if the first two didn't get ya, this one should. I live in the middle of NOWHERE.....I like walking, reading, cooking, just hanging out. I love concerts, museums, checking out new places and people. I like driving fast and riding motorcycles, but I am not a biker. I love hanging out with my kids and learning from them.I drink, but never to excess. I'd rather watch other people make fools of themselves than do it myself.I love my job and the people that I work with and meet there.I am a redhead, by choice and refuse to give in to grey!!!! I am too young to be old.I am readjusting my life to being single. I am not a divorcee, if you don't know what that means, figure it out.I do have kids and I am now for the first time in my life a single mom. They are great kids and are practically self sufficient, but they do need me occasionally.I run a business and I have very flexible hours that allow me to take care of family, friends and have a private life as well. I live near a city center and like going over and listening to bands and going to comedy clubs. I like to dance but I am a little shy on the dance floor. Okay, fixing that, apparently with one shot of tequila I am not shy at all.Hey, just existing, trying to have fun. Filling in time between work and kids with this website. I guess it's more fun than playing solitaire, not sure, let me check my cards.What am I really good at? No clue. Reading, writing, arithmetic? Balancing the books?I wish I could say reading people, but no. I wish I could say seeing the future, but no.I guess I'm okay at raising kids and doing the juggling act between work, family and trying to have a, uh, hmm, well, you know, social life. I do try.Okay, my sense of humor is well developed. Sorry guys but that means, no, I really don't enjoy Southpark that much, but I don't care if you do.I do settle disputes relatively well, luckily as it is part of my job, helps with a big family as well.Ah, thought of one at last, I am really good at remaining calm during emergencies, is this one? First date huh? Well I would say meet for coffee. But I don't drink coffee. I do drink tea though. The only problem with that is I generally live too far away to just meet for coffee. So I don't know. Get together and figure out if we click or not would be the most important thing. If that's over a pizza or a drink, either is fine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Thai Action Martial Arts Romance
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