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Carissa, 45

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About Me

Hi, I have been divorced for a couple of years now. I have two boys ages 10 and 13 who mean the world to me. They live with me the majority of the time. My ideal mate would be a man who has children of his own who understands the time and commitment it takes in raising kids. If you don't have children, it's not a deal breaker, but you do at least have to like them lol. I have been a teacher now for 22 years at the same school. I am a very giving and down to earth person. I don't like to fight and I am about as far as you can get from "high maintenance." I believe that there needs to be an equal give and take in a relationship. if you and I click, I will give 100% to the relationship and in order for it to work, you need to do the same. That doesn't mean we have to spend every waking moment together. I don't want my life to revolve around the relationship. I think it's important for me to spend quality time alone with my children sometimes as well as occasionally spend time with the girls or guys in your case. I enjoy taking road trips on the weekends, discovering new places and trying new things. I am searching for a man who is educated, financially secure, has a good sense of humor, is a good communicator and not afraid to show his affection. I don't mind spending time at home, but I don't want someone who just wants to lay on the couch and watch tv all the time. I like to get out and do things, life is too short. Going out for a drink or an ice cream, taking a walk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lolita

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am an honest open minded woman. I'm independent and already happy. I have been married and raised a family. I'm not looking to build an empire with someone yet, a partnership that is equally rewarding interest me. I want to have someone nice to spend time with who appreciates me and sees my value and just wants to enjoy the simple things in life. I'm up for a good laugh and good conversations. I'm easy to talk to and I don't play games! I'd like to meet someone who is fun and charming who likes to talk and just enjoys being together. The idea of a drive somewhere to fish and have a picnic sounds good too. I can cook and I know how to spoil a man in every way especially when its not expected. Sex is a really good thing however, I'm not interested in sharing it with strangers or friends with benefits. I've recently taken up working out and I really enjoy it. So it will be the reverse guys, Ill look better than my pictures! lol I am also looking for someone who is healthy and interested in self improvement, Body. Mind and Spirit! We can decide after a chat on the phone if we click! Maybe take our dogs for a walk in the park if you have one.

  • Shirley

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Have really enjoyed my time here and have met some great new friends but still looking to meet someone just for me!I will have to say though between my house updates have enjoyed getting out and enjoying some activities around the area, a baseball game, concert at the Three Caves a real live tractor pull - my first!! Been for a few day hikes and looking forward to the fall and seeing the colors around here.Look forward to hearing from you. Being new to the area couldn't really pin-point anything at this point but love getting out to enjoy what the community has to offer, festivals, local hang-outs and such.

  • Veronica

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking to date.. not looking for a hookup or fwb.. FYI I am not Barbie, you MUST like curves.. I have curves..lots of them... I'm looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with.I like to try new things, I'm easy going and like to go with the flow. Playing pool, dancing, karaoke, Motor Booty Affair, bowling, hockey games.. Looking to keep people that are uplifting in my life and cleaning out the people that try to push everyone down. No time for drama. I'm Scorpio so I'm very passionate, quick tempered, quick to get over it. Loyal through and through, my friends are friends for life no matter how much we screw up. I'm looking for some fun and exciting friends and exciting times. *I am not* looking for casual sex/fling. I do however have my little quirks just like everyone does. You can tune in and find me on WMPG 90.9 Starting at 6:30am every Saturday with "Anything Goes'Send me a note and I will tell you more about me. Qualities I find intriguing; someone that can laugh at themselves, do stupid silly things, laugh at life. Someone who isn't afraid to be true to themselves....*Want to get my attention, bring me coffee just the way I like it. Send a text to let me know you're thinking of me*"I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not."-Kurt Cobain.“Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.”"The worst crime is faking it." Kurt Cobain"Though the sun is gone, I have a light." Kurt Cobain"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." Kurt Cobain"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when their right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."—;Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." ~;I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not."-Kurt Cobain.“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.”"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before and she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect, you aren't either,and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more then she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when shes not there." - Bob Marley"A Wise Girl... Kisses but doesn't love. Listens but doesn't Believe. And leaves before she is Left."-“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.” Richard Bach"The worst crime is faking it." Kurt Cobain"Thought the sun is gone, I have a light." Kurt Cobain"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." Kurt Cobain"Dogs never bite me. Just humans.";I am not interested in money. I just want to be wonderful.";I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when their right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."—;Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." —;Take time to enjoy life, remember every detail, you get this one shot, one chance, there are no do overs. Learn from what you do, remember to smile. Give yourself and love freely" ~ ErinDlynn Hmmm. My first date depends on the person I am meeting and how we connect. Coffee or tea always works. Also love a good French Onion Soup, which of course is detrimental to having good breath on a date. Going to the movies would be a great second or third date.I'm looking for someone that can make me laugh, that can be themselves around me. Someone that isn't afraid of looking like a fool. Someone that doesn't mind that I'm crazy-sexy-cool,silly, spastic, or that sometimes I speak gibberish.

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