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Cara, 54
United States, Alabama, Leeds

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Hi,First of all, Thanks for stopping by. Let's get this smoking thing out on the table. I quit backslid and at this point seem to be on the way to winning the battle to set them down for good. (a work in progress)There are tons of things I enjoy. I don't have to be the best at something to have fun doing it. I like to play......a lot. From volleyball to tic tac toe :). I also enjoy peace, quiet and a mindless evening of sitcoms or movies. I have a fairly quick, sometimes sarcastic, wit. I try to make the best of what ever task I have to do. I am so not afraid of acting silly and have been known to do so on several occasions. I like to think of myself as having a thick skin, but when it comes down to it I will cry at the drop of a hat. Oh well....I work at a local gym. I enjoy my gym job because of the relationships I get to build, a staff that is like a second family to me and the people I get to help. I have 3 grown kids. Different as night and day. Love the stuffins out of all 3.I like most kinds of music, I grew up with Pink Floyd etc..... so I'm pretty much all over the map, If you can throw a little hip into it I'm all about it. I do enjoy being outdoors when it's not ***and humid. Hiking, back of a bike, concert, community theatre, sports bar, I'll even go fishing every now and then, I stink at golf but enjoy playing (at it), darts, swimming, cold beer warm night, Baily's on a cold one. Travel seeing new things. Attending sporting events. For some reason I really like hockey, (go figure) I am at a point in my life where I am getting to be a little better at expressing myself........ ..; :(. I am about living my life to the fullest . If it won't get me killed or thrown in jail I'm all in! I have spent a lot of years tending to other peoples needs and am ready to tend to my ownThat being said things are always so much better if you have someone to share them with..... I love to be cared for and return the favor. Snuggle, hand holding, open my door for me, Have my heart. Consideration & Caring.. I am one of the most caring, compassionate smart asses you will ever meet.I'm looking for someone who is comfortable in his own skin. Easy going and quick witted. Someone adventurous enough to try something new. While not being opposed to a night of just relaxing together. Having a tuff time findin current pics this sight will accept. The ones posted are just a couple of years old. Stay tuned. I finally found one that is current. If you are very observant you will notice my hair color changes with the seasons, my mood, or just because. It's just hair :) I have started to write this five times five different ways. The main thing I keep coming back to is meeting somewhere for a drink or coffee where we can hear each other and exchange our stories, then we see where the it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Rap
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