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Cara, 54

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Hi,First of all, Thanks for stopping by. Let's get this smoking thing out on the table. I quit backslid and at this point seem to be on the way to winning the battle to set them down for good. (a work in progress)There are tons of things I enjoy. I don't have to be the best at something to have fun doing it. I like to play......a lot. From volleyball to tic tac toe :). I also enjoy peace, quiet and a mindless evening of sitcoms or movies. I have a fairly quick, sometimes sarcastic, wit. I try to make the best of what ever task I have to do. I am so not afraid of acting silly and have been known to do so on several occasions. I like to think of myself as having a thick skin, but when it comes down to it I will cry at the drop of a hat. Oh well....I work at a local gym. I enjoy my gym job because of the relationships I get to build, a staff that is like a second family to me and the people I get to help. I have 3 grown kids. Different as night and day. Love the stuffins out of all 3.I like most kinds of music, I grew up with Pink Floyd etc..... so I'm pretty much all over the map, If you can throw a little hip into it I'm all about it. I do enjoy being outdoors when it's not ***and humid. Hiking, back of a bike, concert, community theatre, sports bar, I'll even go fishing every now and then, I stink at golf but enjoy playing (at it), darts, swimming, cold beer warm night, Baily's on a cold one. Travel seeing new things. Attending sporting events. For some reason I really like hockey, (go figure) I am at a point in my life where I am getting to be a little better at expressing myself........ ..; :(. I am about living my life to the fullest . If it won't get me killed or thrown in jail I'm all in! I have spent a lot of years tending to other peoples needs and am ready to tend to my ownThat being said things are always so much better if you have someone to share them with..... I love to be cared for and return the favor. Snuggle, hand holding, open my door for me, Have my heart. Consideration & Caring.. I am one of the most caring, compassionate smart asses you will ever meet.I'm looking for someone who is comfortable in his own skin. Easy going and quick witted. Someone adventurous enough to try something new. While not being opposed to a night of just relaxing together. Having a tuff time findin current pics this sight will accept. The ones posted are just a couple of years old. Stay tuned. I finally found one that is current. If you are very observant you will notice my hair color changes with the seasons, my mood, or just because. It's just hair :) I have started to write this five times five different ways. The main thing I keep coming back to is meeting somewhere for a drink or coffee where we can hear each other and exchange our stories, then we see where the it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vania

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    This is the part I don't like!!! Recently divorced and looking to move on. I like to travel, road trips are my favorite. I enjoy the theatre, concerts, gardening, painting, reading, the beach, boats, hiking, fishing, working out, the shooting range, quiet dinners at home, or a night on the town. I enjoy my job, love my kids and 2 grandchildren. I like all music, even some rap. I'm pretty laid back, love to laugh, have a good time and try new things. The one thing I've always wanted to do, but haven't yet is skydive!!! Coffee, a drink, or a walk on the beach to see if we "click"

  • Ascelina

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I'm restoring an old house ***. Wish I'd paid more attention in geometry class, lol. I have a love hate relationship with it. I love it in the summer, and live like a pioneer in the winter. I try to heat with wood, so yes...I can wesplit my own wood. I love living in a neighborhood that creates such deep friendships.I'm as comfortable in the city as I am in the country. It's all about balance in life. I drive a truck, live mostly in jeans, but will dress up for the symphony or special nights at the museum and I know how to use the correct fork or spoon. I live a pretty quiet life. Books, dogs, antiquing, movies, (miss my horses,) walks, boating, long drives, Autumn days, farmers markets....they keep me content. It's kind of important to me that the man in my life enjoys books. We don't have to enjoy the same things. Diversity makes things more interesting. If you don't have any animals in your life, my crew might overwhelm you. I have 4 dogs and a kitten. To me, there is always room for one more lost or unloved animal. I listen to just about every style of music. I have a little bit of everything in my music cloud. I consider myself an independent vs a left or right wing. While I am not religious, I am quite spiritual. Organized religion isn't me. I am drawn to our Native American's spirituality. Everything has a purpose and ought to be respected.My TV choices find me as boring as everyone else, Criminal Minds, Revolution, Scandal, The Walking Dead... I like the same dramas you probably like. I'm not into the half hour comedies. I enjoy dramas or good scary vs comedy or love story movies. Men that interest me are bright, they think out of the box. They are passionate and compassionate. They are accomplished and sometimes quirky. I enjoy conversation and learning something during those conversions. For me it's your heart and passion, it's also your brain and your thoughts. You are a compassionate man and have humility. You are passionate and have an artistic and altruistic interest in your world. I don't care if you jump out of planes as long as you don't care that I won't. You are confident and have a great sense of humor. Humor is important to me. Sometimes it's all that separates us from going nuts. You have multiple interests and are complex. You are a man that would not walk away from someone or thing in need, you'd get involved. You are creative. Either with your hands or thoughts. Best of both worlds would have you creative in both. I'm sure you probably have some issues, we all do. However, if you have so many that I need to hire a teamster to put them in a cargo hold... we may not be a good fit.I have one pet peeve... illiteracy in a profile keeps me from reading to the end. If this is to work I might as well start off with the disclosure of one of my quirks.I'm self employed. I provide a service for ladies, that by any ones definition, would be considered a luxury . Soooo, with our current economic climate some days are diamonds, some days are jet. This is the awkward area. How do you determine a first date until you've had a chance to talk and learn something about the other. Something breezy, a coffee shop where we can talk. A book store. We can talk and browse. A greenhouse, an antique shop. Heck, I can and do have fun in hardware stores. Let's meet at a park with our dogs and while they play in the water or leaves we can chat.

  • Mala

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I very much like to be in a happy mood. I am looking for an honest , real man. If there is any out there . I am looking for a friend, confidante, someone i can talk to , someone who can appreciate me for me ., I realized alot being divorced for 2 years , i realized how many times he cheated, lied, and everything was about him.!!!!!!, I like being me , I like being alone, but it does get lonely , i go to movies alone , actually i do everything alone . Wouldnt mind having a friend, go out to dinner , lunch or breakfeast . go to a movie . Im not into a roll in the hay , or a friend with benefits , so to each of us good luck !Dislikes : lying, b.s. drama, very hairy people, doing nothing, drives to no where , traffic, un happy people .PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE UNDER 50.YEARS OLD !!!!!! coffee, ? whatever we decide

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